My experience with Virgo Woman

by Abbey
(Germany)

My experience with Virgo Woman
- Our relationship has lasted 6 years
- and therefore I would like to divide my whole jury in 3 parts:

Part one: 1st Two Years
In the beginning of our relationship she was completely devoted and loyal to me. She gave me full her love. In the beginning she was with full of romance and she was ready to give her life for me. Everyday she promised so much without having the feeling of the consequences when they are left empty. She was with full of common sense and she surprises me daily with something new. She loved to send me expansive presents with full passion, and she has expected the same in return. Though she was so emotional at times she was ice cold with her feelings. Punctuality was always her highest priority. She has never tolerated late coming. In return she expected the same from my self. She was very charm and showed me things that I have never experienced in my life before. She can’t digest any sort of critics though she likes to criticize me in many aspects. It was impossible to have tiny bit of privacy with her. Every thing she does was well ahead informed and in return she has expected the same from my self. For example she never goes to bed without sending good night wish and in the morning she practiced the same. It was very important for her to receive the same from me in return. She shows extreme passion and she was fully determinate on what she does. She was totally a perfectionist. I can talk almost anything and can laugh with her the whole day and night. I was so lucky with her and had so much of fun.

Part Two: 2nd Two Years

Though we had beautiful 2 years together by than she have already started loosing her faith in me. I cannot get used of her critical nature. She believed she was always right though it was proved lately on many occasions’ she was wrong. Often she fights for nothing. She has created chaos based on her wrong thoughts. Even though it was often proved that she was fighting for nothing but she still kept fighting. In some cases however she has apologised later and agreed she was wrong. She has never learned from the previous fights and whenever she finds it necessary she fights again. It was impossible to argue with her even for intelligent subject. Very quickly she looses her temper. I must always admit the fault was mine though most of the time she was wrong. She was very demanding and fussy. Often I remind her relationship cannot functions based only on one-person feelings but you must consider both feelings. However she has never learned anything from it. She was totally a perfectionist it was very hard to make her understand that she was wrong in anything.

Part Three: 3rd Two Years

Here she losses her trust on me totally. At the last year we only fight day and night. If there were no reason to fight often she has created a reason for fight. Even though we had communication skills by our nature it was impossible to communicate with her. She has lost all her respect on me and she was really very unfair towards me. She ignored all her promises, which she has committed by the name of God. I remind her about her promises but she does not pay any attention for that. By than for example my toast was always burned and my coffee was always too sweet or she forgets the sugar at all. As a human with dignity I wanted at least some explanation from her why things went so wrong. However she gave me no explanation but dropped me like hot potato and left me in full misery. I beg her to full fill some of her promises, which she mad on good times but she has ignored all my requests. I gave all my effort and worked hard for 3 weeks to convince her some of the good things we have shared in our life. I wrote her over 20 mails and have requested her to take at least 2 minutes because of our love and read them. I wanted to remind her all the good and bad experiences we shared together. I believe all my mails were deleted without reading. Until today I have never received any answer from her accept a little note saying “it is sad but I don’t trust you” I have requested her not less than 10 times to reconsider her position and make some compromises. I was so disappointed from her and she gave me the feelings I don’t even have human dignity. Diplomacy is not a word she understands. I always said to her she was my number one lady and please do not lose that position. That was one of the reasons why I invited her to talk. I wanted to leave her with good memories. I sincerely hoped a dialogue with her because I am a person who needs good explanations for everything. I cannot understand why our relationship must end in such a tragic misery. At this point I have lost all my faith in her. Therefore I don’t believe I will ever exchange a word with her again.

My overall impression about her:
She will be loyal to you only if she loves you. Based on this she will do anything for you. She is very demanding and fussy. She is very selfish and thinks she is right in everything. She is a perfectionist and you cannot find the truth in her when she is after something. She will sacrifice anything to achieve what she needs. She does not hesitate to lie to reach her goal. She is very cunning and has full ability to plane her moves well ahead. She betrayed her husband and had a relationship with me. At the end of her relationship with me she betrayed both her husband and me and fall in love with other person. She is very dangerous and she will take revenge for every little mistake you does. She will never respect your feelings but she will always demand to get respected on her feelings. It is almost impossible to convince her you think are right. She will never express fully her thoughts instead she always hides some. Diplomacy is not a word she understands. She always crates chaos based on her own thoughts. She will keep her fights alive and she will always create a reason to fight. She loses her temper very quickly. If she loses her trust on you she will never respect you with little dignity. If she gets hurt from you she will hurt you forever. If she loses her faith in you she will drop you like hot potato with full misery. You must be always with her without bit of privacy. She has very high expectations and you must be fully committed to her. As long as things move accordingly with her wishes, she will be a nice loving wife for you. If you betray her once and stay with her, she will betray you badly all life long. You can only love her or hates her. It is impossible to find a middle ground with her and therefore in my case I must hate her for ever.

My advice: If you hurt her leave her immediately.
She will never excuse you for anything.

Gemini Man