Seducing Aquarius

Seducing an Aquarius can be a lot of fun! These tend to be free-thinkers, and sometimes a little eccentric. They typically look totally normal (no you wont see someone in a purple furry hat!) but they are hard folk to categorize or predict. One of their main personality traits is indeed being unpredictable! There are some common traits however:

Where to go

Your Aquarius is going to be 99% concerned with your brain, how you think, and who you are. As such, advice about what to wear or where to go is largely irrelevant here. This sign isn't concerned with appearances, beyond common sense and general attractiveness. Be yourself and go wherever the mood takes you. Somewhere which allows a lot of uninterupted conversation is highly recomended however.


Aquarians definitely prefer intellectual partners, and communication is very important to them. To a large degree if you can find topics of conversation which fascinate both of you then you're three quarters of the way there, and seducing Aquarius is almost too easy. Not least because they tend to see things a little differently to most people, which can make them both fascinating and insightful to share subjects with.

Aquarians tend to be non-conformists, and appreciate others who are fairly independent and free thinking. While this doesn't mean you'll score points for wearing a bone through your nose, you don't need to censor yourself with this sign; they're very hard to either offend or shock, and in some respects the more unusual your thoughts, ideas and history are, the more you'll interest them.

Aquarians value their independence, and aren't overly emotional, so don't raise the subject of long term commitment, marriage or anything else too heavy too early in the relationship.


Again somewhat unpredictable. Aquarians generally aren't constrained by social norms, and if they find you attractive enough they're not beyond wanting to sleep with you on a first date. How attractive they find you will be more a factor of how well you mesh intellectually, and how interesting they find you.

Long term

You'll probably be your Aquarians best friend before they even consider a long term commitment. No harm in that, really it's how things should be anyway.

Aquarius seduction using real astrology

The above is written for the "typical Aquarius". In practice however each Aquarius is different due to their other planet placements (moon, mars, venus etc) and some extreme examples may not resemble an Aquarius much at all. This general information therefore isn't nearly as specific or accurate as a real astrology reading.

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Aquarius compatibility

For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships with each of the other signs I have a separate index of articles on Aquarius compatibility

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Aquarius and Leo compatibility
Aquarius and Virgo compatibility
Aquarius and Libra compatibility
Aquarius and Scorpio compatibility
Aquarius and Sagittarius compatibility
Aquarius and Capricorn compatibility
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Further reading

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