Seducing Virgo

Seducing Virgo is reasonably easy, the main thing it requires is some patience and care. It's worth paying extra attention to grooming and clothing for this sign. Don't wear anything too outrageous, as it will make them uncomfortable if you go somehwere public and they feel you're drawing too much attention to them. Similarly they value personal hygiene, both in themselves and others.

If you're going somewhere public with them, don't take flowers or any other gift which may draw attention - they really prefer to blend in, and if they feel the whole world knows they're on a date they'll be a lot more self conscious, which will make your task that much harder.

Virgos are intelligent people, with active and analytical minds. They are often fairly quiet and shy until they're comfortable with you, and this may come off as being uninterested or aloof. You may need to do much of the talking initially, and that's okay because they enjoy listening. They really are wonderful people, but you may need some patience during this process until they start to open up a little.

They like strong and stable people, who know where they are going and how they're getting there, so it's often better to talk about yourself initially while seducing Virgo, and save questions about them until a little latter. Amongst other things they tend to be very modest, and will feel uncomfortable if you ask too many questions early on as it will often lead them to cataloging their perceived faults. Try to keep the conversation on an intellectual level and not an emotional one, objective rather than subjective, and don't corner them into having to share their feelings on a subject.

They usually have a good sense of humor once they relax, so when they start to make jokes it's safe to assume you're making progress. They tend to be very self conscious, so don't stare at them too much or hold eye contact overly long.

Restaurants

If possible choose somewhere relatively relaxed. A booth in a 'normal' restaurant will serve you better than a dark and blatantly romantic restaurant. Food choice doesnt matter too much, as they'll be too busy processing to notice much.

Getting Virgo into bed

This can definately be a challenge, especially if you aren't patient by nature. Equally though, it can be one of the most delicious aspects of seducing Virgo, depending on your viewpoint. You'll almost certainly need to take the initiative. If the whole idea of that turns you off then keep in mind these are typically timid and gentle people, so it's a lot easier than it might sound on the surface. On the other hand, if you're used to more passionate and impulsive types you may get the impression your Virgo isn't interested, even if they really are - so don't give up!

If they like what you're doing you aren't going to get much (if any) positive feedback or encouragement, however they won't have nearly so much of a problem telling you to stop if they don't like it, so "no news is good news" here - proceed until they do something to stop you.

Terrible as it might sound, a lot of the fun with seducing Virgo is in 'corrupting' them a little, but the first time isnt the place for that, so keep it simple initally. Don't be surprised if your Virgo is fairly quiet afterwards. They need some time to analyze and process before offering much in the way of feedback. Again, this can be a fairly endearing quality, as a small smile from your Virgo will soon tell you more than a two minute passionate discourse from someone else.

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Seduction using real astrology

Astrology can be a very powerful seduction tool, going far beyond the generic tips based on sun signs discussed in this article. We’re only considering a persons sun sign here, while there are many other planets which can have an equal or greater effect on their personality. Makes sense, as ultimately everyone is of course unique.

Your own personality is also a significant factor. How you see someone, and how they see you is a matter of personal perspective. It’s why you may think someone is wonderful, while your friend can’t see it.

The main challenge with seduction is having a very limited window of opportunity in which to sell yourself. Astrology can show you exactly what to put in that window.

Best of all, it allows you to be yourself while seducing someone, and not worry about having any artificial formula to follow. I have two articles detailing how you can unlock the real power of astrology in this area:

How to use astrology to make HIM fall in love with you

How to use astrology to make HER fall in love with you

Further reading

If you're looking for ideas on where to go for a date, there's an excellent ebook 300 Creative Dates, which lists romantic, unique, fun and affordable suggestions.

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Related articles

See our guide to the Virgo man or, our guide to the Virgo woman

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