Capricorn man and Libra woman

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I'm a Libra woman, married to a Capricorn man.

I have read your articles with interest, which say this match is a disaster waiting to happen. We have been married for 8 years and I can say this much, it isn't easy going. I love him more than anything, but we certainly are incompatible.

Our interests are rarely the same. He is happy with electronics and television, while I am an arts and book kind of person. Probably the only thing we really agree on is that we both love music, but even the variety of music often varies greatly.

We did indeed struggle for the first few years, both of us were unhappy. It took us probably 5 or 6 years to really fall into a pattern where we can both be happy pursuing our interests and we are no longer afraid we will grow apart.

It has in fact made us grow closer by spending more time apart. Arguments however are another matter entirely. I am a woman with a temper, and he is a man with an ego. He often times doesn't know when enough is enough and I have to get really ticked off and to the boiling point for him to finally get the point.

He almost always takes a few days to apologize simply because of the ego I guess. I rarely tick him off, I am a pretty sensitive person and can't stand for people to be mad at me so in the past 8 years there may have literally been 3 times he was mad at me. He has matured in the past few years and that makes things a little easier. He tends to be a big kid and while that is okay in certain instances, there comes a time when you have to an adult and take care of your responsibilities.

Sex is normal, nothing out of this world, but not terrible. He is often more shy in the bedroom where as I am more take charge and like things a little rougher. It took us a few years to adjust but we did. I would overall have to agree that a relationship with these two signs is often exhausting and sometimes we wanted to give up, but if you are dedicated and determined to make it work, you can. Each person just has to compromise enough to meet in the middle etc.

I'm mainly posting to say thank you for telling it like it is. I'm tired of people who say every relationship will be beautiful and easy. Accepting the challenges is the first step to making a marriage work. It doesn't just happen on its own and expecting everything to magically fall into place is what makes many couples give up too easily.

I am a Libra woman and date a Capricorn male. It is a very roller coaster like relationship. It is fun because he is always challenging what I do and why. When we come together on an idea the goal is usually met and met better than we thought it would be.

We get along because both he and I are very quiet people. He likes to play video games and I like to read and we respect each others need and time for those things.

Sex is great because it is always unexpected. It has happened in places I would not even do it in if I wasn't riled up. It's always a lot of teasing before hand, which makes it more exciting and explosive.

Overall he is a good guy. Yes, there have been rough spots where he has done some things that were inappropriate, but I believe in giving people a second chance. I'd recommend him because he always is willing to lend a hand to help out a person, whether he knows them or not.

Its nice to see a man help an old lady get something off a shelf because she can't reach. It's just too sweet. He's a neat freak and I am not. I like my clutter and he just doesn't understand that. But that is about as bad as he gets and he is one in a million.

I dated a two Capricorn men. One was born in January and the other was born Dec. 22, on the cusp. My January Capricorn was the one who I met in my early twenties. He was a musician and a very good one. He had a day job in the aerospace industry and ran a band in the evenings and weekends. We got along great and the sex was wonderful. He was social (contrary to the homebody reputation). I was invited to many of his gigs. We attended concerts together. Music and art was what we had in common. We also both loved football and basketball and attended season games. Our relationship probably would have turned to marriage, however, he developed a rare form of Cancer and passed away. I was with him until he died. It was an easy and loving relationship.

I later on met and dated a December Capricorn. Started off great but the man turned cold on me. Lack of communication. Rude and mean. Obsessed with video games. A grown man playing video games for hours at a time. Insane. I was many times put on the back burner so he could finish a level in one of his video games. This was a 35 year old man which made it worse. Between his obsession with video game playing and his very dry personality, I ran for the hills. Not a good match for a Libra girl. Too many differences in temperament.

I am a Libra woman dating a Capricorn man. This relationship is like no other. I am a fun person and he is too but I am more out going than he is so that kind of a problem. He goes o ut more than I do, always at the club with his friends. Matter of fact he is always this his friends and when he is not with his friends he is on the field doing what he do best. He is so caught up in his soccer sometimes I think he forget about. Like if I don't call him he wont call until couple days after with the I am so sorry and his list of what he had accomplished. For the first couple months we spend hours talking about soccer, I swear if i w as a soccer ball he would married me. I have to demand my time with him most of the time, but when I do get some us time its a beauty.

I feel like I am riding a roller coaster dating this Capri, but there is just something about him that keeps me wanting him. Our sex is not the greatest but it works. We both busy well mainly him so we don't have sex that much which is fine with me. The only thing I don't like about him is that he doesn't express his self to me, but I think that comes with time. I have my way of knowing how he's feeling about something. Basically I have to test him to get what I want. I like the fact the he is very determine but sometimes he doesn't realize that I am human and a Libra female too so I need that attention from him. Its hard not to linger but I am trying my hardest not to. And another thing, he's doesn't take the time out to know me more as a person, I wish he did cause if he did there would be not arguments most of the time and I wouldn't have to think he's cheating or even think about cheating myself. Its a challenge dating him but he is worth it. I am working us working as a team but a t the same time I support him in whatever he's doing and stay focus on my goals as well. This is the roughest but most loving relationship I ever been in, its crazy and nerve rocking.

I just started dating a Capricorn man. i am a Libra. yes they hard working and would work over time for fun. sometimes rather stay in doors than go out. And a little off in bed meaning they do things backwards. but we have passionate sex. I can work with him as long as he don't cheat. I wanna build a friend ship as well as a romantic one.

"a little off in bed meaning they do things backwards"

Okay, I gotta ask. What exactly does that mean? I've been pondering it for about 5 minutes and... lol

I'm wondering too. How do you have sex backwards? Orgasm first and then foreplay? If it's anything kinky, I'd rather not know.

Appreciate the posts. Some have me laughing because YES, backwards!!! Initiating sex with my cap is sooooooo slow but then WHOA! Huh? I am a 5'11" Libra. Divorced. Dated all Virgos, married a Gemini. My best friend is a Cap. So is my sister. I adore their wisdom and pragmatic approach to life. Lovers have always seen me as a challenge, a little detached and whatever...I have a lot of male friends, whom I adore. I don't get any of it.

He wooed me out of a 4 yr celibacy and then.. I don't know...settled in? It's has become weird. He loves that I am (his words) "self aware, sincere, selfless, loyal, smart and steady". But something changed. He "loves me". Okay.....neither of us wants to marry again, we have responsibilities that preclude this, and it is a long distance relationship. He is just so odd sometimes. Even for me. And I write for a living and need a lot of alone time for work.

Capricorn men are liars cheats and only have feeling for themselves and people love them coz there so wonderful until they get behind close doors and you see their other side which is very possessive, caps can be mind abusive to they are manipulative and once riled up can be very vindictive they can be quite boring preferring to sit in front of the TV for hours, where Libs are up for spontaneity . on the other side very hard workers intelligent and most will move mountains for you and the family. caps and Libs are not a good combo 2 very different people with different outlooks on life I know I've been married to one for 30 years, my mothers is a cap to

im a Libra woman engaged with a Capricorn man. its quite interesting. we have a lot of differences but im trying to work on those.. he loves video games.. and so do I. he loves to cuddle...and very sweet in private...he's my little baby. he loves to sleep on my stomach...but it public he's very formal. very shy.. wouldn't even hold my hand. having a relationship with a Capricorn is very challenging. but if you two really love each other differences isn't a big deal...

I am a Libra Woman dating a Capricorn man.. I think it will lead 2 a marriage though he's very quit and shy person and couldn't express his feeling the way I can do. its a big challenge for me to make the marriage works. I am afraid that I will get bored one day .. and I need an advice

I have dated a Capricorn man and he was mean at times he came off as mean because he didn't want others to hurt his feelings....he always wanted to be in the ruling chair didn't really find him as boring bit as far as sex I was WAAACCK...Capricorns have really big insecurities ...he always threw his insecurities to me so I could feel them too...other than that I like him a lot he was just to shut in for me

Me also a Libra dated a cappy for 8 years, all I can say is everything had to be his way or the highway, very one-sided, I don't know how I got through it. Everything was about him, him, him. But I loved him anyway and still do. If only he could of gave a little. They are very self serving, moody, mean, hurtful, uncompromising, the list goes on. But they do have something wonderful things about them I just can figure out what it is. The sex was great, but scarce. Cappies can go forever without intimacy, that's just the way they are. I can relate to just about every relationship ive read about cap men and women {not just Libras, all signs}. They are same way no matter who they are with. To bad their wonderful qualities are so short lived. Their problem is they are searching for the perfect women {which don't exist}. He always told me I was perfect in every way {which I was "my bad"} with an exception of working nights which kept us from being up each others ass all the ti me. Who wants that anyway? I blame myself for our breaking up do to the fact I was too easy going, always giving him his own way. I do thank god for one thing, we never moved in together, that would of lasted all of 5 min. Which would of probably saved myself 8 years of heartache. But it wasn't all bad we had some great times, just not enough of them {his choice}. I wont get into are break-up, it was horrible, but I will say the reason we are not together is because for the first time I refuse to crawl back, begging, pleading, writing letters etc. God forbid if he would do any of those things, never in a million years, he's to good for that. What a shame, that's ok, I don't want to be with somebody that wouldn't do what ever it takes to be with the person they love more than anything {especially when their wrong} because of their stubbornness. All I can say its his loss and I think he know that. I think it shocked the hell out of him that I made no attempts to reconcile COL{CRY OUT LOUD}. I don't know if I won, there is no winner when it comes to broken hearts. But at least I got the last laugh. {so to speak}.

hey! I am a Libra woman married to a Capricorn man for the last four years. It has been a relationship full of ups and downs but I feel that our relationship is worth the try and I have been trying my best to work things out...yes, we do have our differences. actually everything he likes I dislike and vice versa...but girls, its quite fun to do his thing once in a while and he will enjoy doing our thing is the only thing that can make anything possible...and have faith...he is the best husband material u can ever have but don't expect him to know any gentlemanly manners....u might have to be careful while entering doors, cuz he will enter first and might bang the door on ur face...he does it without meaning it...he's not courteous at all....bless him...he is adorable...

I am a Libra female, I have been with my Capricorn man for over 4 years now, actually till be 5 years that we met in July of this year. O my gosh. Well anyway, it started off where I was just so intrigued by him, he was much different from what I was normally used to, I am extremely social, I have more guy friends than I know what to do with, I mean it....of course no new boyfriends will like this, of course I am also packed with grace and excellent debating skills, so he sees it and now he is proud, he thinks I am an elegant host. He loves that people admire me and surround me at parties. People do that to him too, he is so brilliant. The more that I love him, the more that I see, Astrology and the chemistry that makes it up, isn't always accompanied by love. Love changes everything. You can be completely opposite signs and be completely in love, and its not good or bad, its whatever you want, and for Libras, that's just insanity. because NOW, Mr. Gemini comes a long. While Im all innocent, loving on my cap man, pretty sure we will do everything does get a little boring, and so I was seeing this Gemini guy while me and my cap took a break...I would never take things inappropriately far unless I knew it wouldn't hurt anyone, so this Gemini...we talk, we hang out, we laugh for hours....he is showing me things I forgot about. I am in a dilemma. What should I do? I cant treat my cap this way. I must be honest.

im a very sexual romantic Libra girl and my new Capri boyfriend is content with once a month sex. he s great in every other way so far so im really confused.... is sex a determining factor for relationship longevity or not. for the first time in my life actually don't want to cheat so im stuck being unhappy in the bed but always happy during the day. what should I do?

I've been dating a Capricorn guy who is 16 yrs older than me from the moment we met we had the best chemistry talking to the point where we cant keep our hands off of each other. I was a little on the fence about everything only because I could tell I could really fall for him If I opened myself up...We've been together and un separable now but also give each other space. He is very into work which is not a bad thing at all. very outgoing personable well mannered...good looking and loving to me. He treats me unbelievably well. the sex is absolutely amazing and the best ever he has unbelievable stamina. I am a younger charming above averagely attractive female 5'7 weigh 105 23yrs Libra I don't know if that has anything to do with the success of us so far but im sure its contributed. we laugh together so much and talk about a future together .... we both are falling in love very fast and it feels so right like we've been together for along time . we are so comfortable people automatically assume he is my husband.. we both have separate interests sure but that's healthy in any relationship to be independent and self sufficient. very compatible when love is there.

I've been with my Capricorn man for 3 yrs it was like love at first sight.. we are engaged.. but not even married yet.. like how long do I need to wait?

we've had our ups and downs.. he doesn't like me to have fun as I am a very social being.. I've put with all his hurtful words.. and moods.. I would be the first to always crawl back to him whenever we broke up... but now I've given up... last break up he crawled back to me coz I think he knows im so god damn good to him, and no other girl would treat him like a king like I do. He is very controlling needs to have his own way .. needs to know where im going .. what im doing and who with! it used to drive me insane coz he acts like my parents haha. He can be boring at times always wants to stay home if his not out working. like he usually is.. and sometimes he'll want to spend time with me .. then other times he just gets moody and not want to see me seriously who does that?? please someone explain? he tells me he loves me more than life itself etc... next minute he gets in his stupid moods and like I don't even exist!!

Well I suppose It depends on what kind of Libra you are versus what kind of Capricorn you are. Some traits stand out more than others. As for me and mine. I been with him for almost 4 years now and we are planning on marriage after I get my degree. It has been so amazing. We are completely compatible. We are silly together which is so much fun. I'm of course a Libra and I love life and love happiness, I'm rarely angry nor sad. I sing out randomly and dance when I feel like dancing. I'm meet a Capricorn who does the same thing :). The funny thing is after reading this post I found out many caps love video games it's true for mine as well. The thing is I love them too so I make it interesting.. If you want to get them away from the video games use your body. That works for me every time. Or if you can cook lure them out with food lol. Yes they are very hard workers and I'm willing to work but I can be extremely lazy. But he helps me with that, in a way he helps me become a better person. I'm not as lazy as I used to be and in return he takes more time out for us. He is incredible in bed because whatever I want I get it. And I do the same for him. He is unselfish in bed and just wants to see me satisfied so he does whatever he has too. It's a give and take relationship, sometimes he can be extremely romantic and sometimes I wonder if he has one romantic bone in his body. Sometimes he can be very aloof in public other times I can't get him off of me. He is a born leader hard worker and very social, so we are both social butterflies. But when he's upset you just leave him alone and let him come to you. But I supposed that's with all men. The thing is I feel like people look at the sign to much and not the people themselves, honestly I didn't know that Libras and Capricorns were supposed to be "incompatible" you could have fooled me. Libra's tend to be lazy while Capricorns tend to be hard working but if you find someone that willing to work with you and meet you at least half way then it shouldn't matter. He says I make him a better person everyday and if I wasn't brought into his life he would be set in his ways. I feel that same about him. You can't go into a relationship closed minded expecting someone to change for you but you don't change or compromise for them. So find someone that's willing to love you for you and in the process make you a better person. When the love is there the zodiac sign does not matter.

I am also a Libra girl date with a cap boy more than 1 yr.. and I have to say, I still so love him!! even he is not romantic.. actually he is working very busy, but he is not a home person, he is very social. he got a lot of friends. but I am kinda shy and quiet. so its quite different! and if I didn't call him first, he will not call until when he wanna meet me! I don't like this, but now I get used to wait!! coz he worth it. so if you date with a cap boy, its very big challenge. but when u look back, u will find its still sweet, coz LOVE LOVE LOVE!!

I have recently met a Capricorn man, he is my fiance and we will have an arrange marriage next month. I have been speaking to him for quite a long time. Yes I agree to the fact that caps want to control the relationship but its mainly because they are insecure all the time. My would be says that he does not want to hurt me but I have anticipated rightly that he is too scared to be hurt himself. Caps look out for a carrier women but after a while of analysis get insecure by that fact as well. I think they just want to be loved by their wife and want to work hard for their family.

mmm.... I know a Capricorn man, and he is very controlling, when I first met him, he said he loves me straight out, didn't give me enough time to say anything, he is very insecure with himself and life, but this guy is now harassing me and ringing me and texting me everyday..... they are also threatening people who can't control their own actions...... they do lie a lot and try to be very charming to get where they want you, they are cheaters and most of all, they crap on about stuff that isn't true.... if you do not do what they want you to do, they try to destroy you and any possible way they can find it! they aren't good people to certain people, they love to take advantage on certain people, I have to say but he is so much of a home person, doesn't go anywhere, he always stays put and think about the next girl he can hurt!!!!!! it is very true they don't like Libra's being social and having fun, they are jealous people, I will never be with another Capricorn man again, as they are very hurtful and moody! and I can't not stand that! and yes He is very controlling needs to have his own way like all the time.... and he always needs to know where im going, what im doing and who with! it drives me insane cos he acts like my parents, I really hate that!!!!!

Me being a Libra girl who dated a Capricorn man for 2 months what a waste of time that was, all I can say is everything had to be his way or the highway which is a true fact I hated it, very one-sided all the time, I don't know how I got through it but I did. Everything was about him, him, him. I don't love him I really didn't from the start but I do care, If only he could of gave a little it would of been a lot better for both of us. They are very self serving, moody, mean, hurtful, uncompromising, the list goes on and on. The sex was great or I should say wonderful, but scarce. Capricorns can go forever without intimacy um no they can not..... that's just the way they are. I can relate to just about every relationship ive read about cap men and women some do match and some don't. To bad their wonderful qualities are so short lived. Their problem is they are searching for the perfect women {which don't exist}. He always told me I was perfect in every way, I was too easy going g, always giving him his own way I had enough so I said it's over. I do thank god for one thing, we never moved in together, cos he did ask me to move in like straight away and I said no and thank god I didn't it would of been the worse mistake of my life, it wouldn't of lasted anyway and it didn't, and now I am very happy without him, Which would of probably saved myself years of heartache anyway. But it wasn't all bad we had some great times, just not enough of them. it was the most horrible time being with him never again I will ever go back to it!!!! but I will say the reason we are not together is because for the first time I refuse to crawl back, begging, pleading, writing letters etc. God forbid if he would do any of those things, never in a million years, he's to good for that. What a shame, that's ok, I don't want to be with somebody that wouldn't do what ever it takes to be with the person they love more than anything {especially when they are truly wrong} because of their stubbornness. All I can say its his loss and I think he knows that and I so do not care. I think it shocked the hell out of him that I made no attempts to reconcile. and he said I am his life, I am so not, I wonder what other females he would do this too.... I feel sorry for any girl that has to put up with a guy like this, But at least I got the last laugh. good luck and god ridding to you Capricorn man.....

I've been seeing this Cap guy for about 9 yrs now. We met each other very young and weren't ready to settle down but we always kept in touch. We've seen each other through some tough break ups and other life changing situations. I say that to say we never put pressure on each other to title our relationship. He does his own thing. I do my own thing. But at the end of the day his loyalty is what I love!! He allows me to be me and doesn't verbally tear me down. If I do something he doesn't like he will say it very sweetly in my ear while rubbing my chest..TMI?? point he finds a way to say it while also letting me know " hey, were not arguing about this " cause I'm good for flying off the handle with other people and he never wants to get in that line of fire. Because no yelling at him or chastising him will cause him to go silent for days! When it comes to his work, it literally comes to bed with us. He's a writer and he's always talking about a story, poem, screen play or some other ambition of his that he's working on. I jus fall asleep on but us Libras hear everything anyway!! I love how different we are. We both love to talk and crack jokes so our convos are never boring. We believe in each other and encourage each other to always be at our best. I'm not as lazy and more patient. He on the other hand, has let me into his world (which took a long time) and provides me with the stability and responsibility I need in my life. I love him for who he was, who he is, and for who he will be!! He is my angel baby!! P.S. The sex is mind blowing and the man has stamina for cross country running

I'm a Libran and my boyfriend is a Capricorn. We do have a lot in common which I've read is unusual for our star sign compatibility g as a unique couple. I don't think we've ever had a fight. From reading about people who have had trouble with a Capricorn man I feel special that I have a one of a kind guy.

I am a Libra woman, late twenties, 8 months older than my capri. Wow! what a surprise he was! Very passionate, loving, and much more social than these other capri men. Balanced in entertainment and work though extremely driven and loyal to his career advancement. He has been very vocal and upfront about his feelings for me (all good :))though he tries very hard to hold back. At first it was all about "trust". All I had to do was let go and be completely open to him, allowing him to take me as I am. We now have an immense trust for each other and I would tell/show him anything. I can sense his desire to dominate me but he is careful with this as he can sense my need for independence to balance my extremely deep feelings for him. He brought up all the tough questions right away, and we both thought we "just knew" it was right as soon as we began dating. He is exceptionally driven and gifted in bed, our physical connection is undeniable and very satisfying for me. He d doesn't always require satisfaction though and this is the only thing my scales are tipping over. He is determined to continually improve himself and cares deeply for his family. These might be two of the top five most attractive things for me about him. We are just getting started but I know he's the one for me! I have never felt more alive or more beautiful in my life and each day is better than the last, even if we have a little tiff. He always says the right thing and can own up immediately to his faults. For someone so confident, he really has his ego in check! Immensely masculine affect, convivial and inclusive. Does that sound like your average Capri? He is only 3 days into the sign, so maybe its a cusp thing. wish me luck

I am a Libra woman who is with a Capricorn man we have been together for 9 months. He is controlling, possessive, and lies real bad. He says that I am jealous which I use to be, because he was leading me to believe that he would cheat on me at times, and he probably has I don't worry myself about it! He expects me to call him like I have done in the beginning, and when I don't he is calling me asking me where I am and what I am doing. He constantly says that I don't love him anymore and the truth is that I love him very much. I have been cheated on in the past by men I've loved, and it is hard for me to open up completely. He has done some things in front of me that was disrespectful, and i've called him on it and of course at first he denied it and then the next day he came clean. I use to argue with him, and call him on everything he did wrong but not now. The truth is a person (it doesn't matter what sign they are) is going to do what they are going to do and nob ody can stop them but themselves. Not saying that I approve of it, but I don't have time to figure out what is going on with him. I have come to realize that no one belongs to no one. You can't make someone stop doing something that they want to do, you can only keep loving yourself and hope that they will do the right thing. You just let your man know what you will and won't tolerate, and stick to it. I love myself and he knows that,and he told me that he loves that about me. I no longer argue about his actions or what he does like I did in the beginning. The more I show him that I don't care and he knows if I find out something that he has done he knows that I will leave. I have brought me a new phone for when he messes up, and I find out about it I am ready to change my number and move on. My warm loving Libra heart has changed to a switch that I can turn on and off whenever I want to. I am moody just like him and I can emotionally switch up on him very quickly, and forget about him like he was a bad dream in no time. He says that I am mean but the truth is that I am very loving but I don't let him see most of it and it keeps him wondering about his approach towards me in any situation. I am not saying that he isn't worth loving but I let it be known I am willing to have you if you want to stay but I am willing to let you go if you show me that you want to stray. I don't have time for non-sense. My saying is this "No one is going to love me the way that I love me, and do for me like me!" I don't need no one to do anything for me, because as long as I have a loving heavenly father I don't need anyone else. I let him no that! Sure capricorns and anyone else (male or female) will run all over you if you let them, and he knows I can't allow it. He has said some bad things to me and at first it use to bother me, but no more. When he talks nasty to me I give it back to him and all we do is explode with laughter apologize and it's back to love. We have so much in common and then there are things we don't have in common that I am interested in learning and he likes that. I love being with a man who I can learn from and he is very intelligent and I love that. There are things that I have knowledge about and he doesn't and he loves that. We are both what the world considers ghetto and we are both down to earth, love each other, and are there for one another. I am impatient and he has all the patients in the world. I am a neat freak and he is messy. I do what I say that I am going to do and he says and doesn't follow through til he see me get upset and start to focus on myself then he gets on the ball and make things happen. I give in sometimes and so does he or else we won't get any sleep. It is true that he wants his way and I give in sometimes but that is after he does something that I want done. You have to study and know your partners behaviors, what makes them tick, what they like, and what they don't like. understand their behavior but don't try to figure them out completely. Just understand, accept and don't take whatever they do or say personal. Most people who are insecure -NEW FLASH Is going to cheat or say hurtful things. I just don't make him my focus I have things in life that I must achieve. I have accepted the fact that some things about us are different like.... I am very romantic and he isn't and this use to bother me because I am a flower, card and candy woman, and I use to argue with him for not giving me flowers, cards and candy. I had to step back and see what his type of romance was and men don't do romance the same. I realize that my man shows his romance through what he does for me rather it's coming to see me, doing something for me, and spending time with me. I now understand this is his way of being romantic. The world has shoved my type of romance (flowers, cards, candy)and lead me to believe that if a man buys you these things that he is romantic, and that he loves you. This is not true! In any relationship with a man and a woman there has got to be a wanting desire to want to be there in a relationship with someone and accepting them for who they are good or bad. Take the boring moments that you feel with him and make them interesting. Men don't know all things about a woman. I always wanted my Capricorn to slow dance with me and he would always talk his way out of it. So I just went on vacation from my job and spent my 10 days traveling with my man, and asked him and "why do you always blow me off when it comes to you slow dancing with me!" He just got up and started to slow dance with me. He wasn't doing it right. To my surprise he didn't know how to do it. He said that he always wanted to slow dance, but his embarrasement wouldn't let him tell me that he didn't know how. When I finished teaching him, he said "he liked the slow dance and he wanted to do it with me again. I thanked him, and let him know how much I appreciate him for slow dancing with me, and giving me that opportunity. Our time together and learning something new has brought us closer together. I told him I would like for us to have an open communication relationship good or bad. Our job in a relationship is to get to know our significant other and what they like and don't like, and know their style of loving and romantic ways. Decide right then and there if you would like to deal with them or not. My only advice to anyone reading this is NEVER LOSE YOURSELF OR YOUR HAPPINESS TRYING TO PLEASE OR MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY WITHOUT MAKING SURE YOUR HAPPINESS IS BEING TAKEN CARE OF FIRST! If someone is willing to give a little then you give a little if they aren't giving in then do it for yourself and don't do anything for them until they start doing something nice for you. Good Luck to everyone!

Ms. Sparkle

I am a Libra women with a Capricorn man.But a cap with addiction problems I was not aware of until we moved in togeather and the closet door slowly and shockingly begin to open! When we first started dating he was very attentive to me he would tex me over and over I liked this he would use poetic words and I would answer back the same.

I would see him about 3 days a week.I was truly drawn to his masculinity! And I enjoyed flirting with him.I had confidence I looked good was in shape ect..ect...When we moved in I noticed he changed like bam who is this man and where did mine go.I started to see his me side and wow is it a me! His addiction is alcohol 4 to 5 pint of bud ice and loco drinks 9percent alcohol! yes my dream was turning into a rude awaking.everyday I as a Libra girl would go out of her way to please him home cooked meals clean house ,laundry ect..I started giving him loans then the loans turned into never get backs or dare mention grew to be crushed.He perfers porn in the back ground and forfrount of us.THis crushes me but I settle for what ever I can expereince time has passed and now I will raise my voice to him when he always would shreek at me I do not like this but I am at the end of my rope I like to compromise and self sacrafice to try to make things work.he likes to be alone he likes to not tell me anything of where he goes and what he does he says don't worry Ill never cheat on you,but He does all the time doesn't he with every porn he puts on he never lays a hand on me I do all the work while he watches!! Are every caps like this or just the oneswho have addictions to alcohol and introduced toporn at a young age!I have gained weight and let my self go He watches tv all day long he perks up to other people and treats me like the ball and chain when I was always the bright bubbly one the social butterfly happy and full of gleeI f this cap could care for my fealings a little bit and compromise and stop drinking and watch the porn when the time is right only things would be so different but if I could turn the clock of time backwards and never of meet him Would I ? YES ,because now I am draggin my life I don't know if he cheats but I think he looks all the time I think he gets numbers and saves them at his mothers for a rainy day or just incase we don't make it he has back up typical? I don't know fun relationship not any more.Oh one more thing whenwe were dating he was such a gentleman he wouldput me before his friends and made a point to me I came first and was special which his friends two of them started to hate me and caused kaoz in our relationship One friend told me I hope you guys break up I give you 4 months hell be back He tryed to set him up and instigate trouble everytime he would talk to this friend he start a fight with me Oh another thing this cap does not like you to ask any questions none not even normal ones depends on the mood he is in it is hard for this Libra because question is the art of conversation and bonding I am sad and I keep hoping he will be that hereo that gentleman I first meet ,Noe he isa diabetic and has colistral & high blood pressure and he's only 39 I take care of him and he's still mean to me very moody and I am still drawn to him! Help

I am a Libra woman and have dated Capricorn men and have come to the conclusion that they aren't for me! Really possesive, controlling, don't like to take other peoples advice, they think they know everything! I also felt like they could never truly open up to me, like they had a wall up. I could never really feel "connected" besides for one of the Capricorn men I had dated. I was really into him, but I felt like he really wasn't in to me. I'm an attention whore and he just wasn't giving me the attention I wanted/needed besdies for when we were in the bedroom. I have never had sexual realtionshsips with Capricorn men where it was bad! They all have been good, probably my best and they ALL had nice size packages too lol No complaints there. On an intellectual level they are really bright and smart but I felt like sometimes I had to force conversations out of them. Either that or they were too much into one thing and thats all they cared about. One Capricorn man that I dated was on his phone 24/7!! That was his life. it was hard to feel like I was getting attention from him. Then when I asked him he told me that he was giving me attention and he really liked him. He told me I was thinking too much into it but I wasn't lol. Although with that Capricorn I wish he was, he just wasn't the one for me. I feel like I would be very unhappy with a Capricorn if I married one. Although, I did like feeling like a housewife. As a Libra, I am very organized and I like to clean, esp. when I am staying with somoene else who I know cares about how their house looks. So sometimes when I would stay the night at his house, I played the housewife role. I washed the dishes, took out the garbage, just over all tidy'd up his house so when he came home from work he could just relax! but all and all, if Capricorns were a little more attentive to showing me attention and being a little more open minded, I'm sure it would be fine.

I am dating a capricon man and am a Libra woman and Man its a roller coaster!!! Capricons, I have come to realise, are selfish in realtionships and don't reciprocate at all. He wants you to listen to him but not him u!! He is overly possessive, childishly jealous and does not welcome any questions what soever!! all these traits are no good to a Libra coz we are naturally just and fair people ...and expect the same from others anything short makes us really annoyed..Capricons have good sides yes but the bad side out weigh the good..Its really not worth it for a Libra..such relationship is a lot of work anfd it makes a Libra miss aher easy going vibrant charming nature as when she tries to show that all she gets is a jealous rage from a capricon..Am at the point when I Know I made a mistake but its hard to get out of it coz I am in love with him...

I notice a common theme in a lot of posts: "This relationship is a rollercoaster", and "he drives me crazy, but I'm in love and can't leave." I want to say that I can relate to these statements. But I looked at the qualities of people who are compatible with Capricorns. Perhaps the fact that we Libras always feel the need for constant approval and attention makes the Capricorn men feel like their efforts to impress us achieve nothing. I feel I can't break away from the "rollercoaster" because I feel lost without his influence. Somehow, even though he is very opposite of me, I learn a lot about myself when I try to understand him. I think,for those of you having problems, you might try just *thinking* all the time about the things he does for you and the things you admire about him. To him, your words might seem too frequent and too emotional, so he doesn't value them. Let your positive thoughts about him translate to a touch or a smile. Also, I know it is hard, but don't tell your relationship problems to anyone but a counsellor from now on, unless you think he is being truly abusive. I agree with the advice to flirt and play when he is not initiating sex for a long time. He may be growing to love you deeper, even though it feels like rejection. I think he also needs your trust, so, I would suggest looking more objectively at your suspicions and believing the best.

I'm a Libra woman that has been dating the same caprcorn man on and off for 25 years. I love him with everything in me but it has been hell. Wish I would of known all of this before I met him!

I have sat and read all of the above. I am a Libra lady dating a cap man, it is amazing! we laugh, we enjoy, we have fun, we go out, we talk, the sex is amazing, agree with the stamina mentioned above. It doesn't matter what star sign you are, if it works it works. Apparently Libra and Gemini are a perfect match, not in my experience, was the worse relationship ever. If you like each other and are lucky enough to fall in love, then make it work. Love is something that is living, it needs to be nurtured and given time to grow. Happy loving guys

The 3 top things I dislike about capricorns

1. They always think they are right/know everything.

2. Insecure-very afraid of getting hurt

3. If you are a Libra, or any girl that has a track record from your younger years, they will hold it against you forever! I have had my fair share of boys when I was younger and my CAP knows this and hates it. He keeps bringing my past up and holding it against me and doesn't give me any room to show him that I have changed, because I have. It hurts me. Although sometimes I can't blame him, I always let him know that if he plans on staying with me, he needs to learn to accept that so we can both grow together because right now, his sheild is up, and theres no getting past it. He needs to realize that I, nor him can change my past but he he truly loves me and wants to move forward he is going to NEED to trust me and accept what is done is done. But being a capricorn, he is extremly stubborn and will say all he can to make it seem like I'm wrong, even though I can just sense he feels like I'm right-I wish he would just make it easier for the both of us and tell me.

I love my Capricorn so much. Although he can be mean and tactful when he gets irritated, or thinks he's right about something and your wrong, he has a very sweet and loving side of him. He holds a lot of that side back though because he is afraid of getting hurt. He told me that he has never delt with a girl with a "track record" like mine and he makes decisions to date girls who have only been with 3 people total. I can't go back and change who I have and haven't been with, and quite frankly, If I had the chance, I wouldn't. it has made me who I am today and I am very happy with who I am. People can change its just the people like him who refuse to see that people can change and hold grudges against them that they have already moved on from. I told him I would stick with him for as long as I could but someone can only take some much. You are giving this person all your love but then your only recieving half the love back, it hurts and it makes you wonder, is there someone els e out there who will accept me and my love and what I have to offer them and vise vera. Don't get me wrong, I want it to work out with my Cap, but he makes it more diffuclt than it has to be just because he won't let go and view me in a different light.

Besides from that, he is very up front (most of the time) with how he feels. Sometimes he can be vague-he doesn't like me knowing a lot of information for some reason, I guess that goes along with his insecurity and protecting himself. He believes in stupid questions, so if I ask him a question that seems stupid to him, irrelevant, or something he has told me before(maybe even just 1 time) he will either refuse to tell me, or say something mean to me and try to break me down. He says he doesn't do that, but he does, its kind of tormenting. He feels like the way I take what he says is on me. He feels like I need attention way to much and he tries to cut it down and make me realize that I don't need all this attention to prove to me that he loves me-which is true and I love that about him. I love that he gives me tough love-because with tough love, you have to work at it and when you work so hard towards something, the reward is always better than just when you recieve it and po ssibly take it for granted. I also love that he is a family guy. He cares so much about his daughter and wants the best for her and his family. He talks about getting his family out of debt, and doing this for them and that. He has a really good heart. I also love that he is hardworking and that he brings out that side in me as well. I could see us being the best business partners and making so much money! Although he cockyness/confidence (watever you want to call it) can be annoying sometimes, it can also be a turn on. His masculine and is very attractive. His controlling nature turns me on :) lol But it also shows me that he cares-although I feel like sometimes it can be a jealousy issue, the deeper issue is that he wants to protect me, whehter I understand it or not. He doesn't really give me a lot of praise..but he does when he feels like it is needed(can be annoying sometimes because I like attention) I believe in the term "re-lighting the fire" I feel like its good to either show/tell someone you love them every once in awhile because days are long, people deal with a lot of shyt and sometimes they lose sight in what's really important. My Cap doesn't really believe in that. Yes, he tells me he loves me every so now and then but he feels like once he said it the first time, I should never lose sight in it. He tells me a lot more so when we are in bed. I feel like when we have sex with each other(which is the best I have ever had) he is a lot more open with me durin/afterwards. He'll talk to me about anything..he really makes me feel comfortable in my own skin. although i've had a "track record"(I don't really think its that bad but to him its a mess) I haven't really been able to feel fully comfortable in my own skin. I always felt like I had to do something extra to get someone to notice me. With my Cap, I don't have to do that at all. He actually thinks its stupid if I do, he doesn't see the point because he loves me the way I am. Even if I talk about doing something like working out more, or buying something to make me look better-he never sees the point, esp. if it shouldn't matter to anyone else but him-that goes along with my 'attention need'(sometimes im not even aware of it because thats just how I am) but all and all he is right.

I do like to make my Cap feel good and make him feel like he has the upper hand in the relationship-which he does to an extent but I know it makes him feel good to know that im under him and will listen to him-he likes to be the dominator lol we have bumped heads in this area before because im the independent type, I like to think for myself, and do what I want to do when I want to do it. I don't like people holding me back because then I just get very unhappy. But I have/am learning to tone it down with him and see things from his point of view-he can be very wise sometimes. Other times, I wish he would see it from my side but he always thinks he is right and that the way I feel really doesn't matter because I shouldn't feel the way that I feel (lol I don't know if that made sense but thats how it is with him sometimes). He feels like I interpret things wrong and it isn't his job to correct it-if you couldn't tell my cap is a hard ass and EXTREMLY stubborn..but I just can't help not to be in love withhim.

I hope it goes far, but it all honestly depends on him and if he will accept me for me. He says he's in love with me, but I know he cant possibly as in love with me like he says he is when he doesn't accept me for me.

Overall, Capricorns and Libras have a lot of difference, but if you work together and see things from each others sides of view, trust each other and most importantly COMPROMISE, this relationship should be a match made in heaven x

I have to say its very sad what we go through with capri males

and was worst is the us libras are just to loving all we care is bout love doing good and pleasing everyone,

i just came out of a relationship with a capri at 1 he was nice out going the mos charming men ever he even hold the door of he car,i was his inspiration until we moved to his mommy woaa what a change I lost my job and what he saw as help for my studies became a torture for me he separated me fromm all friends job connects etc was alone he constantly told me mi education level was not good etc so much verbal abuse to the point that I lost all confidence in my self the women in the mirror was old fat and ugly he just wanted me to take care of his stuff laundry food etc it was nothing big until he started to nag about me not doing it for his mommy has any of you try talking to the ex waoo I did it really help a lot cause he was an ass to her other then that I still love him our brake up was recent and even though all the stuff he put me through I cant get rid of he pain in my heart,i know deep inside the best I can do is walk away and do me be the best women I can he left me alone in the street and and job crazy and all he calls is to try to have sex crazy I cant go back to that please conclusion a capri men will turn eventually they have a dark side they hide to well also observe your men work its not all that work they have always something else behind the page,make a balance what more the good times or the bad,girls be strong as a Libra female is hard but the pain don't stay for long sometime waiting taking pain just cause we think it will change its not the answer ,stay with your doubts and walk out as far as you can

It seems as though the main message is that the relationship between a cap and Libra is either a compromise or run for the hills type. I am a Libra female who recently met a cap male. I like him and see the potential in him however there are a few things I am afraid for and dislike. He talks a lot which is great but he tends to over talk me, he doesn't show consistent attention which is a HUGE deciding factor for us libras, and he has this know-it-all I'm right mentality. He is however a great guy. He's intelligent, great with his mom, focused, driven, all that a girl can ask for but he simply doesn't know how to balance between having an opinion but hear others,giving ENOUGH CONSISTENT attention and more. He actually came out and said he can't multitask work and attention to me which went up as a red flag due to the fact that I NEED SOME ATTENTION. For me, I don't even need too much as I am independent and working on my own career, however, please have some type of consistency. Two weeks I will hear from him everyday for hours at hand and then dead silence. Nothing! He's a musician and works so during that time he was preparing for his first show however I really didn't hear much from him as he "can't multitask." Essentially, I am extremely worried about the future of this relationship because it has the makings of a great relationship or a good friendship. One OR the other.

im dating a Capricorn now, and I must say in the beginning our relationship was perfect. Actually, he don't know, but in my younger days I prayed for everything I see in him, and now im like is this GOD showing me, or have ive changed and don't want this no more. From the beginning we will text, talk, and everything, and now all what he used to do have totally change. Do I still fight for it, cause this could be the right man,or do I just let it be?

I am a Libra woman im dating a Capricorn man weve been going out for 4months now he is everything that iever wanted we do fight agrue don't everyone in a relationship do that ? well , he tells me that he love me so much and I truely believe him because he says fhe puts that on everythanq but he has lied to me before about a lot of stuff we have fun ; laugh enjoy are self ilove him so much that iwould die for him but how do iknow that he does the same we see each other everyday which that needs to stop because the the more we ssee each other the more we fight and agrue riight ? he does puts his hands on me should we keep going or brake up but , he do say he's very sorry and he get5s down to he's knees the reason why he gets physical is because he smokess weed almost everydaay when we firat meet he was really different ithinkthis relatiomship can go really far as long as we work things out right ?

im in the BEST RELATIONSHIP WITH A CAPPY' to be fair we've known each other for 10years and had one night in high school went our seperate ways and just past 8 months have been in a serious relationship yes by defenition of what Libra woman and Capricorn men are its pretty accurate EXCEPT one huge thing.... PASSION, we have soooo much passion; when we love and when we argue. I have never felt so in love so submitted and consumed to another person and he shows great strides that these intense feelings are reciprocated if anything I think the fact that we knew each other so long has a lot to do being friendly aquaintances but always being extremley drawn to each other and extremely attracted to each other we have a very big very mutual sexual appetite for each other I feel like he is my soulmate! like everything over the past 10 years had prepared me to be the woman for this man its the best relationship that has flaws here an there but our compatabillity BY FAR superceede s any flaws that we have as everyone does so if you get a cappy take his heart run w/ it and never ever look back!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its the best

---a lost in love Libra goddess


There is no way for me to keep this brief, so I won't even try.

My background: Due to circumstances beyond my control, at this time I find myself putting together my own accounting/bookkeeping business, as a Sole-Proprietor, facilitating a life-style better suited to my personal needs and future goals. Meanwhile, I am actively involved in my community in varied interests including; cultural arts, sports, community safety and etc. Middle aged, never married mother of one (teenager). Both my child and I are high achiever's and have a very busy schedule (that has a tendency to change on a moment's notice). I am easy going but have not 'put myself out there' in the dating scene (for many reason's). Subsequently, I'm completely naive to the dating games. Especially the test's of a Capricorn Man. I am attractive but no runway model. At only 5'4", athletic/curvy figure. In the past two year's I have gone through Catechism which has increased my faith and studies in religion. I have also, made a hobby of astrology, which I find is complimentary to my faith. *Please spare me your advice on the controversy between faith & astrology, as that is not the topic for which I am inquiring.

History: He is a salesman (job is insecure due to the economy - and is looking to start his own business), self proclaimed 'Pirate' (though he has told me repeatedly that he is shy- hmm?), is also middle aged (four month's difference in our age) and has never been married. At 5'9", stout figure, I find him handsome but am drawn to our intellectually stimulating conversation's. We live about 80 miles apart. We originally began conversing on Facebook, in response to a mutual friends wall posting. That was almost a year ago. We were INSTANT friends! There is almost a psychic connection that we share. Completing each other's sentences, (mostly) unspeakable understanding of one another, in each other's heads...and on and on (EXCEPT with regard to romance - he is exceedingly private about that - and I am exceedingly respectful of that)! It is, for the most part VERY cool and sometimes a bit trippy. Most days we text/IM/phone at least once a day. Several days a week, we chat onli any for most of the day, as per his request/insistence. A bit of a homebody, he will phone/IM me at night so we can watch our favorite program's together on the tely. Totally in his control! If he does not contact me, (with few exceptions) I do not contact him. He does instruct me to text/call, and I oblige . He completely lifts my spirits and by his admission, I do the same for him. There have been a number of weekend's and a week here or there where we didn't communicate. I just give him his space. I do not get jealous or behave erratically because there is no need to, we're friends. The foundation we have in friendship has been very well laid and if our astrological chart reading's are correct, we can anticipate being life long best friends. I believe in respecting his 'singleness' so do not want to intrude on his independence by stopping by unannounced or phoning/texting incessantly. Besides which, I'm quite busy myself. I think of him often and intuitively know when he is thinking of me. I just feel it, and vice verse. Typically when I get that feeling, within moment's I will receive a call or text from him. * Like just now :D

I'm getting very mixed feeling's about thing's lately. I strongly sense that he is falling for someone. When I delicately asked him recently if he is, he quickly changed the subject. That seems odd to me because we talk about EVERYTHING else under the sun. As he and I are not dating, naturally I assume it is someone else in his life. I later thought to myself, "He's been in constant contact with ME. Could he be falling for ME?!?!"

Question (s):

1. He has told me that he talks to his family & friends about me but has not invited me to meet anyone in his inner circle.

a. Of course, I've been a good friend and so I naturally come up in other conversation's b. He admires my skills as an accountant and might find me useful in starting his own business but really doesn't see the relevance in introducing me to his inner circle c. He might like me as more than just a friend but is really shy and will introduce me when he figures out his feeling's for me

2. He has had me over to "Hang Out" a handful of times but has not asked me out on a "Date"

a. Of course, you've been a good friend, DUH b. He's looking for a booty call but wouldn't come out and say that c. He's too shy and fearful of rejection so he is testing the water's by getting to know me better and see if I am "Date Material"

3. I read on many astrological sites that Capricorn Men appreciate independent women with traditional and more conservative character traits. Which may be another reason why he and I seem to click so well as friends. Though there was one astrological site that indicated a Capricorn Man will not get involved with a woman who is too independent or whom he views as more prestigious than himself.

a. True b. False

4. Recently, when expressing an interest in going on a future camping trip, I told him that would be a great thing for him to do to escape and get back to nature for a while. He's been under a lot of stress lately. He corrected me and and said "(I) should go?" [meaning himself] and then moment's later said that I [meaning me] would be welcome to join him.

a. Why wouldn't he invite you? It's cool to go camping with friends b. He is making future plans with you in it, He is "In to you!" Don't be an idiot

5. Knowing Capricorn Men, in your/reader opinion, would you say that my dear friend is

a. Happy in our developing friendship b. Considering more than friendship c. Falling for me

I am a Libra woman dating a Capricorn man for the past three months and find him sexy, smart, challenging, wonderful, passionate, driven....all the things I have been looking for in a MAN not a dude, not a guy, but a real man. And yes, he keeps me on my toes but I enjoy the challenge. He does exactly what he says which was unexpected and a joy. Being a Libra, I can get whiny about not having the everyday call and focus on me, on US, but, once you realize that your Cap truly adores you and only you, that insecurity fades away. And yes, the intimacy is amazing, they are open to anything (smile)...To make him blush just give your Cap a compliment; they are shy when receiving a sincere one! Since they are not the ones who will be overt with their feelings, tell him you like him, love him, want him (in every sexy way possible) and watch how they respond! They can be workaholics so it is important to discretely make sure you get some "us" time. They have a HUGE love of fa mily which is wonderful. Caps might appear withdrawn and hard shelled on the outside but they are lovely and soft on the inside.

Perplexed with "Mixed Signals"

My friend, a Capricorn Man (almost one year - long distance of 80 miles) and I, a Libra Woman have been developing what began as an INSTANT friendship into a very strong and hopefully lasting friendship. We are both 41 years old and share many of the same interests. Since the very beginning of our friendship I have been forthcoming in where I stand with regards to any potential relationship. I do not have the constitution for meaningless sex and would only be interested in a loyal long-term relationship with someone. I have not "put myself out there" on the dating scene. Though he is aware that I have a handful of admirer's, I have not accepted any offer's for dates. He and I share an almost psychic connection. We finish each other's sentences or will say the same thing in unison. We share positively everything with each other EXCEPT his feelings with regards to me or any other woman whom he may or may not be dating. He claims that he is a Pirate and boasts of illicit relatio ns with numerous women, eluding to his bachelor life style as a player. I sense that is partly true and partly just a facade. Meaning; he may certainly have a past to reflect such but that now he chooses to be alone or possibly may be loyal to one special woman. He said a month or so ago that he hadn't met anyone, but astrology reports are strongly indicating otherwise. He is most attracted to younger women (what man isn't? hahaha). Through time he has shared his desire to find his Perfect someone and start a family. He can get genuinely depressed that he doesn't already have a child of his own already. I have also been sensing recently, that he is falling for someone. Based on subtle thing's he has shared. I am just not certain who and if it could possibly be myself. Hardly a day goes by when he doesn't IM/text/phone me. I'm not certain if he does the same with any of his other friends. It is not unusual for him to phone me at 2AM or text me at 4AM. It is normal for him to IM during our favorite TV shows so we can discuss and share in it together, though we are miles apart. He texts me in the morning when he wakes up and again at night before bed. There have been a number of weekends and very few weeks when I don't hear from him. In those disappearing moments, which I have read are common with Capricorn's he later claims that he was in meditation and serious thought. He has much going on in his life, and as we are just friends I listen to what he has to share. I encourage him. I do not ask a lot of questions. Rather, I respect his independence and bachelor life. However, he has asked that I text/phone on a regular basis. He likes/wants to know (unsolicited) where I am, what I'm doing and with whom I am spending my time. This is new to me. I cannot think of any other friend of mine who would or has ever asked such a thing of me. Initially I would accommodate his request and quickly observed that when I'd phone, my calls would go to his voicemail or that he would not respond to my text messages. Now I do not initiate contact with him. It's not at all intended to be a game on my part. The simple truth is that I am quite busy myself and will not spend my valuable time attempting to contact someone who cannot give me the courtesy of taking my call or respond to a benign text. Though, he has told me repeatedly, hearing from me lifts his spirits. When he phones me, he has something to say. He is in control of the conversation and when he is through he ends the call. I'm not used to that either. As a Libra, it is quite natural for me to engage in natural and sometimes very lengthy conversations with regards to virtually any and all topics that arise. It seems as though he keeps phone conversations short because; a) cell calls are costly b) he is truly very shy, insecure and when he is at a loss for words he will not tolerate silence and/or c) he is fearful of rejection or that I might get bored with him. He has not asked me on an official date. He has asked me to come hang out at his place. I could not resist. After all, it was like we had known each other our entire lives. On our first meeting, he did not say a word as to whether or not he was attracted to me. No indication what-so-ever, UNTIL he overpowered me in his passion. He took what he wanted and I was happy to oblige. Upon leaving that night I was uncertain at that time if he just considered me a FWB or Booty Call or what. He knows for certain and without any doubt what it is important to me and where I stand. A few weeks later, he invited me over again. I agreed, under the premise that it would not be intimate in any way. YEAH! RIGHT! Seriously, I can be very naive and gullible. So we have met a handful of times in just under one year of our friendship. Lately, I am seeing OH SO SUBTLE changes in how he is behaving and talking with me. He is even more interested in who I'm with and what I'm doing. He is helping me out when I need something (ie. offered to repair my car, jumped online while I was at the hardware store to check stock on an item for me, completely out of the blue and without me asking for help). He wants to take a camping trip. When I told him that would be a wonderful thing for him to do, he corrected me and said (I) meaning him, should do it? Then moments later he said that of course (I) meaning myself, would be welcome to join him. He is sharing more intimate details of his past with me, without me asking. He tells me when he speaks of me to family and friends, but has not invited me to meet any of them.


All this has me wondering so many things. I do not want to jeopardize our amazing friendship in any way. I certainly wouldn't want to interfere with a relationship that he may be developing with another woman, and that would bring him all the happiness he SO longs for. He is definitely in control, and I am at complete peace with that so I wait patiently to see how this will unfold. Now, I need to know from a Capricorn Man, is this a typical friendship development between a Capricorn Man and female friend, or are my friends actions indicative that he may be falling for me?

I am Libra petite, brown and look like Halle Berry (it's true). My cap it handsome strong and with a nice pkg. He is so boring but I don't know why I love him. The sex is great when I get it. He works 2 jobs and not very romantic. We broke up for a year and then he called me so much I started to ignore his calls. I love him but can't do the roller coaster. I need sex sex and more sex. Maybe I will try for a Scorpio

I am a Libra woman stuck with a capri man for 6 years. I think they are too dominating, too aggressive and they think that they have the last word in everything. They are successful and think too much of themselves and think that they deserve the best. Always looking for a "perfect match" , overly critical about the wife. They are self obsessed, cold, insensitive and think others around them have no brain. They have some charming, smart and positive aspects in their personalities but it is not worth living with a capri for a libra. Just run away asap.

I am a Capricorn man and after reading all of these posts, I have observed that cap man are supposively insecure, dominating and not romantic. This is not all true, we liked to be controlled and persuaded, it's just the fact that some women are indecisive and the cap man has no choice but to become dominating. I personally dislike domination and love harmony of a firm, independent who is also high spirited and able to take control. It keeps me going! Insecurity is not like the Capricorn, we are awed by the high spirited Libra but sometimes we don't how to handle it. If a Capricorn makes one false move then we do feel like we screwed up, so the Capricorn hides in the cave or at work; but that does not mean we are insecure just not sure how to handle things logically. It's also probably because he doesn't want to embarass the Libra. So in a sense, our energies are down but enchanted by the Libra and we need a little help understanding the Libra into lover's lane. It is true that the Capricorn can be sometimes boring and personally I think it is the Libra's job to show him some fun! Then he will learn it, feed from it and keep going. Ladies, you Libras are like a drug to a Cap because we want that high spirit addiction! So we will do anything to keep you happy but we need a little practice to understand you and for you to understand us. Keep that drive coming and be creative and you will see we are not always serious or bu sy or boring. We enjoy you!

I am a Libra woman with a Capricorn MAN. We've been together for 5 months. I love this man with the deepest kind of love there is, and I know he loves me the same. We do have different interests, he's a sports man, coaches kids' football, baseball and basketball. I'm more into books and artsy things. We both like music, but not always the same music, which is fine. It's not a deal breaker, I believe that having different interests could actually strengthen the bond since we both respect each others need for independence. My Cap was married for 10 years and has been divorced for 3 years now, as a result of his marriage (she was a cheater and a liar) he tended to be a bit shut down at first, like he didn't want to admit the fact that he was in love. We have argued about stupid things, some jealousy issues, he is controlling in a way, but not in a way that I mind. I need to be kept "in check" because I am SO much of a libra, I can fly off the handle with no war ning- this has not happened between us- because of his dominant nature. He is very very loving, extremely attentive, he is a pleaser, he owns his own business and is determined to succeed, failure is not an option for this man. He has a creative side that I find so attractive- he can sew, decorate, fix ANYTHING, build things, he made all of the wrought iron railing on his deck. He is FUNNY! He is definitely the one with the sense of humor, where I am more reserved and quiet. He is an animal in bed. We have the most explosive sex I have ever had in my life, he is truly talented there. He is emotional and expresses himself freely, he dotes on me and isn't afraid to show it. Sometimes he changes his demeanor in public, to be sorta macho or something,which irritates me. He is a bit possessive, I can tell he doesn't like it if I have male friends, I'm friends with my ex husband, who is also a Capricorn, lol, and this bothers him, although he tries to play it off. If I get a text at a weird time, he'll make a comment, it's usually my teenager, but I think he wonders if I'm talking to a guy. I am above average looking, thin and big smile, flirty, which he likes but it could possibly become a problem if he doesn't get over his jealousy. We have fun together, he makes me laugh more than ANY man I've been with, in fact, he is the only true MAN I've been with. I will marry this man and keep him FOR LIFE! I don't think we are incompatible, no way!

I am dating a Capricorn and I couldn't be happier. I am a single mother and we work around my schedule as a parent. It does limit the time that we have to spend together. When we do see each other the laughter does not stop. Although we have different tastes in music, there really isn't a whole lot we don't agree on. I love being around him. He is always making sure I'm taken care of and comfortable. He has full interest in my home life, which he currently is not involved in, and respects my dicision to keep the two seperate for now. He does not want to take it slow whereas I, recently seperated from the father of my child and my ex of 6 years, do want to take it slow. We have talked about it and his understanding leaves me in awe along with his ability to open up. Our sex life is amazing! It is by far the best sex I've ever had and our connection is unbelievable. It is very possible that I am falling in love with him.

I am a Libra woman dating a Capricorn man. I'm a year older than him, we're both in our early twenties and have been dating for a couple of months.

We met by chance, there were many situations in life in which we could have met where we were in the same place at the same time and never knew it. We met through friends in common then started talking about conferences we attended and wanted to attend and realized we had more in common than we could ever imagine. Our life and career plans seemed to have been designed to match.

From the very first start we found ourselves in amusing chats which could last for hours, we have a similar way to think and analyze things while from different points of view, which make our talks even richer. We both can stand and stare at the same thing and agree in the conclusion we make about it and we both arrived to the conclusion from a very different reasoning that when shared within the two of us makes it even clearer and stronger.

He's somehow shy and not very expressive of his feelings. He's very devoted to his studies and his projects, very determined too. We are both idea people that tend to think big and long term. He would start and finish what he does, what I can't say of myself.

Attraction has been somehow magic. At first he was very shy and timid while I'm so straight-talking and impatient. Our first kiss was the sweetest thing ever and passion flourished as it had always been that way. I must say I could see in his eyes he was dying to kiss me and didn't dare. I don't think Caps are so insecure but scared to had their ego damaged. Between the sheets he's the kind of guy every girl would want. He's sweet and tender while passion conquers the room. Shyness can be an issue at first, sometimes we drink a little, it makes him lose himself a little bit more and act more freely.

As he's determined with his objectives, he's with our relationship. From the moment we started dating, he looked into my eyes and said he wanted me to be his first and last girlfriend. As little issues raised, he was the one to pursue we talked them through right away, which is not so easy to do for us Libras and feels great to have the encouragement of a strong Cap.

I had never met a guy so respectful and sweet as he is and never had the inner feeling that who I'm with is the one to belong forever.

We've been playing the same song at the same time in different places without knowing it until we talked about it later. He's the kind of person that texts me in the same time I'm writing to him and has a song in his mind the whole day and we later realize it was the same I had had in my mind too.

Sometimes it's hard to know what's in his mind and ever harder what he feels. I can see it in his eyes when he's not telling me something, I just know it's not the right time for him and wait until he feels it is. When we are busy and we don't see eachoter for several days can be painful as we Libras tend to need a lot of attention and when he gets his mind inside his projects he forgets about the world. Sometimes I just worry he might not think of me as much as I do or may not care about us as much as I do. Later I understand, we just have different ways of expressing our feelings. He may not say it that much but when our eyes meet, love is there and will remain as pure as it is as long as we believe in each other and share the love and passion that goes beneth our souls.

We are very different and even opposites in some aspects. What would be love without disagreement? How could we love with no challenges to overcome? From differences we grow and from challenges our mating becomes stronger. Love is a team game where the players should have different roles and perspectives and always pursue the same goal, with ups and downs and mountains to climb. Together we're stronger, together we're better.

I'm a Libra woman who has been living with a cap man 4 almost 11yrs we resently had a baby boy who he loves VERY MUCH....but sad to say that a lot of what is said is true he is possesive,jealous,it's his way or the high way and abusive mentally at times.the thing about it is that he can do something rong(not cheating)and you cant say anything about it because he gets real up set..... its like you cant correct him for his or the relationship good...but when you do the samething he gets down on you like you are the worst and abuse you mentaly. it is frustrating!!!!!!!!!!!!the main reason I am stil with him is because he is faithful to me i've never had a problem when it comes to other girls and thats a big thing for me, thank god!!!!and he is very protective of me....but I will NEVER,EVER,EVER,EVER get involve with another capricon man again!!!

Its so funny to read these because I am a Libra Married to a Capricorn man. We met and fell in love instantly. He rescued me from a abusive relationship and has protected me when I have needed it but he has never gone overboard or been overprotective. We got married after dating for a year, we now have a Taurus son. LORD HELP ME! But it might be just me but my husband is so different than the typical Capricorn. He loves Nature, he loves my passion for music and art, doesn't always understand it but will always go to an art walk or concert with me and doesn't complain and enjoys himself. He plays video games but here is the funny part. He had nothing to do with video games til we met. I am a Libra female gamer! I know right! so we share that together and he is NEVER playing when I am home from work or if chores need to get done. He works fulltime graveyard, and picks up random PT gigs. Hardest working man I have ever met. but he does fall into that category of less spontaneous, which is made up by my "lets go here" decisiveness. we have been married for 2 years now. We have rough days, hell rough weeks sometimes, but we are happy together :)

I am a Libra woman newly dating a Capriorn man, and it is amazing. Probably the best relationship of my life. Sex is amazing..where has this man been my whole life? This will probably lead to marriage. Other aspects in our charts make the attractin very strong and vey sensual....this seems to be the relationship of a lifetime..

I'm a 31 year old Libra woman talking to a 41 year old Capricorn man for the past 2 months. Everything was great in the beginning. I met his daughter on our second date when he invited my son and I to a water park. I met his family on our 6th "date". I really like him, but as a Libra I need communication. I could call him and text him several timess and he will not respond. The only time he will respond is when I ask him a specific question in a text. I'm starting to get mixed feelings...

I'm a Libra woman with a Capricorn man. We have been together for 10 years, and at first, I was really bored with him because he doesn't really show his affections through words. I craved romance and adventure, and he just liked staying at home and playing his video games.

I tried to break up with him after 6 stagnant years together but he didn't want to. He said that he would change for me. And he really tried hard.

I think Libra women should learn to see that Capricorn men show that they love us in a more practical way. For example, anytime I have any problems, he would show up almost immediately to help me. He can stay up all night to help me with my work etc. He's really sweet.

And when I was sick, unlike other guys who just hope I'll get well soon, or come over to cook/buy food for me, he would actually just come over and really take care of me, make sure I'm comfortable and keep my temperature in check etc...he would stay by my side even though I was just sleeping away...until I recovered.

I love him very much. He also has a generous spirit which I find is important to me. I cannot stand stingy men. He knows how to entertain my friends very well; always a good host, and he makes my friends jealous that I can have such a perfect boyfriend!

Give this relationship some time. He is somebody who is willing to listen and solve any problems. He doesn't believe in breaking up once he has set his mind on you. We are each other's best friends. He's not very good at compliments or sweet nothings, but he tells it like it is, and it's also really nice. He doesn't play mind games. He's really good-looking too...He's the guy I dreamt of having when I was a little girl. :)

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