Gemini man

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Gemini man profile - personality traits & characteristics

Enthusiastic, charming and clever the Gemini man is good at almost anything he puts his mind to, and can make anyone laugh. Add this to his light and inquisitive personality and he has a lot of sex appeal. He is very friendly and communicative by nature, and this can sometimes be seen as flirtatious.

Gemini's are the intellectuals of the zodiac, known for their cleverness, curiosity and excellent communication. Always questioning and often insightful, they're typically fascinating, light spirited people with a diverse knowledge. Highly adaptable, they’re fast thinkers and fast talkers, often able to get inside other peoples heads while discussing almost anything. Due to this your Gemini man is likely to be a challenging opponent in an argument!

The price paid for his intellectual firepower is a relative lack of emotion. Sometimes he can think too much, and feel too little, which has some consequences in many aspects of his life. These arent all bad - he's never too emotional or draining, and always quick to make fun of a bad situation and find a solution to it. His mental complexity can however sometimes come across as contradictory, superficial or unreliable.

Dynamic and exciting he's easily bored, and favors variety in all things. He probably has multiple interests, each holding his telescopic attention for short bursts.

Gemini man as a lover

Ageless, charming and clever, Gemini is an excellent communicator, and can talk the birds out of the trees. Exciting and stimulating lovers, they have their own brand of charisma, and if they set their mind to pursuing someone will typically succeed.

The Gemini man is an undemanding and flexible lover, so in the bedroom a partner can be as adventurous as they like! The Gemini man appreciates variety, and is a good choice to experiment with if you get the urge!

Gemini man sexuality

He will prefer sex being somewhat unpredictable, and in the long term this can be a challenge. One thing to know is that in some ways he enjoys the theory more than practice, and has a good imagination. If you like sex once a week, on Tuesdays, at 8pm, and only in the missionary position, you can still keep things unpredictable by talking about wild and unusual ideas during sex. “I was just thinking we should do xyz on your desk at work..” etc. Don’t worry, he won’t hold you to any of it, so be as outrageous as you like!

Ideal partner

Deep, mysterious and interesting, without being too emotionally needy or intense. Someone who keeps him guessing, and allows him a lot of freedom. Ideally they would have their own interests, and be spontaneous enough to surprise him occasionally.

This is a very insightful man, and this comes with a price. Everything has multiple sides, and often maintaining a fixed viewpoint is the only thing which allows order to made from chaos. While the meaning of the twins is often taken as being two-faced, it really represents multiple viewpoints of the same subject. You may see a square, while your Gemini man sees a three dimensional cube. To use an extreme analogy, it's sometimes hard for him to say 'the sky is blue'. He's more likely to explain about gas molecules acting as a wavelength filter than to notice the beauty of the end result. Nothing is straightforward to him, and he may often get so buried in details that he can’t easily see the big picture. Due to all this he really appreciates a lover who can point it out to him.

Commitment and Long term

Gemini get some bad press in this area, related to getting bored with partners. Work on the assumption that the day your Gemini man totally understands you will be the day he gets bored of you, and act accordingly. This isn’t a sign you want to bare your soul to, or share everything with! Be as mysterious and deep as possible. Gemini’s love puzzles, and the trick here is to be a human puzzle.

Gemini men gift Ideas

New!.. We now have a dedicated section for Gemini man gift ideas with examples of the types of gifts which Gemini men enjoy within various categories from naughty to practical. Includes reader submitted suggestions and feedback.

Using astrology to really understand a Gemini man

It’s important to note that we’re only considering a persons sun sign in this article. There are many other planets which can have an equal or greater effect on their personality. Makes sense, as ultimately everyone is of course unique.

Your own personality is also a significant factor. How you see someone, and how they see you is a matter of personal perspective. It’s why you may think someone is wonderful, while your friend can’t see it.

To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them (the two are ultimately the same thing) we need to calculate those other planet placements from their date of birth, and compare them to your own, and then interpret the results.

This unlocks the real power of astrology, and gives much more useful and specific information - everything from how they view you, how to turn them on, how to avoid arguments etc. If you would like to explore this further please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

Gemini man - other articles and guides

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