My experience with Virgo Woman

by Abbey

My experience with Virgo Woman
- Our relationship has lasted 6 years
- and therefore I would like to divide my whole jury in 3 parts:

Part one: 1st Two Years
In the beginning of our relationship she was completely devoted and loyal to me. She gave me full her love. In the beginning she was with full of romance and she was ready to give her life for me. Everyday she promised so much without having the feeling of the consequences when they are left empty. She was with full of common sense and she surprises me daily with something new. She loved to send me expansive presents with full passion, and she has expected the same in return. Though she was so emotional at times she was ice cold with her feelings. Punctuality was always her highest priority. She has never tolerated late coming. In return she expected the same from my self. She was very charm and showed me things that I have never experienced in my life before. She can’t digest any sort of critics though she likes to criticize me in many aspects. It was impossible to have tiny bit of privacy with her. Every thing she does was well ahead informed and in return she has expected the same from my self. For example she never goes to bed without sending good night wish and in the morning she practiced the same. It was very important for her to receive the same from me in return. She shows extreme passion and she was fully determinate on what she does. She was totally a perfectionist. I can talk almost anything and can laugh with her the whole day and night. I was so lucky with her and had so much of fun.

Part Two: 2nd Two Years

Though we had beautiful 2 years together by than she have already started loosing her faith in me. I cannot get used of her critical nature. She believed she was always right though it was proved lately on many occasions’ she was wrong. Often she fights for nothing. She has created chaos based on her wrong thoughts. Even though it was often proved that she was fighting for nothing but she still kept fighting. In some cases however she has apologised later and agreed she was wrong. She has never learned from the previous fights and whenever she finds it necessary she fights again. It was impossible to argue with her even for intelligent subject. Very quickly she looses her temper. I must always admit the fault was mine though most of the time she was wrong. She was very demanding and fussy. Often I remind her relationship cannot functions based only on one-person feelings but you must consider both feelings. However she has never learned anything from it. She was totally a perfectionist it was very hard to make her understand that she was wrong in anything.

Part Three: 3rd Two Years

Here she losses her trust on me totally. At the last year we only fight day and night. If there were no reason to fight often she has created a reason for fight. Even though we had communication skills by our nature it was impossible to communicate with her. She has lost all her respect on me and she was really very unfair towards me. She ignored all her promises, which she has committed by the name of God. I remind her about her promises but she does not pay any attention for that. By than for example my toast was always burned and my coffee was always too sweet or she forgets the sugar at all. As a human with dignity I wanted at least some explanation from her why things went so wrong. However she gave me no explanation but dropped me like hot potato and left me in full misery. I beg her to full fill some of her promises, which she mad on good times but she has ignored all my requests. I gave all my effort and worked hard for 3 weeks to convince her some of the good things we have shared in our life. I wrote her over 20 mails and have requested her to take at least 2 minutes because of our love and read them. I wanted to remind her all the good and bad experiences we shared together. I believe all my mails were deleted without reading. Until today I have never received any answer from her accept a little note saying “it is sad but I don’t trust you” I have requested her not less than 10 times to reconsider her position and make some compromises. I was so disappointed from her and she gave me the feelings I don’t even have human dignity. Diplomacy is not a word she understands. I always said to her she was my number one lady and please do not lose that position. That was one of the reasons why I invited her to talk. I wanted to leave her with good memories. I sincerely hoped a dialogue with her because I am a person who needs good explanations for everything. I cannot understand why our relationship must end in such a tragic misery. At this point I have lost all my faith in her. Therefore I don’t believe I will ever exchange a word with her again.

My overall impression about her:
She will be loyal to you only if she loves you. Based on this she will do anything for you. She is very demanding and fussy. She is very selfish and thinks she is right in everything. She is a perfectionist and you cannot find the truth in her when she is after something. She will sacrifice anything to achieve what she needs. She does not hesitate to lie to reach her goal. She is very cunning and has full ability to plane her moves well ahead. She betrayed her husband and had a relationship with me. At the end of her relationship with me she betrayed both her husband and me and fall in love with other person. She is very dangerous and she will take revenge for every little mistake you does. She will never respect your feelings but she will always demand to get respected on her feelings. It is almost impossible to convince her you think are right. She will never express fully her thoughts instead she always hides some. Diplomacy is not a word she understands. She always crates chaos based on her own thoughts. She will keep her fights alive and she will always create a reason to fight. She loses her temper very quickly. If she loses her trust on you she will never respect you with little dignity. If she gets hurt from you she will hurt you forever. If she loses her faith in you she will drop you like hot potato with full misery. You must be always with her without bit of privacy. She has very high expectations and you must be fully committed to her. As long as things move accordingly with her wishes, she will be a nice loving wife for you. If you betray her once and stay with her, she will betray you badly all life long. You can only love her or hates her. It is impossible to find a middle ground with her and therefore in my case I must hate her for ever.

My advice: If you hurt her leave her immediately.
She will never excuse you for anything.

Gemini Man

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To Gemini man
by: Anonymous

Once again you will judge Virgo lady correctly. I have no doubt about a Virgo woman. I think you are just lacking of trust and loosing faith with your Virgo woman. Since Gemini and Virgo are sharing the planet Mercury with you, you and her must be mixed very well. You both need to compromise and figure it out why is it the problem if you love your Virgo. I don't believe for some Virgo are a cheater. It is just your imagination. Virgo is the most faithful in the world that you might not know.
Only Gemini is the one who has no faith and may cheat toward her. All that I can say is talk to her to understand from the bottom. I'm sure Virgo dont cheat. Speak to her directly-no make believe. okay.
Virgo holds the truth with good promise.
From Miss Virgo.

by: Anonymous

According to the very first to the third part of your articles and experience with Virgo woman, that sounds horrible to me as your critic reader. All Virgo ladies 99.99 percent are amazing/great as in class rang A. Virgo is delightful, reserves, determination, loyal, honest, and 100% faithful lady not the only she has a great luck of charms. These qualities is blessed by her nature. These are hard to earn for other signs. Virgo wasn't born to be a betray woman but she is some how very critical, cautions, aware of her surrounding and daily activity. Her critical nature is 100% harmless. She works hard to earn a higher standard and expectation as a result to provide for herself and a love one who she cares the most in her life and of course, anyone wants this. She is just only a human as anyone else; there is no such thing Perfect. Make sure you don't make Virgo wrong. Virgo will learn from her mistaken and will fully admit if she really did an error. Virgo always forgive and forget about a simple negative aspect for herself and someone she loves really deeply. In your case, sound you are not feeling very secure, misinterpret, lack of trust toward yourself and your Virgo. Simple, Virgo and you need to compromise to solve the mystery. I knew- Virgo loves, respects, and thinks of you more than you can imagine. She sticks to her decision and works hard to achieve it. Please, recognize and be reconsider. You don't need to leave or give up away from a reliable, dependable Virgo. Nothing to be fear or afraid. Your articles made you and your Virgo looks too ugly. Please be a little bit easy on your Virgo. I'm sure, you don't want a weak lady to be your lady. When she becomes your, she is always your. Don't confuse!! She will meet and speak with you when the time is right . I'm not trying to protect Virgo but want to be fair for this intelligent lady. As I read the Astrology prediction, there is something wrong; there is a huge planet blocks her zodiac house. Be thankful; the planet moved out now; Virgo and you must be fine, Okay. Just remember, Virgo is a human; she can be loyal or not as anyone else depends on the situations. Virgo will take all the blames from her lover or her boyfriend as I knew. She wants you to be happy 100%. Have hope and be faithful to yourself first. Don't say Virgo betray you or her husband; she is not; she buried you in her big Red Heart; she makes you look good. Best wishes for you and your kindness Virgo. Be happy; you are lucky!!
From: a Critic Reader.

To Abbey
by: Anonymous

My advice: If you hurt her leave her immediately.
She will never excuse you for anything.
Gemini Man

I'm not agree with you. Virgo is the most Loyal in the world with understanding and passion toward the one she Loved. She able to forgive and excuse with a reasonable caused. Who else is perfect and care more than Virgo? Virgo gives you lots of chance. Maybe you never knew. Your article makes me laugh.
Remember all Virgo might be different. I hope you got the right Virgo. Learn more about Virgo sun-strength and weakness. Virgo never goes wrong. lol...

by: Anonymous

Im a virgo woman, you dont understand virgos at all.
I just got cheated by a gemini recently.

I won't blam you
by: Anonymous

I'm sorry to hear that your Gemini is cheated on you, Virgo. That is why I don't trust Gemini because Gemini is flirting around too much with the opposite gender. First flirting then what is going on next? You may have a big picture in your mind. I knew Gemini men and women, please better stay away from these sign. That sign won't works for us as Virgo. The Best matches for Virgo is as a close relationship is Taurus, Cancer, Capricorn, Scorpio, maybe Pisces and Libra might be perfect an idealism for Virgo. Okay, just get out-leave Gemini. don't suffered yourself too long with a cheater. i'm your friend same Sun sign, understand pretty much. Take care

Virgos are true to their hearts
by: G

Signs do tell a lot about our personality, but there are some which may not follow prime far all the virgos i met are super loyal...and they expect their partners to be too...i'm a leo and surrounded by a few virgos acquaintances and a long as u fulfil what u promised, and that is to love them wholeheartedly and to be their support, they will stand by u also thru thick n thin...i think reading ur first 2 yrs it sounded amazing but perhaps did u fulfil what she wanted out of a relationship? virgos are criticizing but they do not like it when others do it to them...u almost have to find a softer way to express to them their mistakes but give them logic enuf for them to want to correct it.

Virgo Woman...
by: Queen Tee

As a Virgo woman reading your post, you left something out when it comes to your end. You shared everything about her but did not express what you did to trigger those emotions from her. Virgo women tend to look to the future, not dwell on the past. Once you "cross" us, we tend to let go! We are, after all, known as the "spinster" sign! I don't know what it is that you've done to cause her not to trust you but I do know that if you want her back, it's going to take a whole lot of coaxing and begging! Try taking her out to do something she enjoys a lot! Be very open, honest and lighthearted! Then, go from there! Wish you the best of luck!

Mature Virgo
by: Anonymous

You are right. Virgo buried/not dwell on the past but looks forward to the future. Virgo will not show you that she upset and will not correct you either, so Virgo will let you goes down to hell without a warning sign. I agree if Scorpio cause Virgo upset, he need to apologize her with lots of begging. A mature and serious Virgo knows all the tricks and liars. Don't get involve with a smart Virgo unless you know what to say and better be honest. Virgo will forgive you with all depend.
Many Virgo ARE BLESS/HAVE A GREAT CHARM /MODEST-Be careful she has ability to read you.

dont take advantage to a Virgo
by: Anonymous

WE, as a Virgo! We rule our head rather than emotions..But once we Fall, we fall hard and willing to give Everything we have. As in EVERYTHING!!!..We work hard to make sure our relationship will go far.But, if we get hurt more than once, VIRGOS head will kick in ,When virgos decided to let go someone no one can break that decisions even it hurts or extremely difficult they will let you go..Once your out of Virgos life, there is no usually will let you get back in....I, as a Virgo, many people around me thought i was weak and stupid coz i let them to take advantage of my generosity and sweetness..i can see all their motives, i left them in my mind.When i decided to distance my self and become totally cold towards them that is the time they Realized how stupid they are of not giving importance of Virgos presence into ther lives...Now,if you met a virgo never let them go or suffer your whole life .....(Pardon me to my english....:)

Virgo is logic
by: Anonymous

Many try to fool and take advantage of Virgo. Those people can't see what inside Virgo's mind. Not only the Beauty but Virgos have a great mind/Logical. Exteriors of each Virgo looks very cool; interiors is hard as a corundum. I agreed with the article you wrote. Virgo is not STUPID. Only a loser might think that way. Virgo cares/loves only who she suppose to. If there is some thing wrong, she will be distance. Don't try to play game with Virgo; you will be suffered the rest of your life as the article who just mention this early. Virgo will breaks your heart as well as you did to her. Guy out there should knows. It doesn't have to be a VIRGIN, but Virgo is the Symbol of the Virgin. Virgo realizes within her head-emotional is nothing. You comment up there is great!!!

To whom who rules the head
by: Anonymous

That is exactly what you meant. I'm Virgo; some people think Virgo is Stupid. They don't see what inside of our head as Virgo. They are too shallow. They only depend on their emotional to guide them.
They take advantage of our kindness and sweetness.
They are totally wrong. I as Virgo just want to observe them and know all their motivation as you just said. Virgo never falls or breaks easily as those who though. Virgo is very dependably, fair, and smart women and men. In the naked eyes, no one able to see that because Virgo do not shows the two sides trait. If you wants to involve with Virgo, you must be up to her/his standard and must rule your "head". You don't know what Virgo thinking. Virgo don't comes back to you if you lose her or him. Virgo's willed is very strong by nature no matter what level is.
Virgo above, your English is okay. The matter is you have a great mind and character. To other signs no offense.

Gemini + Virgo
by: Virgo Lady

Yes, Virgos are easily hurt despite their calm exterior. I was in a relationship with a gemini and it seems like it was an all-take, but no give relationship. We have a discriminating eye for a reason, which is why we can pick up on mind games (Geminis are notorious for this). You just gave us your version of the story, but I'm sure your Virgo would disagree that she was the main cause of the problem. Virgos don't normally just up and leave without ALOT of thought.

Peace n Love~ Virgo

by: Anonymous

Gemini caused the problem-Gemini is too dangerous. I don't trust Gemini at all. One minute Gemini is going up another minute is going down and very clever and tricky just to push Virgo down from the cliff. Be very very careful with Gemini. Gemini seems nice but it is hell. The two faces who has mindless and act as a child. I swear never ever want to meet Gemini again-worst.
Good luck to all. From: Understanding Virgo with Loving heart.

they will come to chase you!!
by: Anonymous

when virgos become totally cold towards the people they loved and cared, those people will keep coming to chase the virgos.they try everything to impress and get the virgos feelings back...oowwww,,virgo is difficult to impress because they have the highest standard specially regarding about!!, Virgos are very kind, loyal and loving, understanding..but if you revoke them, oh boy, watch out, they are not agressive or scandalous but they are dangerous in a silent never know what you will recieve coz they have their own way to hurt people by their own silent cant see it but i assure you that you can deeply feel it....

by: Anonymous

not revoked...!!being PROVOKED...

virgo who was in relationship with gemini
by: Anonymous

well Gemini is the worse they are Narcissist, he reeled me in made me feel like I was the most importent took me for everything I owned racked up my credit, And then became jeckel and hide so virgos will hide if you become hide lol in the last year he would flirt in front of me have secreat e-mails be on line all day and night but couldnt have a movie night with me because talking to other strange woman on line was more inportant probly because he bleed me dry finance wise I stood by him when he almost died never left his bed side when I feel ill he ran out the door with his friends he sat around the house didnt even try to get a job after he got laid off. I sat back waited for him to see his wrong gave him two years but he never did then when I left he expected to have a relationship of mid night calls when his ho wasnt around well he didnt like it when my virgo side kicked in strong and moved on yes im still in court trying to get my $60,000. back that I put down on the house we lived in oh he didnt put anything down we got the house because I sold my house to put the money down on the new house because I whole heartedly believed in him till I realized he took me for a ride so sham on him know he will have to live with knowing he lost the most reliable loving committed person in his life who gave him unconditional love till he put conditions on me so this guy played games with his virgo and like all Geminis they will trash the virgo and not say exactly what they did to rip the virgos heart out that they stabed in the back and stamped on the floor like it was nothing we take peoples hearts as somthing and hold it seacret and dont take it litly to being hurtfull for no reason at all yes we forgive because every guy I have been with has always tryed to win me back after they seen what they lost so I feel bad they will walk around never forgiving there selfs for what they lost after all when a virgo loves she loves all the way and it breaks my heart to know somthing I loved is hurting but I wont ever give it a chance to hurt me again its to painful to know somthing you thought loved you more then anything could hurt you so bad.

Virgo relationship with Gemini
by: Anonymous

I'm pondering; your case is similar to me as a Virgo. What can I say to you as Virgo?? Your are at risk emotionally with Gemini as a relationship. Geminis is too Selfish-Narcissistic and very Clever by blind full to you by taking every thing you owned. It is a good thing that you have noticed. You need to do some thing to break off from Gemini-free yourself; Gemini is not-not a good match for you. You have the power to overcome. I know...Virgo is very intelligent-don't let Gemini take advantages on you too long. Keep your wealth and your possession to yourself. (I know many Virgoan are rich and full of though, lol.) And look for someone who meets your standard or at least similar of personality trait who you can trust. Don't let your wealth destroys by Gemini!!! Take care.

To gemini man
by: Anonymous

Well....I must applaud you..I am a virgo woman. And yes you described to a "t" what can happen if for ANY I MEAN ANY reason a virgo woman feels betrayed in a relationship. But in my defense i have to say that i like my privacy but i love closeness more. I ask a lot of my partner and i expect to be asked alot of as well. I am nosy so much so it can be irritating even to my closest friends whom know me well. Yes can love truer and harder than any other but also i get hurt so much quicker. its a plus and negative all in one. can say truely im sorry for your loss. I know we ae hard to deal with sometimes i have to tell myself to shut up. We are so black and white its incredable. But will say that i am almost sure that everythin she promisedto you was real and she still fels that way but her vews as to what is right wont let her eat her words and actions to admit she was wrong. I agree we are sooooo bad a admitting wrong in ourselves. The only thing i can ay is I KNOW maybe not you but ME KNOWS I mean this to say just because we my never admit it we always know our mistakes. I wish sometimes i can simply say yes your right. but it seems so.....wrong. I guess this doesn't make you feel better but i know i have ruined more rlationships i can admit because of this horrible flaw of mine. I can only say THANK YOU. You have a wonderfully keen mind and half of these things you know of a TRUE virgo only can be known with time. But yes thank you for pointing out things in me i would myself never be able to admit no matter how true...good luck gemini man and they say you love and lose and always learn....

Agree with Virgo
by: Anonymous

I agreed with you,Virgo. As Virgoans, they always know exactly what they do- Virgo barely make mistake in every thing they do include personal life. Also, they know when they make mistake-but kind of hard for them some time they don't want to admit it because they are always excellent-99.99% at least.

Back to Gemini, this person always declare himself as a perfect person as a dictatorship. I found as it is hard to be compatible with-very tricky and clever-way toooo much details. Gemini always love and always lose. I cannot stand with Gemini personality.

Virgo good luck to you to us.

Dear Abbey
by: Suspicious Gemini

You're judging all Virgos with one example.

1.)Just because her sun sign is Virgo, doesn't mean she is completely Virgo. There are a bunch of other planetary aspects that determine her personality.

2.) Because of her individual, one in a million personality, you are judging the rest of the Virgos in the world, who are perfectly decent.

3.) In fact this whole thing doesn't have to do with planetary aspects but with her values and the way she was raised. Or maybe this is all your fault and you just won't admit it

My experience with virgo women..
by: Anonymous

Hmm. i had two virgo girlfriends (i am bisexual) still living with a virgo girl who was married to capricon man, now divorced. i am looking after her baby now.

They are Not bad people. i see them very strong and very business mind orientated, who is always searching for the soulmate from the very bottom of their hearts.

Very sensitive, love soft witty talking people, well dressed up and goal oriented independent people. (Easily attracted to Capricon men LOL)

Few things sometimes i find them very hard is that they are very narrow minded people.. They hate accepting difference but love to make things 'perfect' in their own way. This can appeal very attractive to gemini who just flow and fling in the wind.

Virgos know so much but do not know that what they think is only an opinion as well... but they worship their ideas, over with their knowledge, ask people to follow their ideas, very stubborn....

But they're very generous until certain extent, know how to bring ideas into businesses, know how to push their ideas as far as it gets and want to share it with people(with something coming back. Never do things for free).

Sex is the same... Push what they want if they think they deserve it. Virgo girls tend to get very depressed if the partner does not sleep with them, but never give up seducing the 'right man or woman'(even if they are married or have girlfriends.. Moral issues does not bother them..)

They have a lot of friends but they think it is only the business connection. They are VERY moody (even if they say no..), love attention (even if they say no), they love show businesses (even if they say no), rational but irrational with their wants (keep asking and bothering people until they get it).

They share but sometimes it is not necessary or too much. They are good workers and teachers but not good mom and dads... They do not accept childish side of children..

Um that's totally wrong
by: Anonymous

Typical Gem to cheat lol. That description of virgo is all wrong. We're givers, and we are really understanding, and we tolerate alot of crap over and over again (and give lots of chances). But once we're done, we're done. We value integrity, honesty and loyalty, and seeing through what the gem guy wrote (even with it being so obviously partial to himself) it's obvious he cheated, that's why she became distant.

Treat us with respect, and we'll give you the world. We can be sensual, caring, compassionate and we are willing to do anything to make sb we love happy.
Disrespect us and lie too many times- we're done.

We may seem cold on the service, but we love DEEP, and it takes us SO long to fall in love. Oh and bc of this, when you hurt us... It hurts BAD. We may appear nonchalant and might not make a fuss and scream and yell like some other signs, but we do hurt and hold it in.

When I was cheated on badly, I broke up with the guy eventually. I didn't yell, scream, hit him or curse at him... I forgave him. I'm not going to be immature to wish him death or whatever, I'm going to be the better person and rise above that behaviour.

Virgo agrees with the totally wrong
by: Anonymous

Virgo is the goddess of justice. Higher in moral, fair, and loyal. Virgo male/female can be a good parent, teacher, counselor, and doctor. These characters describes Virgo very well. Virgo has a higher mind. They're able to forgive and gives lot of chance to someone who is against Virgo. They don't like childish-which mean lacking of maturity toward to an adult. Virgo don't like being a parent some how, but if they became a parent, they teach, love, care for their children very well. Virgo is very strictly parents. Virgo is deep; no one can understand them.
Virgo is the goddess of justice not Libra as the fact and the truth. Not all sign are good or bad.
Virgo is thinking before acting. Virgo is the star at school or work. Virgo are demanding for perfect/not afraid to work hard as others signs. As I knew, many millionaire are Virgo people. Virgo is a smart people.

by: Anonymous

iswear i just gotout by the skin of my teeth in a relationship with a virgo female, and in this time she literally did what u wrote i have never felt such love and pain until her i put her on a pedastool and she proposed to me and she divorced me we have a 2 yr old and she out of nowhere says now that i am more or less nothing she assaulted me has gotten violent, i stood by her as her husband and literally i cannot believe a person who has so much love and beauty could be so mean and cruel and she is was a cheater

Virgo female
by: Roxanne

I am a female virgo and i honestly can say that i want to live a certain way but because i literally got it goin on i live it to the extreme i have slept with men and literally tried to get pregnant to keep them, i end up ruining every relationship and i like older men, one relationship i was 18 he was 34

Bad Wrap for virgo...
by: bella

wholy crap... now that is a sad angry man...I am a virgo, amd some is true and some is not. We virgios don't wait for things to happen we make things happen. we are clean amd need and take care of ourselves. However I hate fighting and would rather resolv, meeting in the middle sometimes and agreeing to disagree. If you have someone that truly loves you she will hear your side of your feeling. Virgo's love and are loyal.. the man in my life I adore he is 16 years older than me, my friends say I could have so much more. .. but the your heart pulls were it wants to be,.. he is imperfect in the most perfect ways... so he's not clean.. but he will hug me at the end of the day,.. and make dinner. A realtionship is a blend of commuinication love trust and laughter:)

by: :)



this is exactly no lie what I went through with a virgo
by: Anonymous

Im a Cancerian and the things you said about Virgo Women being selfish cold and that I don't trust you that is there catch phrase trust you are so right I went through the exact same thing. If these Virgo Women on here who were saying Virgos are so great and they are so perfect towards others why the same patterns. I have a friend who is a Leo who dealt with three Virgo Women they all did him dirty. So if they are so great why the same things happen. Also you talking about how they will jump to the next man so on point why because like you said they only care about them finding love the problem is that they find themselves with someone just as selfish and evil as them. My heart goes out to you everyone deserves to be appreciated it goes both ways not just Virgo Women and what kills me is they the first ones complaining when someone mistreats them but when they do it its ok.

by: Ira

Don't listen to them, they just don't want to hear their faults. If she cheated on her husband with you then cheated on you with someone else... well there you go. I can believe that they are capable of this just like any of the other signs though they might be the ones to least likely do it, it's possible. move on and find a better Virgo (someone who isn't married) don't listen to these whiny ones

by: Anonymous

Hello everyone, I am so new to this discussing my problems with complete stranger but I need the advice. I feel like I've been struck with a Gemini man for the past 6 yrs of my life. I meet him when I was 22 and he was 36. We hit it off fast. Great sex, conversation, and all. I ended up having twins by him.He treated me like a true QUEEN through my entire prenancy, even let me sleep at night while the twins cried at night. But a few months after the birth, he started getting on all types of porn sites, dating websites, and hiding thigns from me. He started looking and flirting with other women, even some of my closes relatives, and started making me feel horible. He said he watched other women on the WEB because I always seemed tired and he did want to bother me, which I knew was a lie. I called me stupid and jealous for getting mad at him for watchin people he couldnt get to. told me I should be happy he wasnt sleepin around. I opened up and did all that he said I was lacking and he still did the same things -- even knowing how bad it made me feel. He stated that I should trust him and the friends he has because alot of his friends lived away and were harmless, then one day I caught him on his yahoo acct. and ask him to open one of his folders with one of his friends name on it. It hadd a picture of a woman naked, playin with herself, that he had saved for himself. But he still denied he was cheating on me. It feels like things have been going completely downhill with this Gemini man for a long time. I dont feel loved, appreciated, respected, or worth anything anymore. Recently he came to my and said we should just be friends, then try to build our relationship back up. I've gave birth to his kids, brought us a home, giving myself fully to him for the past 6 yrs and he wants to be just friends!!! I was hurt sooooo bad. I just eventually got somewhat numb to him. I dont know how to completely break it off with him. I am cold sometimes, then there are times my mind tries to forgive and move on for the sake of our family. My kids love their dad so much... I nned help and advice. I stop calling him like I uese to.. now he calls me to death , but it doesnt mean anything to me, because I feel he just does enough to keep me around and thats it. He always says he loves me, and even ask if we could go to counseling. I agreed but it never happened. I dont know what to do, but this devoted Virgo Woman needs words of advice. Do I keep praying and ask God to strenghten us or do I let go? I feel like I let my Kids down and Myself. Im am a perfectionist, i know that. All our time share has not been bad, we actually had a lot of fun times with one another but the bad is starting to outway our good. Pray for this Heartbroken Virgo---I want to cut him off completely, but we have kids and they're depending on me and their dad ... :(

Abbey is right
by: Anonymous

In a nutshell you described virgo woman. In my own experience she can promise u the whole world and later on forget if she said anything.

Its all about her. I scold her for mistakes and criticize for that. She listens and improves coz she wants me now. I wonder when she doesnt want me, she wouldnot even listen if i beg to her.

If she wants it, she will swim all the river of pain, if she doesnot then wont even taste the sweet things.

She doesnot consider emotions of other being and value of a relationship for it's merit but rather her own needs.

very selfish and very professional. and yes.. big liar and smart cheat, loving as well.. guess i helped readers to know her.

WOW !!
by: Anonymous

The story u have described is my EXACT life with a Virgo women. I cant believe it !! It is soo sad that it has to be that way, cause we love them soo much. She has actually ruined my life, and i hate her for that. U are right again, u either hate them or u love them, no middle ground .. but i still really love her too :-( .. One more thing u didnt mention about them, is that they dont care when they are angry/upset .. They just leave things as is .. and basically i was the one running after her EVERY time .. no matter who was wrong, no matter who was the one fighting .. i was the one that had to run after her. She used to just leave it and carry on with her life as if nothing happened, and wud ignore me completely. It just hurts .. hurts like crazy cause ive really fallen hard for her.

air and earth combination
by: Anonymous

I'm a virgo female and my boyfriend is a gemini and we together for almost a year and trust me I sometimes I faced the exact situation as yours.
first of all let me clarify to you in your misconception towards virgo, virgo can be one of the most loyal and loving sign of all the zodiac and once she really fall in love she will give 100% of her heart and because of that she value relationship so much that u would ever imagine. This is also the reason why she will expect a higher and more quality relationship..virgo value quality more then quantity..they will never trial and error!!!!!!
Aren't u feel happy that your girlfriend keep putting efforts just to make the relationship works?...this can be seen when u said that she keep on buying gifts and surprised u often.
one more important issue, did u really think that if a girl doesn't love u she will carry on this relationship for 6 years??..ask yourself, did u ever did something that hurt her such as simply flirting around or cheating?..because a girl will not simply just loose trust and faith towards her guy..besides gemini is well known to be the most 'flirtatious' sign.
Don't make a virgo loose trust one you cause once u break it..I can assure u that it can not be fixed you can just forget about her now because as a virgo myself I m sure that she will not be back together with you.
the statements I wrote above is not to judge any person in particular but rather to said that gemini and virgo is not a compatible sign as both possessed different values and thoughts which is subsequently lead to misunderstanding.
I would like to urge u not to be prejudice towards a virgo just because of your pass relationship cause you might haven experiences the real dark side of others sign...not everyone is perfect so as a virgo.. I really feel sorry that your relationship could not be workout with her but life have to goes on.
me and ny boyfriend strives to be totally transparent to each other and find solutions for our problem because we know that we still love each other.
anyway I would also like to thank you for sharing out this article at least I can realize the weakness of a virgo and try to change it be be a better girlfriend.
I hereby wish you for finding your true love...cheers!!

lol ha men used me
by: Anonymous

I'm a Virgo worked all my life let's see I put 60,000 down on a house let him put it in his name because I trusted hole heartly and what happened he cheated with a dirty little hoe and threw me on the street with a kid to move her in the house I paid for oh ya I got s lawyer have my canceled check oh and he got let go of work I paid everything that's how he cheated on line why his lazy ass didn't look for a job I worked all of my life paid my own way and bought there shit and I got screwed over but us you say its just Virgo woman aha what ever

good for you
by: Anonymous

read between the lines i said 15 not all there is alot of good women in the virgo, but few that i have seen or knew,it gets sickening to here that the virgos are so perfect which they are certainly not just like every other sign,Me i wouldnt touch one or even be involved with a virgo never have never will a virgo female comes up to me i say see ya! they are nightmares!!!!!

not all virgo women are the same
by: Anonymous

I wish I was cunning spiteful or cold hearted on the contrary my down fall has been the understanding everyone else before me. So don't make this assumption all virgo women are the same.. I'm outgoing and self sufficent.

Be Her Compliment ;)
by: Virgo Woman

Hey don't be upset yeah. To be frank I've been heart-broken several times in my life but at this very point of time I think my ex were fantastic men. I love my gentleman unconditionally though I show in a different way.

I feel sorry for you about your Virgo woman. Gemini men r very sociable & entertaining. However, when they're sarcastic, damn, that's painful, it makes sensitive people to lose respect in them. It's okay to tease a little but don't go overboard to 'e extreme of humiliate people.

Almost everyone would react 'e same if they're humiliated unless they have a smart strategy not to show but revenge indirectly.

It also depends on her upbringing. In most religions, revenge is not encourageble unless she's a satanic, that's what 'e religion would taught them u see. Or it could have been human nature without us realizing we accidentally revenge.

I'd normally go for incompatible signs as they have what I lack of. Think of ways u could complement her as opposite always attracts. I mean if she's still worth it.

Warmest Regards
Virgo Woman

PS: U may criticise me & that doesn't matter but if u happen to fall in love with another Virgo woman, good luck. ;)

im confused about a Virgo
by: Anonymous

Im a cancer female.Ive been in a relationship with a Virgo.its been a roller coaster.I knew by the distant she was giving.there was some one she seeing.I was not going make my self credit.I made some mistake.but I never cheated on her.but we friends.but evendoe we are friends she knows.I love her.there time we would fuck around.but what im confuse is why lie about your girlfriend being your xs.if we friends.then she told me im to immature to deal with the truth.but then one nite we was drinking she flip out on me cause a female send me a picture of her pussy on my phone.then have the nerve to ask if i fuck her.I lie and said yes to test her.for her to tell me if she fuck anyone when i was loyal.i don't know she gives me mixed signal.sometime I wonder she does what she does cause in beginning I test her to see how much does she like me.but I kinda bush it.anyways I know she in a relationship.but I do love her just don't know how to play my cards of her stealing heart again

goodbye virgo
by: Anonymous

I recently divorce my wife for 7 month..shes a virgo..and what has been describe about virgo woman here is absolutely true..ijust cannot take anymore..u cannot be a bit of yourselve infront of this goodbye to regret at a pisces.

by: Anonymous

i am a virgo woman, but i am very loving... i don't like quarreling only if i got hurt i am very rebelous. after that if we both comunicate and explained our side, we are both, sometimes there is a fautl between you...... maybe both of cannot understand each other... so what can i say is that be opened to each other.... virgo sign are very me... thank you

The Virgo and Gemini sign
by: Anonymous

It talks about how much the Virgo woman was giving ang giving. But what some love back in return. The Gemini sign sounds so greedy and about themself.

Relationships are about understanding each others love lauguage and applying it to build a healthy relationship. Who on earth wants to keep giving, like a cow being milked all day long. It works both ways.

experience with Gemini
by: Anonymous

Gemini men are extremely sneaky. They try to fool virgos, but the typical Virgo is to smart to trust the two faced Gemini. I'm a Virgo, and most Geminis I know are liars.They are not nearly as loyal as Virgo. They will be cheating on you the entire time. Geminis can't be trusted. Us virgos know better. If you are dating a gemini as a virgo, my advice to you would be to never take your eyes off of him, because he is sneaky and he's probably doing some stupid things behind your back. Watch em ladies.

If a man hurts a Virgo, it is their problem to deal with the results standard....
by: Anonymous

Virgos will be the most loyal but if you hurt them and take the mick, then I feel sorry for that the partner involved.

Virgos don't play when they have been taken for a ride. All I got to say, is that guy better find the solution to getting on her good side or one will see a not so nice side.

At the end of the day, whoever hurts a virgo, it is their problem deal with it.

Virgo girl:)
by: Anonymous

wow...well some parts are totally true! we can be really mean to others and non-care about their feelings . we can be really selfish and determined.
but it kind depends of what people take from us.. we are very reactive.

it is true that we always find some reasoning to argue, I mean: only true if we dont love you anymore. we become impossible. I know

that's the time we have to move on without hurting ourselves or you! sometimes Virgo are stupid enough and stay in a relationship for awhile whithout love trying to manage it. until everything is broken.

I think we have to learn how to move on first .. but I think maturity helps us in that sense!
I am just 23 years old.. I know I can be terrible. but I dont do that to hurt people.
I just express my opinion in a very intense way. Hhowever, I believe Ii am humble enough. I know that I am not right all the time. I think Virgo is very self-conscienss but is too proud to show all the flaws.

we hate to be wrong, but who doesnt?

take care,
and good luck,


My experience with a Gemini woman!
by: Anonymous

First off I'm a Virgo woman I'm a lesbian and let me tell u if a Gemini approaches u run head for the hills. She approached me for one I really had a crush on her. She was intellectual funny attractive and I thought she was my soulmate it was love at first site! I gave up everything for her loved her trusted her til she lied. One thing we virgos hate is a liar! Long story short I didn't trust her after that I broke up with her but u know gemini's are determined to have what they want! Well I took her back I let it all go! I forgave her after was cool for a while we were happy and back to the old us! Well she started lying to me and lying on me to her friends! I felt betrayed. It felt like she was trying to control me and take over my life. She didn't like my friends but expected me to like hers and wanted me to be around her and them. It just got worse and I had end up falling deep in love with her she started accusing me of things later on I found out she did and she made me crazy I had to investigate because I didn't believe her. She started disrespecting me putting me down had me on a double date as a third wheel because I had the money. But even after I broke up with her I still had her back and chased her til I got fed up and when I no longer wanted her she wanted me. We got together Oct 2007 & Broke up Feb 2009 & I left her completely alone 2010. Gemini's just take take take and never give and that's y u never give a Gemini UR all or love them more than yourself well lesson learned! One thing though I still love her and think about her and wonder if she's ok but I refuse to go back and go through that again! I'm cold and no longer am the same person she took apart of me with her when I left her.

virgo lady
by: Anonymous

I know a virgo lady and she fights all the time she will find your problem or make one and fight about it just like you said . I'm a sag and in my opinion this woman is a stupid clown that loves material things ( she gets happy when se gets gifts note it must be expensive ) she fighted my whole family but when it came too me I knew what she was gonna do before I was prepaired long before she started. She wouldn't look me in the eyes until she's ready too fight. I normaly just laugh at her point out her faults then she cries . Not that I wanna do it but she gets so personal its like she wants to be in controle of you. I think when she cries its not hurt its really because she can not be the boss. I have thaught at one stage that she is the devil planting seeds waiting for it too grow and boom !!! HUDGE fight. Lol I see her planting and I know what her amo is gonna be . Its kinda like she is the villan in days of our lives. No I don't like virgo woman . Who wants every day life to be a fight.

Terrific Virgo
by: Allen/HK

I had 7 years love affair with a Chinese Virgo lady. I love her and hate her as. We fought over stupid thing every three to four days. They are selfish and they are very demanding from their partner. You have to be perfect and she can be excuse on any things she did wrong. She loves to continue date her Ex behind you. You never know what they are thinking, whats their agenda for life and they trust no one because they also lie all the time. Everything she does, she use a calculator to assure she is the final winner at the end. Oh! she never admit she is wrong. Even you caught her with another guy, she will give you some stupid reason why she did nothing wrong. I finally dump her. My fortune teller told me, if I continue to have relationship with her, I will go NUT and destroy my life for good.

just broke up with a gemini man
by: Anonymous

As a virgo, I started dating a gemini man a month and a half ago. In the 1st 2 weeks everything was great, because he was trying to impress me, but once that stopped, because he has managed to make me like him, he wasn't all that fun and insistent as in the beginning. More than that, tried to make do things for him, like cook for him! Not that I would have a problem with it, but if I never heard from you that you want me to be exclusive, don't expect me to treat you like my boyfriend while u haven't claimed me to be your gf. We virgos, need commitment. After a month, my genius virgo brain started telling me: if he doesn't make you happy now, in the beginning, how is he gonna make you happy in the future? if you became so unsatisfied with this sort of relationship, how much more miserable are you gonna feel just a couple of months away from now? So whoever said above that virgos look into the future rather than the past, is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. I never complained to this gemini man about anything, I always seemed happy and content. But deep down inside I was analyzing everything about him. So at a month and a half, I wrote an e-mail to him and told him I don't wanna invest neither time nor effort anymore into this thing because I am rather stressed than happy. And the guy was like ''woooowwwww, where does all this come from?'' he totally didn't see it coming. We virgos are VERY SMART. And we analyze every single thing about you and then put it in the equation and if the result says ''it ain't gonna end well'' we'll be out the door. When you like a virgo, decide first if you'd like a long lasting relationship with her, instead of ''let's see where it goes'' cause she'll know it and dump you.

OMG Did we date the same women
by: Anonymous

You are so right you hit it right on the head with Virgo's I cna't thank you enough for writing this because it makes me fell better knowing that I did all the right things to make it work. IT'S ALL IN THEIR MNINDS....

my say
by: virgo woman

Im a virgo woman...we are loyal to friends n family and when in love cherish our partner. But sometimes this is our downfall..we are seen as gutless and a doormate.,,until we explode.Yes,,cause of our giving nature and we are thought of as gullible ..We are actually intelligent and hardworking people and actually help others better than we can help ourselves.We do see the lies but think hey things will get better,.We need to know how you feel..not game playing..we will only shut u out is you stuff us around over and over,,we dont forget but do forgive,,yet the trust will never be the same..I suppose if you treat us well .we will do the same::}}}

spot on
by: Anonymous

I read this having just ended a relationship with a gemini man...I being the virgo woman.
However, when reading this I didn'tknow it was written by a gemini man. I laughed into my's so accurate and similar to my own experience!

virgo women
by: Anonymous

My experiences with a virgo women were pretty much the same. They are very mean and sadistic. They will say and do whatever it takes to get what they want. They had lots of people that they call their friends and even their friends think they are friends because the virgo can act like a friend very good. What these "friends" of virgo don't realize is she is using them to get something she wants and that's all its about. She could care less about her "friends" really. Example.... A drug dealer that sells to a virgo will have a life long "friend" in the virgo unless she finds a cheaper dealer. Then the "friendship" the dealer thought they had with the virgo will disappear and said dealer will never hear from the virgo again.....You can replace the word "drug" with anything sex,money,power...At least that is how any virgo woman I've ever known is...

Robotic Virgo
by: Anonymous

I have many Virgo friends and they, trust me, as a rule piss off everyone frequently( with or without a reason). In fact, everything they do has a logic given and understood by no one, but them. They are jealous, annoying and extremely shallow. Perfectionist is just the wrong word. They are "Robotic". It's like a machine in a human body and that sucks when you have to deal with it everyday. I found the best way to deal with the 'lot' is to treat them as emotionlessly as possible. Have a mental connection, that's fine but no emotions please! Besides, they lack the 'spark', most signs have.

gemini men cheat - fullstop!
by: Anonymous

I was involved with a gemini guy for a few years. The relationship was at his convience. He cheated at least 4 times and I was stupid to still forgive. It came to a point where I now almost hate him for the amount of emotional rejection he put me through. He is a scheming, conniving person who will keep you on a string and dangle you around for fun.And he's def a SEX addict, lots of chat and talk, but not much action. My heart has been through hell and back. Its not repairable. My advise to a virgo woman: he won't change his cheating lying ways - I've tried. Move on, you don't need a man that treats you like crap.

The Gemini Man
by: Anonymous

I believe every word you wrote about that pain in the ass Virgo woman. My sister is a Virgo - she all the things your Virgo is and she also cheated on her husband because she did t get her way.
My friend Ed is married to a Virgo woman and he is miserable in his marriage. She doesn't care respect or love him. His wife is just "in it" for herself. She made him relocate to another state and he took a BIG cut from his income. She's is also a horrible mother tho their daughters. We, his friends and family HATE her.

Virgo Woman Leo Man
by: Anonymous

WOW! You are dead on. I have dated a few Virgo women. Two of them were involed with someone when they started dating me (I found out later) so, They will cheat. They plot, scheme a lot thus the reason they are so suspicious of the loyalty of others. One Virgo I dated wasn't a cheater that I know of but she got off on picking petty arguments about nothing, she was very insecure, I never had any privacy, she totally smoothered me, accused me of cheating all of the time and I was faithful actually, never admitted to being wrong etc. I can totally relate to all that you have said. Problem with the last Virgo woman was, we were friends for many years before we started dating. seemed like a good ideal at the time but once we crossed the line, she became very insecure. I never understood how she could be so selfish and hateful then be very giving and loving. She wanted me around her constantly and contrary to what people say about them not showing affection in public, she was always affectionate with me. She brought a lot of DRAMA too and I didn't like that at all. I never knew her true feelings until one day she swore I was cheating on her and she broke down crying. She cried for a few days and opened up to me as much as her pride would allow her to. I was baffled because she had no proof of anything and she was very wrong. They are very paranoid people and need constant reassuring. When we were good together, we were GOOD. When we were bad, it was the worse. In the end, I walk away with no explaination and never returned.

Another Virgo Woman
by: Mpho S

All i can say is, as a virgo, i am very loyal and trusting and once the trust is is the end of the road for me. i can be too kind and generous which is often mistaken for stupidity, believe me, the intellect in me can see that and once i have safely seen what a person is up to, i distance myself!

Becarefull with virgoans, they are loving and generous and treat them well and you will be fine, if you cross them, they can be so cold you cannot believe that they are the same kind and sweet people. they have extreme characteristics

Virgo Girl
by: Anonymous

True Virgo's can love like hell and can take revenge like hell, Its better to remain distant fro m them or else you will loose every stability in your life, The above comment Is a perfect Portray, My virgo girl was all same.. better remain safe than to fall in for her.

Virgo women...
by: Anonymous

I am surrounded by Virgo women - we get along pretty well, but it is only because I REFUSE to be drawn into any of their dumb thinking (plots, hair-brained shemes, etc.). For the most part the ego-driven Virgos are not intelligent, but they are interested in the idea of knowledge, so they "read" about things yet never apply any of the learning to their lives. They like to appear smart, because it gives them a sense of power over their lives - and others. They simply tune out reality, so I just don't argue with hurt, trying to survive people. I never fight with them simply because they are the underdog who shouldn't be beat on. On the other hand, my Virgo girlfriends who had solid, stable, and emotionally involved parents do not possess the shallowness of a bruised ego, which is the driving force of the mean-spirited, negative Virgo. My hurt Virgo friends cheat while married, emotionally cheat with married men when single, and see nothing wrong with it as long as their needs are getting met. They pretend to care for the wife, but don't see the situation clearly simply due to their needs. Once again, they just don't see clearly, even if they have been cheated on in their past, which was probably swept under the rug in their brain. They are usually responsible employees, but they mix business and pleasure as they are needs driven. So they end up compromising themselves to meet their needs, which is only stupid after the third time. Like I said, I am talking about my hurt Virgos, not those who had their emotional needs met as children. With Virgos tendency to erase the past they have a very difficult time changing how they approach life. And without exploring the past and letting it actually go from their spirits, change does not happen. Not an easy task for any sign, but very hard for stubborn, think they know-it-all Virgos. Little do they know that those kind-hearted friends who have stuck with them SEE RIGHT THROUGHT THEM. They don't have us fooled, we know them, and love them anyway. We are all screwy one way or another, but Virgos do serve a challenge due their inability to let go of the past (that they don't realize they are stuck in).
I am an or woman? You decide.

Love keeps people together
by: Anonymous

I am a Virgo in a relationship with a beautiful Gemini woman. She is and will always be the girl of my dreams. This is not new love as we have been in love with each other for over a decade and a half ... I wont bore you with the details but she is as wonderful and sexy to me now as she was when I first laid eyes on her. I know other people perceive her to be a bit cold and heartless but always for the right reasons. She is generous very loving to the right people in her life. I love how you can't just roll up on her and impress her ... you have to put in work! she is an amazing flirt but that comes with the territory of being so stunning but she leaves no doubt in anyones mind that she's coming home with me. I am born in the heart of the VIRGO sign and honesty, loyalty and faithfulness are just a given if you can make me believe that you love me for in that moment you have found a friend for life even if we become lovers we will have always been friends first... I am sorry that your Gemini/Virgo relationship has been littered with lies and deceit but did you ever consider that these were faults in her character and not her star sign ... but true to the word, if the love is gone then cut your losses for true virgo's don't come back for seconds. I just wanted to let you know that LOVE is bigger than star signs that are not compatible. btw the mere sound of her voice still gives me butterflies :)

virgo woman
by: Anonymous

The sign is an indication of how they can be. If you follow everything, virgo women are super intelligent, perfectionests and super loyal. I.E fussy, needy, worry-warts and won't hesitate to leave you if they percieve something better. She like to dress nice, and clean house. The last virgo woman I met was infatuated with the kardashians, dressed nice, and cleaned house...She had no concept of literacy, couldn't understand my fascination with learning new things.... And most important, I'm taurus. If you ask something of me I will do my best to complete it, and if I promise something damn right it will be done. A virgo woman will forget it 5 mins after she said it...

Virgo women are selfish..
by: d'zosa

i'm gemini man, i have this virgo friend for past few months, not dating just frndz.. she was interesting, fun and very talkative, all these when she is free.. but if she is busy with work, she is terrible, will not even bother about you.. i showed anger couple of times, since didnt return my cal, but later we talked and things were normal.. after few days, all of sudden she got angry on me for a petty thing.. he shouted at me and I felt humiliated.. she avoids and acts as if everything is over, not talking to me at all. i never did anything hurt her intentionally.. donno wat bothered her, but she is not ready to talk about that as well.. How can one change this much, from very friendly to deadly cold in such short time. She is very selfish, always talks abt her problems, will never allow you to talk, she can criticize you, but you should not.. she expects u to be free when she is, but if she is busy you shd not bother her. she can be anything, but you should be perfect. They say all good things like loyal, patient, caring.. wats use of all those if you dont show it.. bottle up all feeling and burst out oneday hurting others.. I feel terrible when i hurt somebody, since somethings bothers her, i want to know and correct it.. but she is not allowing that, this hurts me more.. anyone know how to crack their hard shell.. i just want set things clear and move out, dont want to hold this grudge forever..

by: Anonymous

Virgo..for one is virgin which means fresh..You don't know as much as you think you do.You pour dirt on people and get mad if its poured back.You do live in the past because you have to have something to fuss so called intuitive nature comes only from your (often),many wrong thoughts that you hold in your head,which is where you live most of your life.Your sign dictates that you want people to kiss your butt to be around you While all the time you never realize that you don't live in a perfect world.If you were so intelligent,as many of you think you are..You would have figured this out by now..SO STOP LOOKING FOR WHATS NOT THERE!!..How many of you understand that?.Probally none because you cant get past yourself and your selfish ways..This world and the people in it (OWE YOU NOTHING!!).A smart person wouldn't give you the time of day.You guys really aren't a match for anyone..You cant even tolerate

Virgo?????...WHY ARE YOU HERE?
by: Anonymous

Why is it that virgos try to capitalize on the word smart?.Ive been around alot of virgos and smart wouldn't be my first thought..Anything negative about themselves they wont own if brought to their attention by another.I can think of quite a few words other than smart..Ive been to and graduated from college and of all the students,The ones that I knew to be virgo got more pity for being slow.They would argue with the professor over grades that they didn't think they should have gotten..I mean whose the teacher and who is the student?..Who do you think you are Virgo that the world should bow to you?.What can a virgin show a person with experience.I feel sorry for you guys..And just for the VIRGO,I hope you understand this..(Im not perfect) wouldn't fool with one of you if you had the only pair of arms I needed to feed myself with.Because I can bet you this..It would cost me if I did..In more ways than one..My heart goes out to the poor saps that get involved with the Virgo Female.

That why they got "go" at the end
by: Anonymous

If you meet one, keep going..LOL!!! They are called VIR-GO for a reason.Only the Devil would display the character of a Virgo..There is never any love.There is only just now..The Devil is cold hearted and tries to justify it being right..The Devil is selfish,Fussy,moody,spineless,and is "LOYAL" only to being those things.The person is only there so those things can be directed..LOL!! As soon as that person sees the Virgo for what they are,The Virgo moves on to the next so they can save face..The only thing a person will ever be to the confused and mixed up Virgo is a vessel for their evil devilish spirit to hop around from person to person..The people that are under this sign are just to slow to catch on to whats happening to them.They are easily misled that's why the devil chose them.The only love sign is "GOD"... not virgo.I do feel sorry for you guys because you wont even understand this..

2 years i've been with virgo
by: Anonymous

I have the same story the part 1 because it has been 2 years now virgo, i wish i don't have the part 2 & 3 but i a bit scare that basically what you have told here is right about virgo woman, it looks just my girlfriend now, she has divorced her husband then met me so on. It just like you wrote here she is just like that, 99,9%. Somebody in this world who don't agree with, they are all virgo's themself. Sometimes it was hard to talk, They have a nife in their lips, i love her but i am getting sudden hurt sometimes though, i thought all virgo are egoistic, hard and easily overhelmed by their weakness, it is because i love her, i am still trying to stay with, but unclear. She is strong but it looks not quiet clever as well, Not actually organized, cuz i have always clean the room than her, easily change the plan we had sometime, and it was ridiculous one. Perfectionist but not perfect at all. Understanding but run mode is so complicated. Work is her joys. Money is not actually organized. Perfect workaholic one's. Dangerous i know i love the devil. But i love her so much i just don't know how to be with because her unstable mind out side. She will realize later that she was wrong even she will never said so. When everything is right it is wonderful but Virgo is not other signs, very special and so dangerous female in the world.
To be honest!

Signs we don't like
by: Anonymous

I can't stand Geminis, Leo's or Pisces. Geminis are snakes tjey act nice but they really are snakes. Leos are full of themselves. And pisces along with the gemins are liars. We know what they are about and don't fall for there foolish games.

It's simple
by: Anonymous

As a female virgo, the answer to this one is crystal clear to me.

You did something that broke her trust in you. You refer to a mistake? That mistake seems to be the trigger point. Once trust is broken you will never be allowed back into the inner circle virgos hold so close to their heart. It takes virgos a long long time to allow you into their inner circle, which offers you unwavering loyalty, kindness, support..... Virgos will move mountains for you if you're in there. However do not cross us, do not betray us and whatever you do, do not lie to us (even the tiny white lies). If you do, you're out! It won't be an overnight experience, we will start to distance ourselves and emotionally we will deal with the break-up whilst still in the relationship. Once we are over you, we will leave you without a second thought.

So you are right, you can never go back on a big mistake if it involves betrayal or dishonesty. However my friend don't blame your virgo lady for this, you made the mistake after all!

by: guest

Unfortunately, I am a Libra Female which lives with a 10 years older Virgo sister. This is not a good position, communication is very exhausting. In our childhood many things had happened, but unfortunately bad things gone worst for the past two years. I returned home after I studied abroad, and my sister started to show her true self. She is envious, she started to ignore me. Do to that, I do not go to kitchen any more, and I am in the bedroom most of the day. I know everything about her. She lies, she creates chaos, she talks awful about our parents, she criticised them blaming them for her life, she is so envy that she wants other people bad things, she slams doors, she puts my things away, she is a control freak that cleans everything after mum and me, although it is clean. I said just a little bit of things, but living with her is like a living with a creature wanting attention 24 h a day, a crybaby that things that other people do not deserve happiness.

Gemini man with virgo woman
by: Anonymous

Virgo women are liars themselves... They like to make things look perfect, but if you have any bit of common sense you'll see that's pure bs. Very irritating people in general. I'm a gemini man, been with a virgo woman for 6 years, and we have a son. Many of the things they say about geminis are true, but it is WHO I AM. If you don't like that then don't date a gemini.. She can't take any criticism, but sure can dish it out. The definition of a hypocrite. She likes to pick fights, and bicker all day. Virgos secretly hate themselves. Every virgo you talk to will lie about this, but it's the truth. I don't know what will come of this, but I admit, as a gemini, that I have cheated on her (so has she to me btw), and I will do it again whenever I need to. At least I can be honest about it. She knows this... I'm two faced right? Well this gemini will give you both and be upfront about it. It is who I am. A virgo can not think she can manipulate a gemini into being what she wants him to be, it just won't work. Love me, or leave me alone.

Aquarius woman with Virgo woman
by: Anonymous

Hi everyone my virgo girlfriend is so loyal and kind and caring and loving, understanding. But me as Aquarius woman I am very unpredictable.
I've been through a lot in my pass and still struggling with my past. My girlfriend was there for me all the time until I started to push her away by hurting her feelings .I commit suicide and she was there for me and after. But the next 3 days she broke up with me and wanted to be just friends she didn't give a chance to make things right but with her ex she gave them alot of chances and they cheated on her and use her. I had no chance I guess im in lucky cause of past relationship. Now we friends we text alot saying good night and good morning with kisses. Foes this mmeans that will I get another chance , will she give a chance to get back with her. She the reason why we break up because I told 2 white lies and invade her privacy. She said she love me and miss me but can't get together not now. So is there a chance.

my experience with virgo woman
by: Anonymous

I cannot agree more. Whatever you said about your Virgo happen to me. They are smart they know exactly what to do to make you feel good but they just won't do it. Yes, they cheat too. But you can't.

My experience with Virgo Woman
by: Anonymous

Ever heard if you can't convenice but you can confused her ? Wel you confused virgo but never betrayal , lied or ask from money from virgo.

I am virgo and most of my relationship need to bulit on trust. I make mistakes but I learnt from them. It seem the girl you are dating a young lady which can be childish. Not all virgo are mean. But yes their critical and sarcastic some more cannot handle it. Just igmore their comments they prefectionist. No matter how right or wrong they are , Virgo tend to do work trying to prefect no faults. Virgo does not like to blame for not giving their work 100%.

Especially when you teaching someone. Virgo expect a full attention and they very impatient sometimes which they have to repeat all over again. Put yourself on someone else shoes before you critise anyone.

Gemini man they can be friends but not as lover because gemini has two personality.Trust me I have a few friends who gemini, cancer, leo, sagitarius but I can't stand pisces especially woman.

Most of virgo friends are non earth people because do take note, virgo they do keep their enemy closer so they analyse non-earth character. What to avoid and what they have to paid attention more.

Hope this will help you when you have a friends who are virgo. One more thing virgo have dry sense of humor they don't talk much during familty gathering because virgo hate crowded place.

Gemini man and Virgo woman
by: Anonymous

To the Gemini gentleman in the 3 year relationship my question to you is...what did u do to her to get to this point? I am a Virgo so I can relate to the issues and characteristics you speak of with your Virgonian. However, this type of behavior is usually sparked when we feel betrayed or hurt by something you did. Also this may not be what you want to hear but you two aren't necessarily compatible zodiac speaking. Virgo is an Earth sign and you are an Air sign. Earth beings are mostly structured and grounded while Air signs tend to go with flow which tends to send signals to an Earth beings loyalty radar. If she doesn't trust you most likely it's for a reason. If you want to regain her trust again I advise you to try and be as transparent as possible with her until she feels comfortable enough to put her faith back into you again.

Cut All Tha Bullshit
by: Anonymous

I guess since I was borin on may 23, ima gemini.
But look here everybody, do yall even believe every fuckin thing on the internet?
Half the things they say about Geminis I dont believe about it , n Iguess ima gemimi, some thangs similer. But its fucked up becuz yall Virgio women getting on this man ass becuz he tellin yall about about his situation with his girl, BUT , thats yo fault fofucking around with her knowing she had a husband.
N to the person thaf said "Geminis cheat and all.that extra shit., everybody aint the fucking same, God created do wtf we gotta do in.this world, we was born to die, and we have to complete our mission to get where we needa be.
Thats like u saying, Geminis are gay, the fuck???
Shit, my Mother raised me to be respectful to.others, be on my shit, far as my career, school, wat eva the fuck.
Quit judging people man.
Only God can judge.
And only God we gon trust..
N idk if yall believe in God, wat eva tha fuck yall believe in, LIVE YO LIFE, AND WHO EVA THA FUCK YALL WITH, , IF IT DONT WORKS OUT, Yall needa, FORGIVE YO SITUATION, AND MOVE THE FUCK AROUND.
Point blank.
Evreybody dont cheat, everybody dont steal, everybody dont kill,
So quit trting motherfuckas like everybody the same, cuz we are not.
Shit I been thru shitty relationships, but say, we are not perfact, and not all my relationships were shitty, n my ex just leftd me recently, n she a virgio, but like I saif.I dont believe half of the thangs they even say on here, but at.the.same time, Virgios do got some points,
When they get mad, they get pissd off , quick, BUT ,
Hell, its people in this world thaf get pissd off like that,
And they not even "Virgios" wat eva tha fuck
But other then that, I can say my ex been hurt and mistreated and dont tolerant anymore from anybody else, so wat it is,.they are afraid and fear to get hurt again, and they have alot of anger in them, n release it on others, but.hell, I do too, cuz I have me, but.doesnt make it.right, ill admitt, I meeda change and control my anger and get better relationship with God First, then your relationship.
And.ive apoligize to my love ones who id released my anger on, .and it been times I act selfish, but shit, everbody act selfish befor, so should nobody act, at all.
I learn thag was wrong as I was growin.up, and I quit .
Becuz.we all needa get this.understood, no matter wat "zodiac sings " we was born under,
Get ya life with The man.ubove the clouds, get your priorities rights, get your goals situated, focus on yo career, wat eva tha fuck yall gonna do sith yall selfs, even if.yall have kids, make sure yall kids is takin good care of, n stay strong, be and THINK positive , at all times, and dont think negative.
Now , like my moms always told me, if u have gutt feelin about somebody or somethin, stick with yo gutt feelin, n move the fuck around, becuz.if.u dont, n it.happens, shit dont be suprised it happend to.ya hahah on everythang I Love.
And idont give a damn who take this personal, in the cool , yall can take it up the ass fo all I give a fucc,
And forget my language, just hear and look sayin.
This is life, we all fuck up, we all go thru problems, we all have good timez and bad times, so fo the man who went thru this, I might be a "gemini" and I feel wat u saying too, but im not on yoside either, cuz you cant show yo weakness , and keep makin up excuses about thangs, cuz u knew this gurl was married, so why the hell u was even fuckin with her, naa man, u trippin, right hand to G.o.d , I wouldnt even do that shit, fuck all that, thats how relationships start kurrupting and at the moment, u was acting selfish becuz.u wasnt giving a damn about.having a man, n u just wanted to fuck, and you.caught feelings. And I DAMN SURE dont support that cheating shit. Just seeing my mom been cheated on by her ex and my Pop, hell na, for one, if I was single, and I aint married , cant nobody tell me I cant fuck or date, even tho thats a sin having sex n u not married, but we all had sex n some of us wasnt n never been married. But , while im in a relation ship, ima treat my women with respected , love, trust , all of the above, in good ways, cuz for one, if I dont like be cheated on, why should I, knowin that hurted me wen I was cheated on, dont mean ima back. No, thats like saying, " ok, since.u was two face to me, ima be two face to you," shit that aint how it go, even tho people tdo u wrong, u still be right to others no matter wat. But either way it gos, both of yall in the wrong. Doesnt mean, yall cant change yall cant change, have Faith. Thats how it is, so "Virgios Womens" yea, its wrong yal been thru it, but, quit judgin, cuz everybody is not the same, n it is what it is, say nomore.

Virgo's are Great People
by: Anonymous

I am a virgo woman. I agree with a lot of you that we virgos find it hard to except when we are wrong in a situation but at some point we will admit and say Yes I Am Wrong!! Especially if we love you.. When it comes to forgiveness and and chances, Vrigos take a lot from the person they love and only when we have had enough the heart turns cold toward the person and no matter what you say we won't change our mind. We love with all of our hearts and give with out being selfish. Iv'e been cheated of by a Taurus (ex) through out our relationship. I gave him many chances until one day out the blue i just decided it was enough and that was that.. Only advice i can give is once a virgo woman loves you never hurt her and make her doubt you. Because she will become distant!!!

virgo and family members
by: Anonymous

We are 2 older female relatives. Most of the family have died now so I feel great responsibility for A. I'm a crazy gemini and she's a perfectionist virgo. She drives me mad with her fussiness but I love her with great loyalty. She has lost so many friends and the rest of the family avoid her as she drives people crazy with all the negativity. I am the only person left on this earth who is bothered about her. I appreciate all the kindness and care she showed me all our lives..typical Virgo, service to others.... she cooked good meals, made clothes, kept a lovely comfortable and clean home.She has given us so much care and attention. I always remind myself of this because she also drives people crazy over time. She can only see the downsides. The sun is shining but she'll always say it's cold. She thinks people are thinking nasty thoughts. She is always finding fault, like...this cheese is too strong/has no taste, this cake is too dry, the shopkeeper gave me the worst bit.I'm not perfect either so I try to always remember that she is kind and loyal.It's all the Virgo analytical stuff that's driven all her old friends away.I's very sad but she just can't help it and she'll never change.I drive ppl crazy with my Gemini inconsis tency but I can charm ppl. It's not fair but it's lucky.It must be hard being born a Virgo.

by: Anna

Hi, I'm a middle age Virgo woman . I meet The same age Leo guy on site. . Physical attraction was very high and bits of what and where we want to go in life.
We only chat for short period of time ..
I am very careful and picky in dating guys .. normally just cuppa talks if I don't like what I see and more that would be first and last time
I don't see handsome or best looking as important truly I believe personality, bad manners and attitude can turn the person ugly.. having said that doesn't meant beast is
I am not too keen about why am I so stubborn when I like someone especially this ,Leo guy..he wasn't chasing me like most others does actually quite the opposite .. surprisingly that is the attraction I like to get to know him we both interested in each other .. my side is serious and positive I only wants for rest of my life no game no one night stand or short term.

My Leo date told me he looking for commitment and ready to find a partner and start family
He ask me if I wanted anymore children.. I said No but if I love you that much I can have just one more is all as I'm not that young anymore.

Our first meeting we slept together regrets from me because I felt hard for this guy like no others..he made me feel secure comfortable so easy content in his arms. I fall in love no doubt about that.. I feel as I found happiness and satisfaction .. no one else will take his place

Its been four days after meeting , he never call or text.. sure he was aware of I may fall pregnant with his child and he wanted that to happen for sure.

I text him hope he is safe and well as I do not know because since that night he never contact me. Why???? I don't understand really .. He came to my place there is no reason of what so ever for him to not want me as a partner or a mother to his child because I believe I have those qualities duties as am capable independent organized as person.. I will keep the baby but won't be under his name, I've sent txt to him just to remind that if pregnant test is positive I won't let him know and I'll be out of here "moving house"
I am now starting to get pissed off the way he treated me .. my experience I will move on soon when get to the point where put him out of my life and won't be nice if that happen so hopefully he turn up sometime soon . I don't have his number anymore as I deleted it to stop myself from texting him again..

Anyone have any idea I should deal why this guy acting this way .. or is there anything I should know. I would appreciate any comment at all..

virgoans love deeply
by: Anonymous

Well, there must have been something you did to bring out the worst in her. We virgoans give our all, when we love. Virgo ladies love hard, so they hurt bad too. A cancer male hurt me deeply, I'm still healing. A gemini guy is promising love now, keeping my fingers crossed. My advise, keep it real with a Virgo woman, and you'll be loved for the rest of your life.

by: Anonymous

So I'm a Virgo woman and I have some advice for the ones complaining that Virgo females left them.
Yes it's true, a Virgo woman is a dynamite. You can only love her or you can only hate yourself for not knowing how to love her
She needs real love, not virtual love. So if you can't do this head towards other signes maybe you are too weak for such strong women.

I am a Virgo woman
by: Anonymous

I am a Virgo who got involved with a Gemini man. He begged me to be with him. I didn't have a good feeling to become involved with him. My gut told me " no don't do it" I did anyway and that was the worst mistake I made. He turned on me! He treated me like I was the bad guy and shunned me. He is a liar, sneaky, attention whore, a flirt, and he doesn't own up to the the things he do. He's a snake!!! Ladies stay away from Gemini men. I will never get involved with another one that's for sure and I hate to use the word never.

Gemini and Virgo
by: Anonymous

Okay, I am writing this having the experience of once being in a relationship with both a Gemini and a Virgo (not at the same time though, obviously). The difference being I am female (Gemini) and my partners were male.

Now to all you who have written that Gemini cheats and blah, blah, blah. I am a Gemini and I have never cheated on anyone. That betrayal is unforgiveable in my mind. Also in my relationship with the Gemini he was loyal to me without a doubt and completely devoted. When a Gemini loves, truly, and is loved in return they will not cheat. This experience I take from my brother and sister's relationships, and they are both Geminis. My sister has cheated but didn't love wholly nor was loved wholly(not that I personally see that as any excuse), my brother has not. He would simply end the relationship. But when he loved he gave it his all to the point of his own destruction.
I don't believe you can blame a person's starsign on whether or not they'll cheat.
That being said, to all those who's opinion differs and claim Virgo to be non-cheaters and pinnicles of morality, know this- the Virgo male was unfaithful and abusive towards me in every way possible.
It took years to recover from the harm he did me, but I don't blame this necessarily on his being a Virgo. I would think very seriously before dating another Virgo male though. I don't think I'm particularly compatible.
I guess my point is Geminis have a bad reputation as cheaters which I don't think we've earned. Am a Gemini and know many, the only cheating one I know is my sister. The ratio being 1 in 10 Geminis that cheat.
My other point being is that relationships are so convoluted and complicated with two sides to everything. I think you really need to understand the person before you make such remarks as 'Geminis are fickle' and 'Virgo woman are cold'. Because neither are really true, they may come across that way at times but they aren't those things. They are just surface illusions that obviously a lot fall for instead of looking deeper. The reasons they come off those ways end up revealing a person with a soft and delicate centre that can easily be hurt.
So yeah, I guess my point is stop being so damn judgemental and seeing starsign personalities so black and white when they are anything but.
I know Virgos strive so hard fo perfection but I think you all know deep down that you are no where close to it, just like everyone else, so please quit your declarations of how horrid and morally corrupt Geminis are how Virgos shit doesn't stink, it's time to take those blinders off people.

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