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Gemini man personality traits and characteristics
Enthusiastic, charming and clever the Gemini man is good at almost anything he puts his mind to, and can make anyone laugh. Add this to his light and inquisitive personality and he has a lot of sex appeal. He is very friendly and communicative by nature, and this can sometimes be seen as flirtatious.
Gemini's are amongst the intellectuals of the zodiac, known for their cleverness, curiosity and excellent communication. Always questioning and often insightful they're typically fascinating and light spirited companions with a diverse knowledge. Highly adaptable, they're fast thinkers and fast talkers, often able to get inside other peoples heads while discussing almost anything. Due to this your Gemini man is likely to be highly adept at flirting and very hard to beat in an argument!
Being so insightful comes with a price. Everything has multiple sides, and often maintaining a fixed viewpoint is the only thing which allows order to made from chaos. While the meaning of the twins is often taken as being two-faced, it really represents multiple viewpoints of the same subject. This mental complexity is however sometimes misconstrued as being contradictory, superficial or unreliable.
To give a deliberately exaggerated example of this it may sometimes be hard for him to say 'the sky is blue' - when he knows it isn't. Nothing is straightforward to him, and he may often get so buried in details that he can't see the big picture. He's equally likely to explain about gas molecules acting as a wavelength filter than to notice the beauty of the end result. Because of this he's likely to appreciate a person who can point it out to him occasionally.
As with other highly intellectual signs the price paid for his mental firepower is a relative lack of emotion and a very low tolerance for boredom. He thinks too much, and feels too little, which has some consequences in many aspects of his life.
Dynamic and exciting he's easily bored, and favors variety in all things. He probably has multiple interests, each holding his telescopic attention for short bursts.
Gemini man questions
What are Gemini men like in bed?
Be as adventurous as you like! Your Gemini man appreciates variety, and is a good choice to experiment with. He will prefer sex being somewhat unpredictable or varied. In the long term this can be a challenge for those leaning in other directions.
One thing to know is that in some ways he enjoys the theory more than the practice and has a good imagination. If you like sex once a week on Mondays at 10pm and only in the missionary position, you can still keep things unpredictable by talking about wild and unusual ideas. Don't worry, he won't hold you to any of it, so be as outrageous as you like to keep him guessing. It's the mental stimulation more than the physical which is important.
Are Gemini men kinky?
This is always a hard question to answer, as one person's idea of kinky can be very different to someone else's. Individuals also vary a lot, so this is a bad area to generalize in. All things being equal though, Gemini men are amongst the more kinky, yes.
What's it like dating a Gemini man?
Ageless, charming and clever, Gemini is an excellent communicator, and can talk the birds out of the trees. Exciting and stimulating lovers, they have their own brand of charisma, and if they set their mind to pursuing someone will typically succeed. He is very friendly and communicative by nature, and this can sometimes be seen as flirtatious whether intentional or not.
How loyal are Gemini men?
Gemini men get some bad press in this area related to getting bored with partners. Work on the assumption that the day your Gemini man totally understands you will be the day he gets bored and act accordingly. This isn't a sign you want to bare your soul to, or share everything with. Be as mysterious and deep as possible. Gemini's love puzzles, and the trick here is to be a human puzzle. While playing mind games is generally cruel, in this case it will be indirectly appreciated.
How to know if an Gemini man loves you?
Gemini men are often unromantic, so love notes and whispering sweet nothings isn't normally their style. They're typically fairly straightforward and will outright tell you they love you. Often the bigger issue is determining how sincere they are. If you're questioning the sincerity the most obvious physical signs are that if they love someone they want to be around them all the time, they'll share personal details with you and get a little jealous (less so than most other signs) if you hang out with other people while ignoring them. For a full description of how a Gemini man acts when in love please see our article on Gemini in love
How to understand your Gemini man
Your Gemini will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see our article on astrology compatibility readings.
Who are some famous Gemini men celebrities?
We have a list of the top 400 most famous Gemini celebrities and historical figures.
How to keep a Gemini man?
Your best approach is to be deep, mysterious and interesting, without being too emotionally needy or intense. If you can keep him guessing, and give him a lot of freedom you'll find it's repaid. Ideally you should have your own interests, and be spontaneous enough to surprise him occasionally.
How to know if your Gemini man is your soulmate?
Relationships are complex things, comprising hundreds of individual elements. Sun signs are one of these, however a detailed analysis of everything is required to find all the strong and weak areas. Please see the article on astrology and soulmates for more information on how astrology can be used to determine if someone is your soulmate.
Gemini man long distance and online relationships
Online relationships and long distance relationships have unique challenges. One of these is that you get to see one side of someone very clearly: their personality. You don't however get to see anything about other factors such as sexual attraction. My compatibility reports address this by scoring all factors alongside each other so you can see the whole picture, with any strong or weak areas highlighted. To explore this further please see my article on online relationships.
Do Gemini men cheat?
Generally they don't. But, this is the type of question that often gets asked or answered whenever astrology is discussed. Individual experiences are then quoted back and forth as proof that Gemini men do or don't. Individuals get offended by general statements that don't apply to them, and everything goes downhill fast. The diagram below shows the problem here:
Astrology can predict someone's personality very accurately when the placement of all their planets is calculated. In that situation we can also predict their most likely behavior.
From just someone's sun sign however we can only predict some aspects of their personality and it's too much of a leap to try and predict behavior from just those. Astrology has fairly precise limits. This is an example of an area where sun signs are just too broad and clumsy to give an answer. A real compatibility reading is required to answer the question.
How to make a Gemini man fall in love with you?
This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Gemini men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
Gemini man gifts
We have a dedicated section for Gemini man gifts with examples of the types of gifts which Gemini men enjoy within various categories from naughty to practical, including reader submitted suggestions.
Gemini man dating advice
No advice will ever apply to every Gemini man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn't nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
How compatible are you with your Gemini man?
This depends on far more than just your sun signs. The complete picture of your personality and his is determined by numerous planet placements at the time of birth. To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them we need to calculate those other planet placements from their date of birth, and compare them to your own, and then interpret the results. This unlocks the real power of astrology, and gives much more useful and specific information - everything from how they view you and how to turn them on to the best way to avoid arguments.
We specialize in providing accurate and affordable astrology compatibility readings delivered promptly via email. This reading explores everything about your relationship, including a detailed analysis of your personality and your partner's personality. We examine areas ranging from sexual attraction to problem solving. Each topic has clear explanations, scores and comparisons to averages. The relevant astrological charts are included, together with notes of how the information is derived from them.
Average size is 100 pages. The reading is $27 and includes an unconditional guarantee, free email questions and free revision if you later find a more accurate birth time for you or your partner.
All the analysis is based off of the date, time and location of birth for you and your partner. Ideally the times should be as accurate as possible, but we can work with the best information you have.
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Gemini man compatibility
For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships with each of the other signs we have a separate index of articles on Gemini compatibility
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Gay Gemini man
Everything in this article applies if you're gay or bisexual. On this broad sun sign level astrology works the exact same way. Over 15% of our clients are gay, bisexual and lesbian.
So is this article conclusive?
No! This article is based only on sun signs. In order to provide a lot of people with information those are a convenient and fast way to generalize, but far from conclusive at this broad level. There are many other planet placements which all affect someone's personality.
To get a complete picture of someone we need to take all those other planets and their interactions into account. To do this we need to create and interpret their natal chart. For information on what's involved in this and the opportunity to obtain one for yourself and your partner please see the compatibility readings page.