How to get closer to a Scorpio man

by forbidden
(South Africa KZN)

Please help me I am older than the Scorpio man that i want. i have had confirmation that he feels the same. we flirt a lot, sometimes while talking and often with intense glares. we had ONE moment when he kissed me and we said we shouldn't do it again. i have tried to do it again, but was too upfront. how do i get more without doing or SAYING that i want it?

Everyone who has seen us can see there is something there, little touches and gestures, and always the glares that get quite intense.the hugs that are soooo much more than just friends. what do i do?

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GETTING CLOSER TO YOUR SCORPIO
by: Anonymous

Just talk to him and explain how you feel. You have nothing to lose. I was with a scorpio man for about 6 years and it was me that I approached him (although I am extremely shy)...he really appreciated that although in the beginning he tried to play games with me and make me feel confused, which I think it is a scorpio thing. I just ignored his games (I am a capricorn) and after that he was attached to me and we had an intense relationship for 6 years, with lot of jealousy until I decided that he was not the right person and I moved on. The only thing I don't get is why they enjoy hurting themselves and so the others around them with the stupid games they play.
Sorry the woman above is WRONG pt1
by: Anonymous

This is not 4 the "warm n fuzzy". So if ur not up 4 the mind game ur gonna need 2 play then I suggest u move on & pick a more romantic sign. Now,channel ur inner diva & I will give you the NITTY GRITTY on how 2 drive a Scorpio man CRAZY. I have it down 2 a science! I decided 2 test myself with the most stubborn, independent, arrogant, devilishly handsome, self titled "alpha male" scorpion man that I have ever met!. Icing the cake; he's rich! But I'm an Aquarian woman, I am above money! First of all don't be a "ditsy bimbo" u may see he keeps this type of woman around but that's not what REALLY gets him. It's intelligence & not just basic intelligence im talking near genius level! He needs 2 see u have more passion 4 knowledge then 4 him. He thinks he hold all the power & he is used 2 women "wanting him" & it's when you put him second 2 yourself that he will start paying attention. I know it sounds like madness & that's because it is! Once u have his attention YOU MUST NOT.. I repeat MUST NOT let him rile you up with his attempts 2 make you jealous(& there will be some duzies) This is a battle of wills now & he is testing u. When u get 2 this point just remember, he is actually doing this because he is VERY interested in u now! He needs 2 see if "your just like the rest of typical women in the world" or if ur "WORTHY" of him...again more madness! Arrogant bastard. Outsmarting him is the ONLY way 2 get this guy! If ur a girl who is caught up in romanticism he will never fit ur idea of the Romeo type. He doesn't do "fairy tales" or mush. Its serious for him & he is playing for some high stakes! Now I know every girl wants the "prince charming" thing 2 happen, but honey U picked the wrong guy if that is what you need, sorry:( But if u want a man that will make U feel like 'ur making love to the SUN while its exploding!" then continue reading:).. O yea; it's that intense!
Sorry the woman above is WRONG pt2
by: Anonymous


Ok so now he's calling & showing that "hell yes" attitude guess what? He wants to play now. You have become an enigma 2 him. Your sexy & taboo & dark & smart & OMG he wants U! If ur smart & paying attention U will know what U need to do now. U had better bring it when you hit them sheets 2, because ur dealing with a certifiable freak!!! A nympho in fact. This is the "make it or break it point"! SERIOUSLY! If you want to get him, be loud, be intense, & BE EMOTIONAL!! Remember EMOTION IN THE BEDROOM ONLY!!! I mean it! Don't go soft after the sex. I know it will be hard not to because this will be some of the best sex U have ever experienced. That's just fact! Get over it!Ok so now U got him hooked. If he is still playing the games then Play on! But remember the thrill for him is knowing U r his equal, U must never totally submit except when ur in the bedroom. Once it's over turn on ur powerful mind & turn the "sexy submissive" off! He can't believe it when he meets a woman with a strong intellect that he actually enjoys having sex with 2 there is either 1 or the other in his world.. hence the bimbos.
Things r changing now! Enjoy it! Hell, flat out bask in it! One last thing NEVER LET HIM KNOW THAT U KNOW HE IS FALLING! This will ruin ur efforts & he will take it as U being deceitful. Manipulative or fake is the worst thing U can be 2 him. Even though that's what it takes 2 get him, he can never know it! Well Im afraid I must stop now because Im not quite finished with my little project & I don't want to advise on the relationship past this point until I get a ring. Which I am fully capable of doing. It's simply a matter of him holding my interest long enough to follow through with the execution!
Do as I have told U then let me know how it goes. I will update as well.
Sincerely
-A True Aquarius Woman!
how to get closer to scorpio man
by: Anonymous

hi...the previous anonymous person info is great!I need help,first background info: im interested in A scorpio man,we worked together for 2 years,which he constantly flirted with me although i had a boyfriend.i just kinda ignored it and was shy at times.then 5 years passed as we changed jobs,but got intouch again.
how to get close continued
by: Anonymous

hi to continue...so after 5 years we got back in touch. And the mind games started immediatly, but hot and cold ones. For example..he wil send me a text with a simple Hi, then he also told me he always wanted me when we worked togetha. He always asks me whats on my mind, and his questions are short and secretive. So how do i answer his msgs to keep him interested
question to Aquarius woman
by: Anonymous

Did you get a ring from your Scorpio?

Sag woman-trying-to-get-a ring-from-her-Scorpio-boyfriend
did you get a ring yet?
by: Anonymous

Hehe.. I am like the other one, interested in knowing if you got a ring yet, you said you will give us an update :)

I am a leo female and have a scorpio boyfriend and we are only dating 3 months. So I guess they do intentionally flirting in front of you to see if you will be jealous or not? I saw another article from another girl, she said DO get jealous, but you think we should not get jealous huh? I do like him a lot, he cares about me so much and so intense. The only part I don't like about him is the flirting part... please give me some advice. Even just for 3 months, I can almost tell he is very loyal to me, except the flirting part, we did talk about that and he said he did warn me from the beginning, he will flirt, but it is all kind of fake/act, for only social level. I told him I don't like it. He said he will try not to do it, however, he still does it sometimes.... what do you think? Is he a player? or I am just thinking too much.
To the leo woman
by: ScorpioF

I was attracted to Leo men as well. I actually don't mind him flirting because he constantly reassures me. It couldn't go on because he just walks out like that, before we got anything on a serious level. It hurts but yeah, I could deal with it.

i guess you have to look out, see if he was just trying to get back at you for what might seem as flirting. Although you don't mean to flirt, but again, perhaps he takes that as flirting. You should know by now that Scorpio get things even.
Or possibly, he was only trying to be friendly with those girls. My Scorpio guy always gets jealous whenever I talk to guys but that's just a conversation cos he's in my heart. This applies, cos maybe you need to look deeper (:
Cheers.
to ScorpioF
by: leo woman

Hi ScorpioF,

Thanks for your tips. I know for sure that he is very jealous because everytime I talked to a guy, we work together, I will feel there is someone looking at me then booom, I turned my head and I saw him then he will pretend to do something hahahaa. I then asked him if he is jealous, he will always no. I do not get jealous because you talk to a guy. You know girl has 6th sense sometimes but I can totally feel it at that moment when I turned my head LOL.

Update on my part, I am still with my Scorpio man, however, I am not playing mind game with him. I just don't know how to play, too much for me, I would rather to have simple love. If I am not happy about something, I just told him straight and hopefully if he loves me enough, he won't do it. I am stubborn too :P

Advice Needed Plz
by: MJL

I just ended a 9 yr long distant relationship with a Scorpio Male who is 12 years younger than me. I am his first girlfriend the first for everything. The arguement was partly my fault. Of course no cheating on my part just his in the begining but I forgave and took him back. Ever since then I have been an emotional roller coaster during our relationship I couldn't trust I was afraid he would do it again.Its been a working progress but up until this year. He has been manipulative emotionaly and so have I. We fight then we make up. I also hang up on him so I don't say anything regretful he becomes vengeful. I ignore his calls cause he doesn't answer mine. I broke up with him saying its over soo many times because the long distance was getting to me and him not answering my calls made me suspicious. So finally he kept calling till he was blue in the face everyday I just ignored it. He sent me flowers on Valentines Day and he called I ignored it and said just move on its over. I was angery and upset cause he wouldn't answer my calls..I also was tired of the long distance. I took all my frustrations out on him.

I thought he would try back like he normally did but he didn't. He change his status on fb to single. That's when I knew I pushed to far. I called and called he ignored me. I called his work several times he had his coworkers lie for him saying he wasn't there. I talked to his bf he said he had been crying his eyes out for me. I called his work back finally he spoke to me and said move on it gets easier with time..just like I said to him in a text. I said to him I'm soo sorry I didn't know it affected him that way and why I did what I did but it wasn't right. I was blinded by my own fears and hurt that I didn't realize I was doing that. I don't ever want to make anyone cry especially the ones I love He wasn't hearing me. I beg an pleaded for him to try to work things out. He said he needed time. Then he contrridicted himself. And said move on. I said tell me its over then don't leave me hanging he couldn't. He said just moveon so then I said so its over is that what your saying he said no I just need time meanwhile move on. I'm confused. We have always fought but we make up. This time I don't think so. Inspite of our dysfunctional relationship we both love each other soo much. He texted me and said he didn't hate me he is just hurt he has moved on and so should I . I asked him since I gave you a second chance when you cheated I asking for one he denied me. I want him back.. Scorpios once they're hurt I was told forget it your dead to them is this true?
reply to MJL
by: Leo woman

I am not professional but I read many books plus my experience, I think I can help to break things down. You are thinking very emotionally just like most female does, myself included. I don't know you, so I can think logically, however, I could be wrong, so you will be the judge and make your decision.

1) He cheated on you. There must be a reason he did that, if he really loves you then.. it is very basic, he wouldn't cheat on you. If he said he does love you then it means that is not 100%. Love is selfish, I wouldn't want to share my man with another woman, that is a NO NO for me.

2) People always say.. once you know that person is a cheater, there is a big, huge possibility he/she will cheat again.

3) I have 2 Scropio man in my life so far. One needs alot of space, another one doesn't. I broke up with the one that needs alot of space, the situation was almost exactly like yours. We argued and we make up. We broke up and he always came back. Finally one day, I felt like enough is enough, people never change, even he said he will try but it is hard. I can't stand my man doesn't answer my call, I hated that he made me wonder if he was with other girl or not. If you can't trust him, you need to trust your gut. Trust me, time will heal everything. I ended mine and I met my 2nd scropio, then I know I made the right choice.

If you do decided you still want to be with him, from what I have read, Scorpio male likes mystery. You can't let him know what you think. I felt like my 1st one will work if I use that trick because everytime I don't call him for a while, then he wants me bad and he wants to know what's going on with me. However, I am very strict forward, simply person, I want to enjoy my life, I don't want to play game. Anyways, you may want to try the silent game with him, sounds like he likes that. Well if all things not work then he is probably not the one for you. Remember he cheated, so... don't be so sad.

Good luck, tomorrow will be better. Go out with my friends, it will help.

:)



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