Seducing Scorpio

Seducing Scorpio can be a major challenge, and it's worth opening with a warning that this isnt a sign to toy with. Scorpio's are highly emotional and highly intuitive, and will see through the superficial in a heartbeat. They’re a very hard sign to fool or manipulate. The best advice is to ‘keep it real and allow your Scorpio to show you how much fun ‘real’ can be.

This isn’t the fake 'say whatever to catch your man/woman' type. If they’re attracted to you then they’ll genuinely want to own your soul. Make sure you’re ready for that level of intensity before pursing your Scorpio on a whim or impulse.

Flirting

The more naturally passionate you are, the more attractive you will be to your Scorpio. Your best approach is to make conversation about a subject which you get genuinely excited about. Travel, dogs or whatever as they’ll soon be more focused on your emotional content and delivery than on what you’re saying, so don’t worry if it’s otherwise boring or inappropriate. Just make sure you get worked up about it.

When picking a topic of conversation to get worked up about, note that unlike other signs, Scorpio's can handle the bizare, taboo and gritty, and will often find more emotional enjoyment there than in more normal or positive aspects of life.

Wow these folk are HOT!

Yes, your Scorpio has got some serious sexuality going on, and if they start to view you as a potential partner you'll probably get a window into it. This sign is the embodiment of everything dark, mysterious and sexy, and they wear it like a black velvet cloak. If it was fake it would come across as cheesy, but you'll know it's not an act, which is what makes it so powerful.

Cheating

This is worth a special mention if you're contemplating seducing Scorpio while otherwise entangled with another: Don’t do it, and don’t think about it. Your Scorpio will pick up on it, and you’ll probably pay the price tenfold. Regardless, it’s safe to say your first argument will probably relate to jealousy, and you will need to adjust your view on flirting and having friends of the opposite sex. This is a sensual person, who will give themself to you unconditionally, 110%. The catch is, they won’t settle for much less than the same in return.

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Seduction using real astrology

Astrology can be a very powerful seduction tool, going far beyond the generic tips based on sun signs discussed in this article. We’re only considering a persons sun sign here, while there are many other planets which can have an equal or greater effect on their personality. Makes sense, as ultimately everyone is of course unique.

Your own personality is also a significant factor. How you see someone, and how they see you is a matter of personal perspective. It’s why you may think someone is wonderful, while your friend can’t see it.

The main challenge with seduction is having a very limited window of opportunity in which to sell yourself. Astrology can show you exactly what to put in that window.

Best of all, it allows you to be yourself while seducing someone, and not worry about having any artificial formula to follow. I have two articles detailing how you can unlock the real power of astrology in this area:

How to use astrology to make HIM fall in love with you

How to use astrology to make HER fall in love with you

Further reading

If you're looking for ideas on where to go for a date, there's an excellent ebook 300 Creative Dates, which lists romantic, unique, fun and affordable suggestions.

For seduction advice the most popular and arguably best value courses available currently are How to be irresistable to men and How to be irresistable to women.

You can read reviews of these and other dating and seduction related resources on my relationship e-book reviews page.

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If you're looking for general information on seduction techniques, check out Jesse Allens awesome site ApproachAndSeduce.com - it's full of down to earth tips and advice on how to seduce the man or woman of your dreams, together with information on related subjects such as building self confidence.

Related articles

See our guide to the Scorpio man or, our guide to the Scorpio woman

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