Seducing Gemini

Unless you're incredibly good looking the hardest part to seducing Gemini is often just to get and keep their attention long enough. Naturally chatty and flirtatious people, public gatherings are a particularly bad choice to try for the first time, as they are often the center of attention.

Sometimes a better appraoch to seducing Gemini is through writing. While Gemini can often be a social butterfly they tend to focus much more exclusively on the written word. Email can be a good choice, and it also allows you to do some research in between conversations, which can give you an added edge. Speaking of which, your next task is to..

Do some homework first

That's right! Find something that interests you, ideally related to science, current affairs, travel or technology, and research it for a while. Then mention the subject in conversation. Gemini will nearly always be willing to branch off a conversation, and if it turns out you know something they don't, about a subject they care about, then you'll intrigue them almost instantly.

Okay, now you have their attention (finally!) the next task when seducing Gemini is to be as mysterious and deep as possible. Give only the smallest snippets of information about yourself, ideally including some contradictory ones, and sprinkled with the occasional (researched!) snippet thrown in for good measure. Present an air of complexity Gemini's love puzzles and spontaneity, and the trick here is to be a human puzzle. If you ever get in over your head on a subject, just change the subject!


Try to leave all emotions out of any conversation, keep things light and definately don't mention marriage or commitment early on. Talk about anything and everything. You can't talk too much, and will find that your Gemini keeps pace easily and flirts right back, making it an easy task.

Getting Gemini into bed

This is usually the easy part. If you interest your Gemini enough, assuming they're single.. they'll want a sample. They don't need a huge emotional connection, or confirmation of your undying love first, and will appreciate bold and somewhat inappropriate behavior. Similarly, you don't need to worry about shocking or offending them.


Gemini appreciates variety, so feel free to be adventurous if that's your thing. If you're stuck for ideas they are fairly notorious for enjoying oral sex.

Gemini seduction using real astrology

The above is written for the "typical Gemini". In practice however each Gemini is different due to their other planet placements (moon, mars, venus etc) and some extreme examples may not resemble a Gemini much at all. This general information therefore isn't nearly as specific or accurate as a real astrology reading.

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Gemini compatibility

For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships with each of the other signs I have a separate index of articles on Gemini compatibility

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Further reading

If you're looking for ideas on where to go for a date, there's an excellent ebook 300 Creative Dates, which lists romantic, unique, fun and affordable suggestions. For seduction advice the most popular and arguably best value courses available currently are How to be irresistable to men and How to be irresistable to women. You can read reviews of these and other dating and seduction related resources on my relationship e-book reviews page.

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