Patience dating a Capricorn woman

I am seeing a capricorn woman at the moment, it took me 3 months for her to open up ever so slightly. Some days she is so loving and the next its like she does not want you there and the mood swings is hard to work out. They say you have to be patient its hard work but i will persist. i am a Scorpio

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by: David-admin

That's a fairly normal stage in Scorpio Capricorn relationships. She's far more cautious (and far less intuitive) than you are and basically needs a lot more research to get comfortable with making a commitment. On the flip side of this, if you're patient you'll have a very dedicated partner, who you can probably already tell would never even consider cheating. Many Scorpios feel that the price of waiting for the walls to come down is well worth that later benefit.

by: Anonymous

I'm a Capricorn woman and last comment on a Capricorn's woman seduction is so true by the way :)

hard to get
by: Anonymous

I was in love with a Capricorn girl... she really was hard to get... she set the rules... she appears and disappears at her own will. I got tired...
maybe I was not patient enough... I guess as a Libra man I needed some feedback and I don't like to waste time (life's too short)

She never admitted her feelings for me... I've noticed that she liked me 'cause one day I've noticed how jealous she got when she saw me with another girl... As the texts say: You have to be sure that you want to pursue a Capricorn girl... otherwise you are wasting your time. :-)

by: Anonymous

I'm sweet on a Capricorn woman. I'm a Taurus. One thing i have noticed is patience is needed and it seems that is a reoccurring theme throughout this site. I feel she is the right person for me... like I've been waiting for her my entire adult life. I have my whole life to be patient and wait for her. From what i am reading here, it sounds like that is probably the best approach. I'm also 11 years older than her which also seems to fit what i have read here. Great site and great reading. She is sooooo much fun to be around and i hope the stars play out in our favor.

by: Anonymous

I'm an eighteen year old college student. I have a Capricorn friend, and she's never been seduced! Guess it's really true =\

capricorn hurts capricorn
by: Anonymous

im capricorn women an all this is true all of it we are worth the wait.... but its to late for me im a capricorn hurt by another capricorn male i lost my ability to trust him cause he wasnt as loyal as i was......

by: Anonymous

i m a Capricorn women .i never read this kind of article but first time i read i m highly impressed you explained a Capricorn women very well i was thinking i m really like this only i cant adjust anyone in my life except my family

Odd Couple
by: anonymous

I'm a Libran Man whose currently dating a Capricorn woman. And we both are textbook examples of our respective astrological signs. As a Libran man (not to sound cocky) I have a great amount of success with flirting and really getting a woman interested in me and to open up. But with her it seems to take a lot more time and she seems to be the only one I've dates whose been keeping her true feelings for me for so long instead of opening up and telling me. I continuously debate with myself as to whether or not I should keep being myself which is an open-book sort of heart on my sleeve type of person, or start playing her games and keep my feelings a bit secretive as well. Would this be a mistake and just completely put her off? We've been seeing each other for about 2 1/2 months now. But have known each other and been close friends for about 2 years.

Capricorn Woman
by: Anonymous

Im a capricorn woman and i feel that your just gonna have to be patient. Capricorns like when people are straight forward and make the first move, they hate when they have to. So make sure she knows what you want and whens she comfortable she'll open up to you entirely! Good luck and hang in there

you been warned
by: Anonymous

:) I'm capricorn woman.As it goes we are the most patient in a stuborn way, but even I would not have enough patience to deal with somebody like me. Scared/feared paranoid about love/trust however, once I do fall in love- if i fall inlove- it's forever, loyal, caring,giving, opening. But if I dont get the exactly same and more- it's over. When it's over- noone can bring me back- because I am too patient and stuborn to bear any heart broken pain. HAHAHA I believe any man who read this wil wanna run away from capricorn woman. Try it- not easy- we too seductive in a mysterious , classy, icy way- like sea serenes.

Sweet, Stubborn Strong And Sexy
by: Anonymous

Yes, yes yes...Capricorn women are pretty much described to a "t" within therse posts. And yes capricorn women are worth the wait for sure. Most are hard to get because of ambiguous aura. No you don't want to break a capricorn womans heart cause she'll will cut you off faster than you can count to 3, but if there was real love there are definately ways a real man can get his capricorn woman back into his arms. Patience is a virtue. ; )

it can be done
by: Anonymous

Well guy just be patient thats all you can do. Ive had my Cap for 2yrs(7 if you count romantic ftiendships) and if I a Leo(sun) can do it then you can....sorry Caps but yall are not really that complex:P

by: Anonymous

well, im a capricorn, but my bf is a libra and why is it that they move VERY quick and its hard for me to catch my breath? I love him very much but i try not to reveal too much on what i feel about him...but sometimes he says that i dont take it serious about the relationship..and he's older than me by 8 years but i didnt care about the age difference and im 18..but he expresses his feelings to me and he's already planing a future with me but im still unsure about the future...but is it a good idea that i should still keep my TRUE feeling towards my Libra man??

cap woman
by: claudia z

Im a capricorn female and id have to say most of this is true ... except some have failed that we can be really agressive in bed haha... but im a bit confused maybe someone can help me one day i will feel as though i love the guy the next i block him out of my head and dont talk to him for weeks. I feel bad for people that have to put up with this. my libran friends hate how secretive i am ... but be patient and youll be able to put us together may take a while but the puzzle will become more clear after a while.

Advice for any man interested in the Capricorn woman
by: Anonymous

I am a capricorn woman. I am text book stubborn, with so much patienec to a fault. What this means is that ultimatums will never work, games will never work. My response to those actions are usually nothing. It is best to be urself, because the wisdom of a Cap will allow her to see right through any games. We are constantly observing even when you think we are not aware. In order to snab us, you must demonstrate tolerance, patience, loyalty and determination. We are only waiting to find out if you really feel what we are feeling but we are way to terrified to express to you. Have no fear, if the Cap lady is answering your calls, she is interested, although she may not initiate any calls! The same goes with her affection.

How to capture a Capricorn Woman
by: Anonymous

To best understand and capture a Capricorn woman is no different when a any man regardless what your astrology is who is looking for the best mate. Capricorn women are not that complex. We want what you men, loyalty, dependability, love, great sex. We just want to make sure you're in it for the long haul. And if you're willing to settle for all, you'll have to patience. Rome wasn't built in a day. But look at how long Rome has withstood time?

For me as a capricorn.
by: Ris124

Hey there^^ i'm a capricorn and I hv a taurus boyfriend. What has been said abt us capricorns above are so true. We are pretty observant and we want our partner to show us that they are in it as well in a relationship. Once that person broke a cap's trust, it'll take time to gain it again.
Resently, me and my bf are not so in good terms, he kinda lost my trust. And it's hard for me to be at peace. One small mistake can be a real big taboo for a capricorn lady.
Guys should be really carefull, patient, loving, sweet, loyal etc to a cap. We love that. We hate liars. Once we commit ourselves to our partner, we give our 100% loyalty and heart. But once broken..bye bye to you. It takes time to mend a capricorn's broken heart especially trust.

by: Maria

I'm a capricorn and i'm not really okay right now. A few days ago, when me and my taurus bf went out, i checked his phone and went through his messages. Then i read this message from a girl that i didn't like. It's so clear that they hang out without me knowing about it. I was so hurt that my day was totally ruined. It was our monthsary that time and he treated me out. I wanted to keep it to myself and wait for him to tell me about it but i needed to know. Cause things like this hunts me in my sleep. It bothers me so much. Then when i asked him abt it, he told me that he jst wanted to try on something. Experiment. I was like, "experiment what?!?" we talked abt it n told me dat da girl had a problem n he wanted to help. Argh! Help her how?! After dat day, i refuse to think about that but then whenever we're chatting, i cnt help bt think if he's chatting wd her as well if he reply late. I don't wana be selfish, and i don't wana make him feel trapped or something. I don't know what to do. He tell me he loves me so much. He cares abt me too. But all of that gets covered wd ugly questi0ns and thoughts like when we're not seeing eachother, is he meeting up wd her? The trust is kinda lost. True. Because of what he did. He also did appologized. Bt it's hard for me to forgive him right away though i told hm he's forgvn. Sometimes, i even thought of cooling off for awhile. But i dnt want to feel abandoned. I promised him b4 dat i wud not let go. I don't know what to do. Right now i'm so down and lost. I feel lyk giving up and jst let go and be alone. I wana tell him that i wana cool off, and jst hv space. But i'm afraid of what might happen if i do that. Please help me. :(

For help
by: Anonymous

Hallo maria,i m a taurus man.Just ask him what's the problem in our relationship,why we r not loyal to each other.Tell him the truth what happen if u go with the girl in future.

Same here in a sort
by: Anonymous

Yeah same thing here, but just alittle different. Like I havent had a relationship in a while and I still have my options open, but I had just recently been talking to this Capricorn girl, who ive known for alittle because ive worked with her before. But I'm getting kinda worried because shes def a keeper, and according to her moon sign as to mine are compatible 10 outta 10. And I just really wanna keep her intrested in me and possibly start a relationship. My question is how to reach(keeping her intrested),that opportunity and how long should I expect to wait for it to come? And btw Im a cancer and have no problem for waiting. I guess you can say Im just doing alittle research myself lol.

no patience
by: Anonymous

I'm interested in a cap who just had her heart broken... Im a Scorpio and we get along great.. but she says she just wants to enjoy her freedom and doesn't want anything serious right now ... I know what I want and I go for it ... but that doesn't seem to work right now....any advice?

To Mr. Scorpio
by: Anonymous

I'm a Capricorn woman who recently got her heart broken too... and I am also in the stage of being on my own again. However, if she is talking to you, that means she is interested and possibly entertaining the idea of being with you... she is doing the research and observing you. You need the patience everyone is talking about. At the same time, she told you that she wanted space for a reason. So, proceed... but with caution and patience.

by: Anonymous

i am a scorpio boy dating a cappy girl.i know she like me alot.but still she is ignoring me and pretending that she is very what i have to do to capture her heart?

by: Souljahs

I am a Scorpio male who have grown very faun of a cappi beautiful lady. Check dis, I feel on a physic level we are in tuned, however I'm aware, as she is, that we are both picking apart each other traits. This my concern, we've known each other for about 3 year through a mutual friend and for the last 6 months we've been talking. Things seems to be going well but now am unsure if she is still intrested. Yeah she a true cappi and I love her. I am a patient man, well ballance internally, respectful and confident, not to mention hard working and indepenant. Aware of Scorpio down traits am in tune and rule them in I, so to achieve the best result from my efforts. I have no problem attracting other women but she mi heart desire. I give her her space and respect her wishes. I think that me reluctant to be so straight farward or aggressive is creating a gap between us that will eventually makes her feel am not intrested. My fear is that she will misunderstand me and take my lay back approuch for none care. Remember am a Scorpio, and I use those down traits as they are suppose to and the positive ones I fuel them and give them life. Inputs would be appreciated. 1

by: The Cappy 22 year old

Wow...I'm a cappy woman and I must say, everything that is posted on this thread is completely true to the T. I'm currently dating a Satt. (the BIG no no) but so far he hasn't really shown the "flirting" side of being that sign...only towards me lol. He did say that he usually goes for outgoing women, which means I was kinda closed or shy even towards him. I can't help it and most Cappy women will agree: we want someone that will be there for us, that we can trust but also know they we're the one that THEY want and no one else. I dated a Scorpian Man and everything went so was like a dream really...then he suddently stopped calling me after 6 months, 5 months after that he called, we got back together...a day later he did the same thing, 7 months after that he send me an email and it really broke my trust on all men in general. Over a year and a half later and I'm dating this off to wall Satt man. But now I'm getting the feeling that it won't last for too long...I feel as though something better is out there for me. I guess I've grown in confidence as well lol. But yes, big shout out to all of my Cappy people, yes it takes people so long to get to know us, yes we keep most of our feelings to ourselves but once we find that one person we can becomes breath taking beauty =)

What is this Capricorn Thinking
by: Anonymous

I am a Virgo man. Just started dating a Capricorn woman. We have been out on some very casual dinner dates. Had a more serious date two weeks ago. Had a great time. She was very affectionate to me during this date. No sex but kissing that was as good as anyone could possibly imagine. The following week I knew she was on travel so I left her alone and then called on the weekend. Invited her to a concert. No response. Two days later sent her a text inviting her again. No response.

I think that our date scared her. She is 42 and has never been married.

What do you think? Should I try to call her again or let her contact me?

Frustrated and confused

You're right about her
by: Michelle

Wow! This thread about capricorn women is so true, coming from a 27 year old cap. It was quite entertaining to read. Especially this quote:

"No you don't want to break a capricorn womans heart cause she'll will cut you off faster than you can count to 3"

So true... Capricorn women just like to take their time to find out what you're really about and if you are worth their time and emotions. We are very careful in choosing our mates; but once chosen, that lucky man is in for quite a ride!

It is very normal for a cappy woman to keep from showing her emotions to the man she's seeing until she knows for sure the feelings are mutual. If you really want to know, just ask her.

Good things don't come easy!

@ Souljahs
by: Anonymous

It seems like you are enjoying the chase with this beautiful cappi lady you're talking about. Remember cappies need time to know your true intentions. They also use time as a way to test your persistence and dedication towards them (as they want an everlasting relationship). My advice to you is be patient and show her you're a keeper. If you are serious about starting a relationship with her, then ask your heart this question "am I truly in love with her or am I just interested in the challenges she gives me?"

If the answer is true love, then you would intuitively know what to do to win her heart.
If it's the challenges you're after, then the cappi will eventually see through that (due to her cautious nature and deep intuitive thinking) and in the long run it won't be good for neither of you once the chase is over. Do yourself a favor and don't go wasting your time, and do her a favor by not breaking her heart when you loose interest once she'd put down her wall for you.

When a cappi loves, she loves deeply & faithfully. That is the ONLY time when she's very vulnerable to getting hurt, so she's very cautious before she opens her heart to anybody.

Response to confused Scorpio
by: Anonymous

As a capricorn girl, I recommend you move slowly and give her space (but DON'T be out of sight!). Try to initiate contact with her every once in a while. This lets her know she's crossed your mind and it makes her happy. If she says she's busy, trust me she's busy, it's not a hard-to-get game. This girl's always on a ball! she's got to do something to exert the limitless stamina in her. But if she's busy and can't spend time with you, forgive her - use your love, and she'll look at you differently. Also try to connect with her on an emotional level (show her a level of emotional understanding, as this is rare because not many other signs can understanding this complex girl). Forgive her little faults (aloofness, detachment, too much attention on work and less on you) and she will remember you for life. Success and career are very important to cappies. Never, I repeat, never make a cappi choose between you and her career because you are only digging a hell hole for your relationship with her.

Eyes wide
by: Souljahs

all great and wonderful ideas , thank you all for sharing. The thing is, cappi's go hard and I love it, as a Scorpio you could then come to understand why. They are beautiful souls! I know myself so well, those so call negative trait-in me I bow them-is to say, I master over I body community of 1. I teach people of themselves, to know what's going on internally. If you know me, then you would know these eye's sees all thing-even so I saw straight through mi cappi, I Am man very strong man, and trying to pic me apart deceivingly manipulating situation. Let's say, If you know you like I know me, you would never want to hurt any and such a beautiful soul, so I left her alone. She was younger than I, it was her youth and fear of spiritual things or understanding the unseen. If you know a true Scorpio, then you would know it's ither distruction or rebirth-new life with us. InI give thanks, I made through those turbulence driven days, now I can see and interpret the present well-seeing deep into the prediction. I haven't known too many cappi's but from my last experience, true we do have alot in common. My message to all, if you ever find a Scorpio on the ascension path, and especially one who's title is "Lord of the Sabbath" or say mastery of the 7th, don't be afraid Cappi, your deal with your A's, and yes he is that true, that real, that sure, that confiden and yes he is that sharp too.
I am no longer talking to this young lady, when you mess up with a Scorpio like I, humble yourself, you are precious and an extremely rare jewel. He will always frogive, he can handle within himself the most grosomes of disappointments but by no means is he blind to insincerities. Honesty is the way and pride hurt him of all he is about. Thanks again and I wish you all the best.
Know love is everything worth having and friendship is the most important aspect of it all.

@ souljahs
by: Anonymous

Allow me to be honest about how you are dealing with this situation here. Some of the things I'm about to say may offend you, so don't take it personally.

You say you have true love for this cappi girl, but your actions are quite contradictive to your words.  The true love I'm talking about here isn't the  mediocre kind anybody can do.  It is the combination of forgiveness, pure passion, true affection, strong commitment, and the willingness to let your two hearts beat as one. It is something out of this world.

There are different kinds if cappies (the less of a perfectionist and the real perfectionist), and the less of a perfectionist can settle with that potential partner they think can provide them with a secure relationship. While on the other hand, the REAL perfectionist search beyond that scope.  The cappi girl knows her hard nature is hard for most others to deal with and not many guys like it, but do you question why she shows that side of her when it comes to love? She wants a person who can withstand & overcome hardships emotionally, mentally, and physically - a man different from the rest she's defeated in her past. almost like a god, so to speak :). Sounds familiar? ofcourse, those are the traits she possesses. If you aren't showing these traits, that's just telling her you aren't worthy of her unconditional love.

I won't ask you how she's messed up with you because that's your personal business,  but whatever the reason is (unless she's cheating) you should consider forgiving her and the progress you'll get may be beyond what you expect. 

Again, ask yourself are willing to overcome all obstacles to capture her heart or are you using her mistake as an excuse to cover up your fear of rejection? I can't answer that question, so I'll let you answer that for yourself.

Give thanks for the reasoning
by: Souljahs

Let's just say that pride come befor shame, sound familiar. I am very forgiving, after all I don't want my blessings to cease so-will I never forget that each one of us is a blessing, and wi should never forget that the potential to be that or the other is within us and we live in the world of our own creation. With that said, yeah she mess up, but that's life and how we grow. Am understanding that you know cappies very well, it's hard for them to bit it-and youth doesn't discriminate. To sum things up, she fled off instead of facing what was difficult for her to stand up too-am by no means a purist, but I do ask of all those given to I in this walk to push themselves to do better-to always try. I don't knock people down. Compassion is my way. To me she is absolutely wonderful, beautiful, she hides her grace but by no means even a blind man can see through her front. That girl has massive potential to be so great. That's a Cappi and that's what I saw in her. I don't force myself on anyone, we will all come in term in due season. In all the moon travels around the earth, she also around the sun. I'll wait for that one special person. Ily bless

@ souljahs
by: Anonymous

You seem to have made up your mind. Anything else said would be useless. Happiness is no longer happiness if it is forced.

Best of luck in searching for that special someone.
-A fellow anonymous cappie friend.

Highly bless and Royal greeting mi friend
by: Souljahs

No not at all, I have not given up, I am love itself, I just don't go around chasing after women, I am confident secure and stable in me, games are for children play, manipulating mind games go No where with me. I see clear and all around, picking up on all hidden agendas and motives. And no it's not that I've made up mi mind, this woman is a boss, but she herself is frighten, I was like none she has ever fealty with, completely out of her realms, I guess am a little too deep for her, she has much to learn but still real recognize real, like she said, she has never known or met another person like me. She herself is no Joke but I am not to be taken lightly ither: alot of people make this mistake because of being kindly, she made the mistake of thinking I was weaker than her and tried to play I, as if I was blind, unable to interpret hidden things, "it's good to know about scowling if your wanting to get involve with one. In all I refuse to put up walls that would interfere with the divine wisdom, so I don't hold grudges. She is gone, disappear of her own free will and choice. Being proud and fill with pride. Know that these things limite growth and strain the process of mental and spiritual development. wi are much more than mere human beings trapped in a physical body of flesh and blood. Alot of people live their life thinking that the Zodiac is who they are, when in fact it is only a guide to help one better Understand themselves, it isn't who you are, neither is anyone limited to the capabilities of there more dominant sign.
Love and Life forever more. 1ness

by: Souljahs

Excuse the scowling I ment Scorpio. Bless

by: Anonymous

In life, sometimes what we hear may not be true - what may be obvious to the eyes may not be what it is (especially from such a complex sign). We should use our heart to see and feel others. If the heart is skeptical, then it is better to ask that person directly. Then you can work your way from there.  It isn't such a good idea to make an assumption about that person without asking her why she did what she did. Most often times, that's where misunderstandings come in to play, due to the lack of communication.  The wise isn't he who sits back and wait for the answer to come to him, but he who seeks for the answer.  Will this turn into a beautiful love story or another tragic ending is up to how well you handle it. 

You're right that astrology serves as a guide to help people better understand themselves and from there allow them to work on their strong and weak points. You should NOT let it define who you are, or else you will never be able to find true self.
Well then, let's view this from the psychological standpoint. 
Girls who are mature & take relationships seriously often think love that comes fast also leaves fast.  A stable relationship needs a good foundation, and time is one of the key ingredients. Loving someone also means taking the effort to understand that person. Time is what allows this to happen.  When you understand someone, you know what makes her happy and what makes her sad. This allows you to estimate the depth of your love for her, by how much you're willing to sacrifice on your part to make her happy.
Being a master in Sex or showing how powerful you are don't show how much you love her, atleast not with a smart girl.  It is when you are willing to put all that power aside that says something about your sincerity. I'm not saying shamelessly go and pursue her, but be willing to give up that power while still retaining a level of self-respect.  It's not like a give but no take relationship. Actually when you've won her heart, you might end up with a pleasant surprise that many other men could only dream of. You're smart, so you should be able to break that down and understand it to the bit.  

Have you ever consider that maybe it's something you've done that tells her you don't take her seriously / you're not sincere in your pursuit?  A girl's mind can very complex sometimes, and there could be an invisible barrier between you two that you aren't aware of while she does. It's up to you to initiate the act of removing that barrier or leave it there to forever separate you both.
I don't want to formulate any possible reasons behind her actions without knowing a little of her and the story that led you both to where you are now.  But ofcourse those are your private infos that I shouldn't try to dig for, so you have the right to keep that hidden.

by: scorpio eagle

I usually don't share my personal stories, but this site is interesting so I'll spill a bit of my experience with a capricorn ..I'm an scorpio and my girlfriend is a capricorn, going on strong for 5 years. I've been with a few other signs in the past, but they didn't work out. I wanted someone strong, yet feminine at the same time, she was it!
When I first met her, she was distant and really cool. There was something in her eyes that made me wanted to know her more. Like most capricorn she's very conservative and well-mannered. We became friends and that was when I got the chance to know her better. I noticed this capricorn girl despise guys that hit on her at first sight. she's used to having it easy, so I thought she wanted something non-superficial. Knowing that, I moved at a steady pace and had her falling for me before she even knew she was in love. The time it took for her to open up for me was damn long, but it was worth the wait. She gave me love no other girl could compare. In return, I stayed by her through the hard times and love her deeply. She harmonizes with my scorpio traits in many ways.
My baby likes to be in control sometimes, but it's not a big deal. We've decided this is our shared task when we started our relationship. We do fight over trivial issues once in a while, and I love how she makes me come back for more. The making up is the best part ;]. Boredom is off the list when I'm with this girl. Her extreme loyalty outweigh all minor problems. Once you truly love someone, you can accept everything about them..including their flaws. I love her to death. She's my true soulmate!

cap ladies?
by: virgo

I'm a virgo who's been friends with a beautiful capricorn lady for nearly a year now. I have strong feelings for her but don't know how to tell her due to my shy nature. We treat each other with respect and have never crossed the line of friendship, but I feel it's time I take another step closer to her. Any cap ladies want to give me some inputs?

no games
by: cappy woman

we capricorn women don't play games when it comes to love. we might try to test your intentions or sincerity if we don't know how you feel about us, but by no means it's a called a game.
As a matter of fact, we HATE those who try to play games with us, so we would never do that to anyone else. We're too mature for that crap.

by: libra70

talk to me Capricorn ladies, please. I'm a libra, Oct 2, that's all I really know. I met her and we instantly hit it off at dinner with friends. I asked her out, and she gave me her number. We went out a few times...things got hot. I was being a gentleman, and she thought I wasn't into her; then I proved her wrong(her words). She's busy(of course) as am I(unusual for libra) so we couldn't find time to hook up; and I know she tried. Then she asks me about my long term financil plans...yikes. I tell her about college interest and promotions...blah well as if I were to find a suitable life partner, how that could make things work for the better, but that it really wasn't a "plan", just something that "could" be beneficial. All communications failed at that point. I was dead in the water. REALLY!?!?!? EVERYTHING I said and did for two days made it worse...until she said there's "nothing further". Then she to make sure I understand "how much I messed up", and 1. Tells me she'll still be "around" when I never knew her before; and 2. I "pressured" her when talking about having a "life partner". Of course I reminded her I was answering her question about MY future FINANCIAL PLANS and nothing to do with HER. She had no comment. I have since apologized for putting her in that position and have heard no reply. I like her, and can't believe it turned so bad so fast. Is she done with me?

by: scorpio

Capricorns rule time..give her some time to think about it dude.
Just be patient.

sooo true!
by: stefanie

omg, that's so true! I have nothing to oppose to that. You must know cappies really well.

you broke it
by: UK

Libra70, cappies might look laid back, but they are very sensitive to comments that have make them seem like they're not important. sure they can brush off some careless comments every now and then, but if you don't watch your words after a while, she's going to take that as an indication of you not caring for her feelings and she can be VERY hurt. When she's hurt, she'll carefully re-evaluate her status in your world and will decide if she wants to be with you for the long ride.
A capricorn girl is not the one to play around. she's a deadly serious type who takes her relationship like a responsibility/duty, and you know how important that is to them.

Take it from a man who's dated a capricorn woman for 4 years.

Thanks for the comments
by: Libra70

To UK...I think you misread what I was describing....what she told me was that I made her feel pressured, like when I spoke of having a "live-in life partner" I would be willing to share responsibilities with suddenly scared her and sent her running for the door. Which I can understand to a point- but the fact that SHE was asking ME about my long term financial intentions tells me she should be prepared for a serious answer whether it is implied to include her or not-she wanted to know.
As for an update...I reached out to her just to say I didn't have any ill feeling about any of it and she responded favorably. She has since gone on to explain that it was all about her last relationship. She was very hurt by it and was trying to convince herself that she could just shrug it off and move on with someone new...being me. This cappy fell way short of controlling her emotions, and I was simply caught in damage. He came back around trying to fix what he broke, and she bundled me into the whole mess, freaked out, and just wanted to pull into herself and lick the wounds. I believe I have made a real friend in her...being that she didnt have to tell me anything, coulda just cut me off completely. So I don't know what to expect from here with her, or what I even want.....

by: UK

Yeah man I was talking about capricorns in general. I wasn't tryin to refer to your girl explicitly. So I didn't misread your point.

But congrats for working that out man. Once the trust is there, you're on a smooth sail.

It depends on the capricorn girl
by: LA

my capricorn partner is an extremely feminine woman. She lets me be the man, the provider of the family. Outside of our marriage realm she's got character and class n nobody tells her what to do.
I've got my way to bring out the best in her. She's beautiful- inside and out. I don't believe in astrology, but I'm reading this for fun

Capri female/ Gemini luv
by: Anonymous

Capricorn female

I love being a cap, and yes a man must put in alot of work to really get my attention. I know this is weird, but dated a gemini male it was some great chemistry. Just he had to many personalities. I miss him tho and my beautiful flowers he gave me everyweek. Just needed a guy who had more self controll. Lol!

In General
by: Soulajahs

All together we should observe and know in our hearts that every relationship like every individual will grow to maturity in time. The trick is to remain positive and to keep reminding yourself that you are not limited to the ruling power of any sign including your own, but has asses to all the attributes of every other both positively and negatively, given that every person is as peculiar as their gift. Work together in appreciation and am positive that whoever can make it work with any sign. Take the position that love only grow, and opposite are the many expression of other similarities.

confused Virgo male.
by: Anonymous

i just want to know how much space to you give a cap women. days?, week or two?
becoz this cap women texted me on the eve of her break up and asked for space (WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THIS ACTION). i just want to know when do i initate contact. and what type of initiation.

by: Anonymous

Hi, I'm a 23 year old Capricorn lady. Reading these posts from Taurus, Scorpio and Virgo gentlemen who are so patient and devoted gives me hopes that someday, I will meet the love of my life. Just waiting it out patiently for now.



by: Anonymous

I'm a lesbian dating a female Capricorn and she has been hurt and mistreated in her past and it's tough to get her to express her feelings or open up! What should I do

capricorn affair
by: Anonymous

your right,i'm trying to see a capricorn woman,who is living with some one else,who cheats on her,who gives her so much mental abuse,she is very depressed and In think she appreciates my friendship,but as a lot of you say,she is also very hard to fathom as to if she does really like me at all sometimes.

Virtually everything said in these articles is so true of the Capricorn woman,she is a pain in the bum to get to know,but when she lets herself open up and show some affection it is an amazing feeling,but it does not last,next day you could be almost a stranger to her.

Beware,a Capricorn woman is hard work in the normal world,have some sympathy for me,in falling in love with one who is not free and has had her heart not only broken but smashed to peices,and does not trust at all,I just hope she will trust me eventually,then there may be some hope for us.

cappy girl here
by: Anonymous

I am a mature cappy and how I deal with matters of the heart have drastically changed. The younger I was, the more strict I was in terms of dating and what I was looking for. I fit all the descriptions described above, mostly because I was protecting my heart. I hadn't been hurt and I didn't want to be hurt. I would totally bail on a relationship or a blossoming relationship if I saw it not working out in the future, a bit of a waste of time, or didn't feel like we could go far together in general, financially. Now this is not the case. It seems as though my maturity level has dropped and now I want to play more and flirt more. I am more patient and don't require the need for guys to wait as long to search me out. I find myself opening up more easily and expressing my feelings (if I am really into you). I will kinda disappear after that, or go silent for a few days if I felt too vulnerable, exposed or open for my expressions. If a guy responds positively after I open up, and I don't feel like he just left me hanging out there naked, then I won't fade. I will need some support and feedback to help me stay current and there. Make me laugh, show me a good time and take some of the serious edge off of me. that's what caps really need. Don't get all deep and serious with us, we will get bored. I know I am very strong. I also know that I am very sweet and sensitive inside and easily hurt. very emotional. My horns project out of my goat head to ward off predators. I know I over analyze and think too much, but that's because once you get to my heart I literally have no defenses. I will run if I feel pressured, am unsure or have too much male attention paid to me. Hope this helps.

dating cappy woman
by: spiky_jo

Hi everyone. I am new here but would like advise. I am gay n recently split up with my partner. We been 2gether for 4 years. Week after we split up I met lovely cappy lady. We chat a lot. Recently I have ask her out for a dinner and she said yes it would be nice. So I chose restaurant n text her which day she will be free as I know she is working hard. Didn't have answer for 2days. I really like her. There is something about her which attract me. She knows she is important to me but don't wanna push to hard. What can I do ?

by: Anonymous

I am a Taurus man to the T and met a Capricorn, and have been talking for a few months ago. If i made a list of everything that I looked for in a woman, it is 100% her. And i have NEVER said that. To say it has been a challenge with this girl is an UNDERSTATEMENT! Long story short, It started out by emails to her, not hearing back for weeks, and then finally getting a response which was great! for almost 2 months I waited! But throughout that time i was determined and persistent. And she showed interest on her part to begin with. Every week and a half to 2 weeks I would send a follow up email just checking in. Never getting mad about the fact she didnt email me back. Which really impressed her. Let me tell you I have never had so much patience with a girl before. But deep down I know this is it. We have exchanged emails since then which have been pretty long for both of us just general chat getting to know eachother. But sometimes we will email back and forth for a few days and then I will leave it open to her and she doesnt respond for days! Its very frustrating and it is trying my patience because I know shes read it. Maybe its a test? maybe shes feeling too vulnerable? IDK but Its very confusing to me and it makes me hope there isnt any game playing. without forums like this I probably would have lost faith a long time ago as i did with another Cap i dated which i always considered the one that got away. I didnt understand the aloofness and it was completely my fault for ending it badly. But i hope this is different and intend on doing everything I can to make it work. Ive done things for her already that ive never done for anyone. If you think this girl is worth it you have to have NO FEAR! NO doubt in your mind, and go for it. Patience is a must!

Cap advice
by: DR

Being a M. Cap I can appreciate what most of you are saying. It's true! But I wanna take a different tact. To have a successful relationship w/ us you have to manage us away from our instinctual Cap reactions. Not eradicate them just hybridize them into something less potent. We're big thinkers! We'll stand off until we can wrap our brains around the human puzzle. Mental and Physical components of a relationship usually develop along different timelines w/ us. And though we can analytically understand alternate points of view, we generally read from one social script. This is where folks have the greatest difficulties w/ us. We watch, we listen, and we learn you. In the beginning we have two options: decide if we need to walk away from you; or, go to war with you because you just unnecessarily offended us. We almost never think of being with you until we do. We can be a very unpleasant and unsettling experience. The reward at the end, if it us that, is we're fiercely loyal and tribal. A lot of us are successful. We have an internal code that we abide by. We're different. The perceived difficulty is because of that difference. I encourage you to look at it as a stranger in a strange land. Coerce us out of our primal goat instinct to: get above it...and stay high; and you should be successful.

Engaged to a Capricorn Girl
by: Anonymous

I am a cancer guy and i was engaged to a capricorn girl 4 months ago. we fairly knew each other before we were engaged. (set up by our families)
The beginning time was really awesome. we talked a lot, got to know each other a lot. But sometimes, shes just a closed book!!! i cant reach out to her. One day she'll be all lovey dovey one me (very rare) and the next she'll act like she just knows me from somewhere and that's it! Sometimes I end up having a one sided conversation (chat) with her (because of being in a long distance relationship)where she just replies with one liners! and adds nothing to the conversation. She can be very loving and caring at one time, and give absolutely no crap at other times. I feel its because of the long distance thing, but her mood swings add to the downside of the long distance thing. I do care a lot about her, and i greatly admire her as well. I know now that I have to be very patient, but some other tips might help. I wish i could talk to someone who was in the same situation as me :P She is a working girl, a school teacher, and being a capricorn she is very loyal to her job (as all capricorns are) and i like this about her too. but when she gets home, and shes tired or stressed, its the most dull conversation that we have that day. May be I am expecting too much from her, love, care and affection wise?
Interesting note: We went out a few times, when i visit back home on vacations twice, and we had an AWESOME time together. She seems so relaxed and talks as well when we are out together.
Anyway, I was sort of getting frustrated with this and I found this blog, so I though I'd share. Lets see if someone can help me out! :P

Everything so true about Cap women
by: CapAnnie

All the comments about us Cappy girls here are so true, wow. :D I'm a typical Cap girl, though a bit more of a social butterfly having Leo as my ascendant. Outgoing, love attention, am very kind, caring, affectionate, playful and generous. I give as good as I get, and more! I'm also a Taurus moon, so security, loyalty, honesty and patience is really important to me. I'm a big softie but I do hide my tender heart behind the typical Cap Ice Queen demeanor until I'm sure about the other person. I got my heart badly broken by my ex Cap husband. Not good. I'm a very optimistic person though (that's the Leo in me) and I'm not cynical about love. Dating a wonderful, wonderful Libra guy now. He completely won me over. And true to everything that's been said, his patience with me, and his persistence has won me over completely. Took him four months... I haven't told him "I love you" yet, though I feel it, and want to say it, but want him to make the first move, that's my cautious nature. I have to make 100% sure about him, that's all, and it's paying off. Going strong and getting even better! :)

A True Capricorn ♥
by: Anonymous

If you think you have a chance with a Capricorn woman, think again. We are the most complex people of the Zodiac and we are not oblivious. In fact, we understand life at a very deep level. This sort of "x-ray" vision that we have gives us insight into people's characters, personalities, intentions, and even thoughts. Honestly, we don't even need mind-reading abilities. Capricorns can see through people like an adult sees through a child.

In love, we are the most reliable, dependable, and compassionate lovers to be found. For this reason, we are extremely guarded with our emotions. And yes, we observe your every move in order to understand if your intentions are 1.) good and 2.) true.

There are a few things that we truly love. As a Capricorn, I really feel the need and desire to truly understand what a person is about. If you are scrupulously honest and true, you have a chance. ;)

Capricorns are very picky in conversation. That is, we hate idle chatter. To be honest, it is our greatest pet peeve. For this reason, we truly admire those who know what they discuss at a very intricate level.

by: capricorn woman

you have been seeing her … so she definetly likes you … thing is she may like you a little to much and as ironic as this sounds …that's the reason she is so gaurded , and takes such a long time to open up. You are a scorpio you say? well chances are if she likes you she has done a full on bacground check on you already… and watches your every move…mood swings are probably ONLY there because YOU have spiked up her jelousy in some way or have done or written something she does not approve of… if you try and ask het whats wrong she will probably make a fuss over it shrug it off and say its nothing… oh but you being a scorpio will defos not fall for that …so write to her …next timr she has her mood dwings a sweet text or a message! If its not you she's mad tell her you want to hear whats making her upset cos its affecting you… But honestly a cappie girl … DONT UNDERESTIMATED HER CA
CAPABILITY TO … put on her mood swings because she wantd a reaction from you as well!! honestly if she is still by your side and finds ways to always contact you when u ignore her she has eyes for you… so keep by her side she is worth it… another thing she may be such a closed book because u Mr. scorpio mmay be hiding yor full extent of emotions for her let it out she can handel it let her into ur world… dont be fooled by the favades she puts on … she may take a negative response tobur full display but its her gaurd up or she's giving you a chance too back out or seeing if u are really real or taking her dor a ride…she is always suspicious PROVE HER WRONG!! then only then willl she burst forth in her magnitude… and then dont try to control her emotions … might be too intense even for the scorpio … do all this heed to this and ur worries about ger opening up the sligest fraction will be gone. Remember loyalty and security thats what she craves and attention from yours truley … if you are not willing to put your mile though leave her to open up a fraction in 3months and tell her frankly where you stand…never play the caprocorn woman…but seems like you care enough for her to post above! good luck

stay away from her!
by: Anonymous

my virgo uncle has a beautiful capricorn wife and cancer son.. his son is 7 years old.. another man came forward half a year ago claiming the child is HIS son. Court ordered a DNA test. This boy is the other guys son. She filed for child support from my uncle and is living with the bum she cheated on him with (she told a family friend this guy's family has money)...something better came along..... Just.. like... that.

complicated cappi
by: Taurus man

im a taurus, i work with a capricorn girl that i am very interested in. everyone at the workplace is friendly and nice except for this capricorn girl. ever since i started this job i catch her staring at me, in the morning she says hi with a very serious attitude, sometimes i dont see her, when she sees me she avoids me, when she looks super beautiful with her hair done, she comes around me. on my birthday, they cut a cake for me, she called out that day. everytime im around shes super tense. after a yr of not interacting with her i took the courage and asked for her number, she acted as if i was proposing to her and she kept saying "oh my god oh my god" she laughed and she considered giving me her # but then she backed out and she was like that she cant cuz shes at work... im really like this girl and i want to get to know her. other girls are interested in me, but im not a player. ive demonstrated patience but i know theres something special about this girl and i dont want to give up, sometimes i think she thinks im playing with her... my question is, how can i get her to speak to me n feel comfy around me?

Too My Gem,,,,,,
by: My turn

I’m a cap (divorced 8-years) and having a FWB affair with a married Gemini. I know that sounds very out of the norm, but we are soooooo good together. I know he won’t leave his wife but for now I just don’t care. We are both 50 and he makes me feel like I’m in my 20’s. And he just makes me smile all the time. It’s my time to have some fun and as wrong as that sounds, I’m in it 100%.

Dating a Capricorn Woman
by: Libra Man

I've been dating a capricorn woman for about a month now. We text mostly (When we dont see each other) because our schedules are kinda weird and lack time to talk on the phone. Her and i had this great flow going and all of a sudden, recently, her text responses have been getting longer and longer and now, i havent heard a word from her since... Is this what capricorn women do from time to time? She admits that she isnt mad at me.

by: rza

so i been talking to this capricorn woman for a few months and needless to say ive fallen for her. As im getting to know her tho things that she told me in the beginning arent exactly what they seem! like i know i have true feeling for this girl but because cap's are so non-emotional its hard to tell what to do from here theres days when things are great and then theres times when we cant stand each other. i know the stars say its not really worth but something tells me to stay as patient as ive been and maybe this will turn around. Should i wait or listen to the stars?

Total Capricorn
by: Anonymous

I am a Capricorn woman. This site describes us to a T. It is true, much patience is needed with us. We do no give of ourselves easily. You must earn our respect and our ability to open up to you. It may take a while. Once we do open up to someone, we are loyal, hard-working, classy, independent, Old-Souls, and Free-Sprits. Life with us could be very rewarding. It takes the right man to understand us.

I like a man who is confident and emotionally strong. I have been married now for 8 years to an Aquarian. He reminds me all of the time, that only a certain man can understand me. That there is no leash for me. He has got to let me be.

In my younger days of dating, I always used time to test a man's intentions. He had to prove to me that he was worthy of my time. If he gave up easily, that was all I needed to know. The END....

Scorpio 31
by: Anonymous

Have a question for cappi woman..I am a scorpio with big heart as you know how w scorpios are.Well this cappi woman that i have been seeing on and off for 2 months keeps pushing me away.This last time it was over something she felt betrayed by me and her bff girl.They are like sisters,so i went to her bff to lunch to speak about her,That upset her and now she says she has lost all trust in me and we can only be friends.Tells me to leave her alone and let go and find someone new...She even deleted me from her FB friends..LOL.. But aited 3 days and here she comes again wants to be friends..Day later text me and says she is has been missing me.Says we will have to talk but the talk never comes.I have yet given the time to explain to her that the lunch date was harmless.Even her bff told her as well as her other friends... What confuses me is that when said she miss me, isked if me holding her and she says no us just talking?? LOL..She has told me she is so much into me that when that happen she went to bed crying for nights.. How do i win her back??... I have been patient even though im a scorpio and giving her space..But am still letting her know how much she means to me.Is that wrong?

Dating a Cappy...
by: Anonymous

I am a Cappy woman back into the dating scene after a 10+ year relationship/marriage to a Libra, which was torture for me.

Best advise I can give to those of you interested in dating us, we are very methodical and see our time with someone as an investment. We are career and goal oriented, and the same goes for our dating. Consider a first date like an initial job interview. A second date as a follow-up, and if you make it to the third, as a potential-hire if you are interested in the position. We are constantly "information gathering" even if you think we're not engaged in the situation.

Consider us the time lords, we will not waste our time on something if it's not going to be for a long-term investment. We are quite content on our own than wasting our efforts in a bad relationship. Patience is a virtue to us goats climbing the mountain.

We strive on rules and boundaries and feel lost without them. I don't know a fellow Cappy that doesn't have a list made up of SOMETHING floating around somewhere. Sometimes this is is misinterpreted as "controlling" but it is part of our security, FOR US, not you. If you can understand this concept, you're almost in her heart.

When she asks about your plans or schedule, she is trying to make room for you on hers and is being considerate of your time as well, not nosy or clingy. She wants to work around your schedule to be with you.

We are practical women. DO NOT think of trying to impress us with "showy" or "flashy" gifts or events. We see through that quicker than you've put in the effort. Beauty with functionality are good ideas though. Honesty, loyalty, and punctuality are key to us and will mean more than anything you can buy to "get us to like you". DO NOT EVER BE LATE. It is disrespectful to us and shows a lack of consideration for others.

Follow these, and we'll slowly let our guard down and let you in. Once we feel secure and safe, we will shower you with the sweet, tender affection you have been waiting your life for! We will take care of you in all respects. We are the most loyal of all signs and would never consider cheating on you!

Rytis :) cap woman
by: Anonymous

Hey guyz/girls :)
Im in school last years 19 years old and im a Libra . I like my teacher she is a woman(im a guy ) :D
I been giving her ovios signs that i love her :)
She knows i do :)
Now how to know if she is flirting with me or not she has giving some sings like
My friend asked her infront of me what she thinks of me and she sed im LOVELY .
Also our Eye to eye contacts are long .............
sHES Capp and im libra i love her and i know i will spend with her rest of my life if i acuare her :)
shes in her 30 btw not merried , but i dunnot know if she has a bf or not :)

Totally true.
by: Anonymous

I am a Capricorn woman, and I am the most awkward in relationships. I am generally pretty blunt and direct if I have feelings for a guy. However, I feel easily vulnerable if a guy isn't just as direct about how he feels. If he's open about not feeling the same, I can easily accept it because I know right then not to waste any more of my time invested in him. If he's direct about liking me the same way, even better because then I feel I can open up to him more. If he isn't clear or doesn't really respond honestly, I'm extra cautious and inclined not to trust him or want to give away too much about myself or flirt too much with him until I am certain. In a relationship I am honest about all things, caring, persistent in trying to make it work, and believe in fairness in the sense that I will treat a man how he treats me. If my trust is betrayed or I feel as if the relationship is ending, I'll be gone before a guy can blink. I am hurt easily I regret to say; I take things as rejection even when they may not be intended that way, and that's why I emphasize the importance again of being direct with Capricorn women. We over think everything, especially pertaining to people we invest great time in. Don't make us feel uneasy for when we feel naked or our feelings are exposed for you to play with, or we'll ditch your ass pretty fast. Be open and honest, and you will discover a great lifelong partner is us. (:

Re: Patience
by: Anonymous

Yeah you're totally right... Im currently chasing a cappy woman. We share so many similar traits, likes, and dislikes. But the thing is, she is very unpredictable. Sometime she can be chatty and keep replying to your messages, while some other times, she can seem to be ignorant towards me. She will always reply my texts, be it in a minute 1 hour, 6 hours, or even 2 days. But, we've been texting each other since a month ago and she seems to never get bored. I think all that have been posted here is right. BUT, what bothers me most is the fact that you must show that you care about her and dont play games with cappy girl cause she can see through it. I believe, in every relationship, there is a game to play. You need to push, you need to pull, at the right time. If you push to hard, she will escape from your grasp, while pulling to hard will make her lose her interest to you. So, yes, you HAVE TO BE PATIENT in pursuing a cappy woman. And yes, it's very true that cappy woman loves a gentleman, ambitious, guy with leadership quality. That's what she has confessed to me. Good luck guys

Needing a little advice
by: A confused capricorn

I am myself a Capricorn. I used to date a capricorn girl for a year, before that we were very close friends for almost two years. Things got really bad because I didn´t include her in an artistic project (I am a visual artist). In the end we broke off because she thought that I didn´t respect her and her work. We have been apart for a year, we broke off pretty badly.
Now I am currently getting very succesfull with my art and my projects. She contacted me when she saw me in a magazine and has been getting closer and closer in the last three months. She now wants to be my manager (she has been working in that field since we splitted). She has even made a lot of "free work" for me without any pay (just as favors).
And I am really, really confused. She says that she loves my art but never says anything about me. I don´t know if she is interested in me. People say that capricorn woman show their love in practical ways: helping with your work, helping you to organize your stuff...
And the truth is that I really love her but she broke my heart before and I don´t know if she is after me or after my success. Is she only looking to clean her name? (A lot of doors closed for her after we broke up) Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

by: Anonymous

please leave her alone and look for another girl, cos if she likes you, then she won't sleep with you; she will just keep you hanging for as long as she can till you marry her, which may not be in ur plans

Mature enough to act like a brat...
by: Steam Pisces

I've had this "close friends" relation with a cap girl, we were both too stubborn and proud to admit liking each other, even though we were as close as hell, and then one day i got sad about something she said, and disappeared for 2 years.

Then out of intuition i reached for her, eager to make up and redeem myself for abandoning her before, she tried playing the unbreakable statue, and i did everything i could to care for her, funny thing, sometimes she'd let slip that she really appreciated that.

So going on that rythm made me fall in love with the idea of caring for her, and promissing never leaving again, but along the way we both became less responsive with each other, i was starting to look elsewhere for love while my insight told me she was seeing someone else, and indeed she was.

So i decided to be cryptic and ask her to be happy for me, but she suddenly got nervous and started asking why, and eventually, it came to a conclusion our relationship was stagnant.

I got furious for her not trusting me and not sharing that information before hand, and decided to disappear again, but that made her completely angry, swearing at me, calling me names and all that stuff, and again, another funny thing, she didn't want to let go of the presents i gave her, and wrote a line or two telling me i was the right one for her, or that i actually made her hurt despite the constant re-affirmation that she couldn't get hurt by anyone.

It's a long text i know, and the whole situation was longer and more painful, i'm glad it's over, i just don't get why she kept her feelings about it all hidden, to me that sounds like something an insecure kid would do.

Food for thought
by: capNation

As i read all of this about the Capricorn woman, i must admit it is all true. I myself am one, all in all patience is virtue with us if that is something you dnt have or you are not sure what you want you might not even want to bother. It takes time to get in good with us. we just have to fill you out. i myself like to go off of principle and values if that stuff doesn't sound right we usually stray away. Im more interested in a good conversation than charm and a pretty smile. But do not mistake it for wishy washy, we more so would like to see if you for sure you want to pursue. if she disappear she is more than likely trying to see if you will reach out and see about her. Be consistent with her. Keep your word. if you dnt ask how will we know you care to specific. The simplest gestures of emotion mean so much so if you care do show but not too much we aren't always mushy. We are not open books it takes time to get in our mind as you say but its well worth it...

my cappi gurl scares me!
by: Anonymous

Hi,am an aqua man dating a cappi lady.I luv her so much cos she's gives me d impression dt she could be trusted n shows me how mature she is despite d fact am 11 yrs older than her.Whn we startd dating tins wer cul bt as tym went by we strtd hvin issues whch I tot ws a normal tin in a relationship.we sat dwn n resolvd em as a couple,bt nw its lik she ova wht we hv settled in d past.she dsnt cal me lik b4,neitha dos she gv me d attention I nid.I hv bin patient wit her,shwin her hw much I luv her,bt she's nt responding to my feelings as I hd hoped.Wht do I do?cos rite nw I dnt knw wetha to bck off or stil stay wit her.I luv her bt she's hrtin me wit her "cold,emotionally unavailable response".what do I do?pls help.tnx.

Stubborn to a fault
by: Anonymous

I am a cap women I'm 23. Ive recently been dating a Scorpio male 28 we have been dAting for a year and you could say in the beginning I was very cold and closed off to him which after about six mOnths he got very tired of it. And I mean to the point where when I was angry I would change my phone number until I was ready to speak to him I would call on my own terms. Which in my defense I was not playing games I just have a very different way of thinking you could say. So somewhere in there I know he went on a date with another girl which I don't blame him. I think I did not realize how much I wanted him. So for the last 5 months when we fight he runs to her and I'm guessing when they fight he calls me Which is ridiculous. But back to what I'm saying so I finally decided to change my number again and I assure you I will not be calling him nor text nothing. I think of this man from the moment I wake up till the second I go to sleep. I miss him in ways that I cannot explain I'm sure caps understand this. So for you people trying to understand us. Stubborn is not even a strong enough word for us caps. We are strong willed and we know every decision we make is for good reason and we will stand by our decision even if it's killing us

getting a capricorn lady to like me
by: Aries

i only know her for months. i have taken interests in her. she is secretive or rather not opening up. i need her to open up so that i could understand her more. what should i do. is it patience again ?

by: Anonymous

I hate Capp bitches they are hoes .. From sun up to sun dwn .. My. Baby moms is a capo and that bitch left me with my child . I take care of my daughter .. She is 4 years old.. I just pray the lil bitch don't grow up Like her moms.. And by the way I'm a virgo ..

Roses for Capricorn from libra
by: Anonymous

I've been talking to this Capricorn and Monday I had roses, chocolate, and a teddy bear sent to her house... After that she "i ate the chocolate with my dad lol... Your crazy". Now I haven't heard from her in two days why is she ignoring me? Is it because she's spending time with her family or were the roses a mistake?

virgo guy
by: Anonymous

I am a virgo guy and i really like this cappy girl.She has told me that she is interested in me but never calls .I only call her .On her bday i recently gifted her lot many gifts .she liked them but had to really coax her to call me .i thought probably she would call seeing how much effort i had put in to make her bday special but i was wrong . She tells me she doesn't mind talking to me but do i have to talk to her every time ??Its actually killing me .should i stop texting or calling her ?

I need help...
by: Anonymous

So I'm a Sagittarius, 3 years ago I met a capricorn woman... While we were just dating, not in a relationship yet, she was sleeping with my best friend and they both didn't tell me. She realized how much she really like me after a couple more dates and she tried to call it off with him. All this drama goes on and I was devastated bc I really liked her... I walked away, she fought for me back. I forgave her, we dated again and even got in a relationship and shortly after she just became so cold... She was like a zombie. I broke up with her but I was madly in love with her. I was burnt out, so was she. We were okay as friends until she invited me to her work and invited my old best friend at the same time she said something that broke my heart all over again. I got so angry I cut her out of my life... I never stopped loving her. I told her months ago when she got out of a painful relationship... She turned me down bc it was to soon... I understood. Recently we became friends. I want her back. Her sister passed away and I held her hand through it. I gave her a painting I worked on for 3 years... She loved it. I want her back so badly I'd give anything for a second chance. What am I doing wrong? What can I do better?

Aries falling for a cappy
by: Anonymous

Im an aries male who now for a month have been talking to a cap woman. Ive definitely started to have feelings for her, cause she is like no one ive ever met before. We have now hung out on every weekend ever since we met, and yet during the week she totally avoids me doesn't reply to my text for days at a time yet when we hang out on weekends shes fine 2 weekends ago we kissed lightly just a peck and i kissed her back a few minutes later. She has said she wants to take it slow and im fine with that,however she continues this during the week. Its now been over a month and im sure she is the one for me, i try to do little things that i know would make her happy, and pay attention to eveything she says. Its my birthday in a few weeks and i just wanna be with her..


The One
by: Felix

I met a very beautiful capricorn woman; a beauty that comes from her inner...... She's a charming lady; intelligent,determined and funny ! I respect and trust her entirely.......and l deeply love her !

by: Leon

I met a capricorn lady about a year ago. She has determined, smart, independant and has a fantastic sense of humor ! I deeply love and respect her. She's the one and I will wait for her as long as it takes........

It's not just patience you need
by: Perima

Ok, so I'm a Scorpio dating a Capricorn girl and we've both just nudged into our that relevant? Not sure... But we've been seeing each other for two months.
I love her. I think I knew that in two weeks. And I mean really love her. But that is the problem because with that love comes a requirement to be two things - patient and strong.
Why? Because although this relationship started with a ton of good chemistry, I've raced ahead and she has held her ground.
I'll say what everyone else does on here, the descriptions of a capricorn woman seem incredibly accurate.
I've told her I love her and I've explained how it frightens me that she might decide I'm not for her. It sounds weak, but I suppose there I'm looking for some reassurance.
People have said that if she is still talking to you then she's still interested. I hope that's true because with a cappy girl that might be the only reassurance you get in the early days.
I'm so not used to being tested in this way, but there is no doubt in my mind that she is worth whatever she puts me through.
I would LOVE to know what is in her mind. But I'm now very aware of being too intense and I'd never want her to feel cornered.
Stupid really because when I'm with her I'm sooo happy and she responds with lots of tactile hugs etc, but when alone, I miss her and worry that she might never fall in love with me as I have with her.
It does affect my behaviour sometimes and she never misses a thing. Asking me why I was quiet or why I wasn't 'being my usual self'. She tells be to 'be myself' and 'chill out' and 'be patient'.
I think what's also interesting here is that she is in control. Being slower to embrace what we have gives her that advantage. I'm looking forward, hopefully, to a point where the control is shared once again. But that could be the rest of this summer!!!!

Cap co-worker
by: Brazil Taurus

I'm from Brazil and I'm a Taurus and I have a co-worker Capricorn that lives in Poland. After some time working together, she started to be of a exteme care to me and to be very flerty. She takes all the opportunities possible to talk tome and even start conversations have work subjects, but we do not talk about work at all. When we've been together twice I guess we've almost been to bed, but I stepped back. The second time I stepped back she felt really challenged. Today I'm completely in love about her, but once I advance a little bit she always get resistant. We both have relationships and I have just finished mine because of her. She acts in a smart way, she gave me several times the impression she was testing me for fidelity and my real intention to have something serious with her, but she never says she wants something with me, but gives all indications. She says sehe doesn't love her partner, she subtly encouraged me to finish my relationship and if I stay sometime without talk to her she comes to me with any excuse to talk to me, she told me some times I'm the best person she has ever met. Also some time ago another colleague invited me to dinner and did not invite her and she got really jealous.When talking more seriously, she always says it is all about friendship, but it doesn't look like. I need help from someone with experience to help me understand what she really may want and if there is any chance.

Capricorn teen (girl)
by: Anonymous

I'm a capricorn teen girl and all of this is just me, ive been with a few boys and idk myself but i have mood seings sometimes they really annoy me and the next day I'm all lovy dovy, idk why? They haven't done anything different

seeing a beautiful cappy woman
by: AQ man

It is my understanding that this is no a good match. But that's not what I feel or think. I've known her for 42yrs. We were first involved at 15, we were separated and I didn't see her again for 21 yrs. Another 21 yrs and we are back together. Unfortunately some of the men she wgot involved with seriously abused her. As I read these posts I can see how she is keeping her guard up. I am being patient. Is there any other advice any cappy women can give me?

please help
by: Anonymous

i am a sagittarius boy and my girlfriend is a my past i've made many mistakes in my relationship even i got violent sometime,but i used to hurt myself also,cause i've did so with her.i promissed her that i would be changed man,and now i m exactly what she wants.but a guy had came in her life,when i had made mistakes,and when there was distance between i've done and doing everything for her,but that guy always came between us,and even she is with me but she has also got a bit of feeling for him.i will die,if she get away from me,and i am very serious about her please if any one can help me,to get her.i am dying inside.

Worth the wait
by: Anonymous

So I've noticed I've never seen a cancer and Capricorn relationship on here yet so I figured id give my insite on it. Well I've been with this girl for about 2 months now and probably have been talking for about 3 months in all. It's been a ride already, what I mean by that is , patience is the key! As a cancer yes were kinda emotional and what not so we kinda wear are feelings on our sleeves , which at some points I feel like a Capricorn woman can't handle it at times like it's too much. I'm not gonna lie I said the three magical words first and no response.. But I'm playing the waiting game because I know the wait is gonna be worth it. She's slowly opening up to me and I see it, which gives me hope in it all. It's been a perfect few months and she's about to go back to college, over 300 miles away, I know were both loyal so I guess this will be our test . My love and devotion to her will keep my head up while she's gone but Overall , these posts have helped me understand her quite a bit more which is going to help out. So best of luck to everyone who is with a carpricorn woman, don't forget, patience is the answer to everything. Good luck! :)

leo man and cappy girl
by: Anonymous

any suggestions for leo man dating cappy? any real life experience ?

hard work
by: Anonymous

Iam going through it with a capicorn lady we have a good relationship we talked bout living together and marriage in the future she wanted to get promise rings in september but now she pulling back now what should i do iam a aries

Insight from a true capricorn
by: Anonymous

Hello everyone....i must say I enjoyed reading the comments where most of the sayings are true. I am 29 and of course I'm a capricorn. We are really not that complex we just like what we like. Once you get to know us we are the sweetest and most loving people you will ever meet. We love love but we are not going to open up to just anyone.... you have to earn our heart. I know that I'm not going to put my all into anyone unless I know that they are head over heels for me, it's makes the relationship better for me. We have to feel loved and wanted. We look for stability, security, and succes!!!! If you have all of these things and can be dependable you will have nothing to worry about. When in love we will do anything and everything to make our relationship work. A capricorn woman is a great friend and we are loyal people. Not trying to toot my own horn bit I must say we are incredible women and if you have ever loved a capricorn you probably still love her deep inside because the love we give is irreplaceable! We are just all around hood people!!!

Be aware never to cheat on a capricorn or lose her trust because there will be no return. ..we will forget you so fast that you'll be doubting your own existence.

love and hatred
by: jonified

i'm a scorpio men and i'm dating a cappy, she's an ignorant, said she loves me. but every once in a while she would totally ignore me and even cheated with other guy. seems like she can't really see how much work and how much patience that i take to get to her heart. 2 years ago we were best friends and partner in crime..

can i hate her?

its true but there's man reasons towards it
by: capricorn : that's me

Hi am a capricorn ,
Everything is true. We are worth the Wait, a Capricorn girl like me is very easy to communicate with and easy to make friends with. When we love ,we love with all our heart and we never cheat because we busy finding ways to keep a long lasting relationship. Every relatio nship we get to, it means business. We caps women give up everything just for our love ones. Never break nor hurt a cap girl because she carried that hurt all her life.

by: alexis

Hats off to all who hv contributed to let us hv a better understanding of how cappi are deep inside - enlightening is an understatement. I just hv one question out of curiosity (and absolutely no offense): why cappi girls are worth the wait apart from the obvious quality of loyalty?

im a cap female interested in a libra guy who is 8 years 24
by: Anonymous

We started dating a month back. He approached me first with all his flirtatious first i didn't fall for ive started falling for him and to me it seems he ignores me delibratly most of the time...he doesnt want his friends to know im his friend leave alone girl friend...he says lust will turn into love. We havnt gone that far just a few kisses thats it...should i go on or should i run away? I feel like running away at times though ...but part of me says thats against my rules...what should i do? He doesnt admit he loves me he just follows me around, waits for me, praises me, calls me for tea()as both of us like it)...but im really confused...recently hes asked me to go on a date where we,ll share some intimacy...what to do?

Cancer man out in the cold
by: Anonymous

I am a cancer man who was in a three year relationship a cap woman seven years my junior. after about one month she moved quickly to commit to calling or seeing each other daily and staying with me every w/e.(she told me she was one year out of a four year relationship.)

After about two years I noticed her acting nostalgically when she heard certain songs. I asked her why she seemed to glorify her past. she said it meant nothing. Something also strange was that she seemed overly attentive to seeing a fire station or truck, etc.,. Well early on she had told me she had broken off her previous relationship with a fireman twelve years her junior.

When our problems started two months ago, I told her she really need to think deeply about this as would I and together solve our problem. Before suggesting taking some alone time,I found that the fireman had been sending her emails around our second year together. I asked about them; she said they were only greeting types sent on special events -birthday, Christmas, etc.,. O.K.? Not!

Well,I guess she spent those three weeks getting back with him.After those three weeks she texted me that she now had a relationship with him again! She said she just fell into it and had feelings for him! I was blindsided! She said that she hoped she wouldn't be hurt again in this rejuvenated relationship! She said she was letting her heart lead.

What I really have a problem with is why the fireman had not found or presently have a relationship during this four year separation from my gf? I mean she had been with me for three years in a committed relationship!

Then I thought this possibly could bean ego thing for her --she has a younger stud and has great sex! (Trust me ours was remarkable, you know caps!) And, for him, he gets to come over for a booty call any time. He could have a relationship on his terms! Well, he feels he could do this because she was so mesmerized by him --- young and a fireman!

I texted her one more time telling her I loved her and asking herself is her decision final and, to say to me our time together is over.

That was about three days ago. I'll wait for awhile and then move on. Any advice for me; I am really hurting!

haha this is funny
by: Spicy92

This is kind of funny as im reading the comment I myself am a Capricorn 23yr old woman and saying that it is hard for Capricorn women to open up..?and a closed book. Well all my life I've always been very open and a open book im not afraid to say anything past present whats on my mind I don't care, but im blunt too and I don't take no bs from no 1. But im NOT a closed I dunno if that's a normal Capricorn thing to be closed minded? or its just me being open and all. But I do get very bored easily n pass most guys like flys if there boring ha. I never been into zodiac signs and believing them until a couple days ago I got into it..also my bf of 3yrs is a Gemini which is said they do not go good together for a Capricorn ha that explains all the fights almost everyday n shit..,but I find what it does say zodiac's to match with a Capricorn and have a good relationship to me I get bored of and more like would be a boring relationship

Love struck Pisces
by: Awakened

I'm a Pisces Man who's really feeling a Capricorn Woman. The thing is one minute I'm sure she likes me, the next she's so reserved and distant. We spend time together, and even though it's only been two months, she has referred to me as her boyfriend maybe once or twice. She seems able to hold conversations with other people but our canversations seem to mostly involve things we're both interested in like art, black unity, and all around screw the government type stuff.
Now I've read a lot of the post here and they do discribe some of her traits. She blushes when she sees me looking at her, she is really witty and fun when we are together, she's somewhat opened up about her life before we met, but I still kinda feels like I'm a friend. We've kissed and hugged several times, while some kisses and hugs seem apprehensive.
What I want to know is does this woman really like me or does she only considers me a friend.

Patience with a Cap Woman!
by: Anonymous

Boy can I ever indetify with this subject! I am a Scorpio male (Nov 18) that really has it bad for a BEAUTIFUL Cap girl (Dec 30) I KNOW she likes me but getting her to drop her defenses is like pulling teeth! She is VERY reserved and private, and this thing about needing patience with a capricorn woman is RIGHT ON! It is often difficult this early on just to have a friendly text conversation that is a bit personal! She doesn't take compliments very well and she to the outside observer seems cold, distant and snobbish but I do NOT think that she is this way at all! This is going to be a long, slow process I can see that!

It's in the description
by: Charles

My last woman (of 2 years, just celebrated the "I just dodged a bullet from a crazy *****" anniversary of one year on the 13th of March/15 *Highfivesallaround*) was a Capricorn, she let me take care of her. She gave me problems left and right, was possessive and neglectful. Basically she did not appreciate a single thing I would do for her. Realistically I realize that i made it much too easy for her to be loved. Between feeding her habits, to paying her way, and making the mistake of being what i am, giving her 110% of my life. I truly believed she completely ruined my perception of Capricorn.

Now there's this woman, i'll get to her shortly. I have spent the last year of my life in a desperate attempt to satisfy my long-lasting burden of loneliness, due to the desire of intimacy, and the exasperated and overwhelming force of betrayals I had accumulated early in my life. (I conceived at 15, and my Taurus woman(17) left my west coast, and settled on the east coast. It's quite the story, tbc) Over the course of this year I continuously tested the water with women, fighting emotional needs with only semi-success. Indulging in physical needs, but only into minor excess. I have finally found myself in a more appropriate and down to earth state of mind. So now.

Irrefutably I find myself with limerence. She's the one I ignored as well as I could for as long as I could. I could say i see her at least two times a week, and have seen her at least two times a week for a year now. Today is the 25th of March, we had finally exchanged numbers on the 19th of March, and the 23rd of March we were able to spend some time with each other. At this point, i'm doing everything I can to continue being the distant yet emotional man that I have painstakingly trained myself to become. The problem i'm having is that she shows interest, mostly with the 50 shades of her iris and the expansion of her pupil. She's not consistent. All I feel I can do at this moment is not over-step our boundaries. To not over say, and not over-estimate what i'm worth to her. To say nothing I feel is a sin, to put frequent pauses on what needs to begin.

How do I handle a beginning with a proper Capricorn woman?

I love Capricorn women
by: Aquarious man 22 brad

Im gaking to capricorn women she 21 im 22 its only been 3 days we talk on phone 8 hours a day we have so much in common we like every food very activity eberything she said i think you are ky missing pecie there times when we dont talk all day why? Because WE both like taking it slow not rush nothing

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